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Azi, priveam (pentru a nu \u0219tiu c\u00e2ta oar\u0103) filmul You’ve got mail din 1998 cu Meg Ryan \u0219i Tom Hanks \u0219i, la un moment dat, Joe Fox (personajul interpretat de Tom Hanks) vorbea despre faptul c\u0103 firmele care v\u00e2nd cafea \u00eei for\u021beaz\u0103 pe oameni s\u0103 ia\u00a0 multe decizii doar pentru a cump\u0103ra o cafea (mic\u0103 sau mare, slab\u0103 sau tare, cu cofein\u0103 sau f\u0103r\u0103 cofein\u0103, cu lapte sau degresat\u0103 etc). \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eu am dat acest exemplu despre decizii pentru c\u0103 am vizionat, \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103, cu pl\u0103cere filmul, care prezint\u0103 o poveste de dragoste simpl\u0103, frumoas\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eempu\u0219c\u0103turi, f\u0103r\u0103 crime, f\u0103r\u0103 urm\u0103riri, un film de dragoste clasic (deja!) \u0219i care te \u00eencarc\u0103 cu energie pozitiv\u0103, te face s\u0103 z\u00e2mbe\u0219ti \u0219i s\u0103 te sim\u021bi bine. \u0218i nimic nu e fals sau agitat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Adev\u0103rul este c\u0103 \u0219i eu am observat c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd m\u0103n\u00e2nci \u00een ora\u0219, sunt necesare o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de decizii, dar ni le asum\u0103m atunci c\u00e2nd hot\u0103r\u00e2m s\u0103 ie\u0219im s\u0103 lu\u0103m pr\u00e2nzul sau cina la restaurant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-a urm\u0103rit replica personajului lui Tom Hanks despre decizii, \u00eentruc\u00e2t zilele acestea \u0219i eu sunt nehot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 cu privire la achizi\u021bionarea unei \u021binute pentru un eveniment. \u0218i nu \u0219tiu ce decizie s\u0103 iau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd am \u00eenceput c\u0103utarea, credeam c\u0103 \u0219tiu ce vreau \u0219i eram hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 pentru un anumit gen de \u021binut\u0103, apoi \u00eens\u0103, c\u0103ut\u00e2nd \u0219i online, mi-am dat seama c\u0103 mai exist\u0103 \u0219i multe alte variante dec\u00e2t cea asupra c\u0103reia m\u0103 concentrasem eu \u0219i, atunci c\u00e2nd am constatat acest lucru, nu am mai \u0219tiut unde s\u0103 m\u0103 opresc \u0219i cum s\u0103 m\u0103 opresc. Adic\u0103 de c\u00e2teva zile eu caut \u021binute \u0219i \u0219tiu c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 hot\u0103r\u0103sc cur\u00e2nd ce anume vreau, ca s\u0103 o cump\u0103r p\u00e2n\u0103 are loc evenimentul, dar nu reu\u0219esc s\u0103 iau vreo decizie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zilele noastre \u00eencep cu decizii (de la cafea la mijlocul de transport p\u00e2n\u0103 la locul de munc\u0103 etc) \u0219i se termin\u0103 cu decizii (unde lu\u0103m cina, unde mergem s\u0103 ne distr\u0103m etc). Oricine tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00een ziua de azi trebuie s\u0103 ia hot\u0103r\u00e2ri \u00een orice moment al zilei \u0219i este un lucru (fapt?) care ne obose\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oare din acest motiv avem zile c\u00e2nd nu vrem (nu putem sau nu suntem \u00een stare) s\u0103 lu\u0103m decizii (fie ele importante sau mai pu\u021bin importante)?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate c\u0103 ar trebui ca, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, s\u0103 avem \u0219i c\u00e2te o zi \u00een care s\u0103 nu fim obliga\u021bi s\u0103 lu\u0103m nicio decizie \u0219i s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m lucrurile s\u0103 decurg\u0103 sau s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple \u00een voia lor, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 intervenim \u00een vreun fel. Astfel putem fi preg\u0103ti\u021bi pentru celelalte zile din via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i pentru deciziile care ne a\u0219teapt\u0103 zilnic.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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