{"id":978,"date":"2022-05-29T17:48:41","date_gmt":"2022-05-29T14:48:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=978"},"modified":"2025-03-24T16:36:49","modified_gmt":"2025-03-24T14:36:49","slug":"cum-este-sa-fi-sincer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=978","title":{"rendered":"Cum este s\u0103 fii sincer?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen lumea de azi, c\u00e2nd este promovat ambalajul \u0219i coperta, imaginea \u0219i nevoia permanent\u0103 de aten\u021bie a unor oameni, c\u00e2nd superficialitatea conduce, oare mai reu\u0219im s\u0103 fim sinceri?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0103 spunem ce g\u00e2ndim, ce credem, ce sim\u021bim&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 e mult mai u\u0219or s\u0103 ne ascundem \u00een spatele conven\u021biilor \u0219i standardelor sociale. \u0218i totu\u0219i&#8230; putem s\u0103 fim sinceri?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E destul de greu s\u0103 fii sincer cu cineva care nu \u00ee\u021bi r\u0103spunde cu aceea\u0219i moned\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E greu s\u0103 fii sincer c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti invidios pe ce are cel\u0103lalt sau c\u00e2nd tu nu ai ceea ce prezint\u0103, cu arogan\u021b\u0103, cel\u0103lalt (po\u021bi s\u0103 fi cel mult r\u0103ut\u0103cios). \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E greu s\u0103 fii sincer c\u00e2nd ceilal\u021bi nu spun ceea ce g\u00e2ndesc \u0219i c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 intuie\u0219ti ce anume vor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E greu s\u0103 fii sincer c\u00e2nd \u021bi se cere s\u0103 fi (s\u0103 faci) ceva care nu te caracterizeaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E greu s\u0103 fii sincer c\u00e2nd \u021bi se impune ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Din ce observ eu, este greu s\u0103 fii sincer. Dar cred c\u0103 cel mai important lucru este s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m (\u0219i s\u0103 reu\u0219im) s\u0103 fim sinceri, cel pu\u021bin cu noi \u00een\u0219ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi se pare grav atunci c\u00e2nd ajungem s\u0103 ne min\u021bim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine. Pentru c\u0103 ne cunoa\u0219tem, putem s\u0103 facem acest lucru, dar \u00eentr-o form\u0103 sau alta, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu, adev\u0103rul iese la iveal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evit\u0103m cu to\u021bii s\u0103 fim sinceri pentru c\u0103 avem diferite motive:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Nu vrem s\u0103 r\u0103nim sau s\u0103 jignim.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Prefer\u0103m s\u0103 avem o rela\u021bie bun\u0103 cu cei din jur \u0219i, fiind sinceri, credem c\u0103 prejudiciem aceast\u0103 rela\u021bie.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Credem c\u0103 ceilal\u021bi nu au nevoie de sinceritatea noastr\u0103 (de\u0219i, uneori,ei ne-o cer).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nu intereseaz\u0103 pe nimeni p\u0103rerea noastr\u0103.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nu ne vor r\u0103spunde cu sinceritate, etc.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i revin la \u00eentrebarea din titlu: cum e s\u0103 fii sincer? Cred c\u0103 este trist azi s\u0103 ifi sincer, pentru c\u0103 societatea de azi nu crede \u00een sinceritate. Nu vrea sinceritate \u0219i nu caut\u0103 sinceritate, de\u0219i cuv\u00e2ntul sinceritate este folosit foarte des, dar doar pentru a ascunde o minciun\u0103 \u00een spatele lui (de cele mai multe ori).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii de azi prefer\u0103 lucrurile ambalate frumos, superficiale, care atrag aten\u021bia, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fie interesa\u021bi de ceea ce este dincolo de ceea ce se vede.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prefer\u0103 s\u0103 fie min\u021bi\u021bi (\u0219i am mai discutat \u00een alte articole <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/12\/30\/despre-cum-ne-cred-prosti-oamenii-care-lucreaza-in-domeniul-publicitatii\/\">despre cum ne cred pro\u0219ti oamenii din domeniul publicit\u0103\u021bii<\/a> \u0219i <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/11\/10\/referitor-la-reclame-de-ce-ne-place-sa-fim-mintiti\/\">referitor la reclame \u2013 de ce ne place s\u0103 fim min\u021bi\u021bi<\/a>), s\u0103 li se spun\u0103 lucruri pe care vor s\u0103 le aud\u0103 (mai ales dac\u0103 au \u0219i ceva putere sau influen\u021b\u0103) \u0219i nu accept\u0103 sinceritatea (sau realitatea?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Azi, s\u0103 fii sincer \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fii singur, s\u0103 ai mult\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een tine \u0219i mult\u0103 putere s\u0103 rezi\u0219ti presiunilor celor care se vor sim\u021bi ataca\u021bi de sinceritatea ta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen lumea de azi, c\u00e2nd este promovat ambalajul \u0219i coperta, imaginea \u0219i nevoia permanent\u0103 de aten\u021bie a unor oameni, c\u00e2nd superficialitatea conduce, oare mai reu\u0219im s\u0103 fim sinceri? S\u0103 spunem &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/978"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=978"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/978\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2993,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/978\/revisions\/2993"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=978"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=978"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=978"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}