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Vorbind zilele trecute cu un coleg despre faptul c\u0103 v\u00e2rsta \u0219i experien\u021ba ne influen\u021beaz\u0103 comportamentul, am constatat c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nim, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 ne folosim eficient resursele, nu le mai risipim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vorbeam cu colegul meu despre faptul c\u0103 la maturitate nu ne mai angaj\u0103m \u00een orice lupt\u0103, ca \u00een tinere\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd suntem tineri, avem mult\u0103 energie, credem c\u0103 avem multe de demonstrat \u0219i r\u0103spundem oric\u0103rei provoc\u0103ri, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 realiz\u0103m c\u0103 sunt multe lupte \u00een care nu avem \u0219anse de reu\u0219it\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lipsa r\u0103bd\u0103rii \u0219i dorin\u021ba de a nu r\u0103m\u00e2ne mai prejos, impulsul de a r\u0103spunde oricui are ceva critic de spus despre persoana sau ac\u021biunile sau faptele sale sunt caracteristici ale tinere\u021bii. Orice suna critic sau negativ era un semnal de \u00eenceput al unei lupte, c\u00e2nd eram tineri. Aveam at\u00e2ta energie, \u00eenc\u00e2t f\u0103ceam fa\u021b\u0103 mai multor fronturi \u00een acela\u0219i timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar am observat c\u0103 \u00een momentul \u00een care am \u00eenaintat \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u0219i am recunoscut (cu sinceritate!) c\u0103 nu pot c\u00e2\u0219tiga toate b\u0103t\u0103liile, nu m-am mai angajat \u00een toate provoc\u0103rile \u0219i \u00een toate luptele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Deja \u00eemi aleg luptele, aleg situa\u021biile pentru care chiar merit\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi consum energia \u0219i toate resursele \u0219i reu\u0219esc s\u0103 ignor acele provoc\u0103ri \u0219i acele semnale de lupt\u0103 din care nu am de c\u00e2\u0219tigat nimic sau care nu ar fi dec\u00e2t timp \u0219i resurse cheltuite degeaba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ini\u021bial, colegul meu nu era de acord cu afirma\u021bia mea (cea privind faptul c\u0103 la maturitate, ne alegem luptele \u00een care ne implic\u0103m), dar, c\u00e2nd i-am explicat cum v\u0103d eu lucrurile, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eemi dea dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218tiu, eu analizez mult ce mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 celor din jurul meu, dar cred c\u0103 mul\u021bi oameni de v\u00e2rsta mea fac la fel, de\u0219i poate nu realizeaz\u0103 acest lucru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Un om matur nu mai are nevoie s\u0103 demonstreze ceva, este pe picioarele lui, \u0219tie ce vrea, \u0219tie cum s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 ce vrea, \u0219tie cum s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 provoc\u0103rilor \u0219i \u0219tie c\u00e2nd este necesar s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 o lupt\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd este mai bine s\u0103 nu \u00eenceap\u0103 o lupt\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218tie s\u0103 evalueze situa\u021biile din prisma experien\u021bei de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i \u00eencepe s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i aleag\u0103 luptele \u00een care merit\u0103 s\u0103 se arunce \u0219i pe cele pe care e mai bine s\u0103 le evite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am remarcat acest lucru referitor la lupt\u0103 la cineva apropiat care mi-a spus (la un moment dat, iar eu nu prea am \u00een\u021beles ce a vrut s\u0103 spun\u0103 dec\u00e2t c\u00e2nd am ajuns la v\u00e2rsta lui de atunci) c\u0103 timpul \u0219i energia sunt prea importante s\u0103 le iroseasc\u0103 pentru lucruri sau persoane pu\u021bin importante \u00een via\u021ba sa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acum constat c\u0103 a avut mare dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar a trebuit s\u0103 m\u0103 conving singur\u0103, pe propria mea piele.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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