{"id":3487,"date":"2026-01-08T18:35:21","date_gmt":"2026-01-08T16:35:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=3487"},"modified":"2026-01-08T18:35:22","modified_gmt":"2026-01-08T16:35:22","slug":"de-ce-oamenilor-de-astazi-le-este-frica-sa-traiasca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=3487","title":{"rendered":"De ce oamenilor de ast\u0103zi le este fric\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tot v\u0103d, \u00een jurul meu, c\u0103 oamenilor le este team\u0103 s\u0103 se deschid\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba celorlal\u021bi, le este team\u0103 s\u0103 nu sufere, le este team\u0103 s\u0103 nu li se \u00eent\u00e2mple lucruri nepl\u0103cute\u2026 Cu alte cuvinte le este team\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103. \u0218i nu prea \u00een\u021beleg de ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 aceste lucruri, de unde vine aceast\u0103 team\u0103 de orice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se protejeaz\u0103 at\u00e2t de mult de to\u021bi \u0219i de toate, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 mai tr\u0103iasc\u0103. Via\u021ba lor \u00eenseamn\u0103 team\u0103 \u0219i at\u00e2t. Via\u021ba lor este condus\u0103 de team\u0103. \u0218i m\u0103 uime\u0219te aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie, pentru c\u0103 oamenii de azi au at\u00e2t de multe posibilit\u0103\u021bi, at\u00e2t de multe \u0219anse de a fi ferici\u021bi, at\u00e2t de multe c\u0103i de a ob\u021bine c\u00e2t mai multe de la via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i, \u00een loc de toate acestea, sunt tem\u0103tori, tri\u0219ti, frustra\u021bi, depresivi, sup\u0103ra\u021bi pe to\u021bi \u0219i pe toate. C\u00e2nd au at\u00e2tea oportuni\u021b\u0103\u021bi de a tr\u0103i frumos, de a avea o via\u021b\u0103 a\u0219a cum \u0219i-o doresc, de ce se refugiaz\u0103 \u00een team\u0103 \u0219i \u00een nesiguran\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, sunt de acord c\u0103 sunt crescu\u021bi \u00een acest sens. P\u0103rin\u021bii vor s\u0103 \u00eei protejeze de tot ce este r\u0103u sau de tot ce li s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat lor r\u0103u \u0219i \u00eei preg\u0103tesc pentru o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103 ca a lor sau pentru o via\u021b\u0103 altfel dec\u00e2t a fost a lor. Doar c\u0103, \u021bin\u00e2ndu-i departe de propriile lor experien\u021be, oamenii nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i mai tr\u0103iasc\u0103 propria via\u021b\u0103, nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 se bucure de ceea ce este frumos \u00een via\u021ba lor, nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 savureze momentele pl\u0103cute, nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 se descurce singuri \u00een situa\u021bii c\u0103rora p\u0103rin\u021bii lor le-au f\u0103cut fa\u021b\u0103 foarte u\u0219or, de-a lungul timpului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i totu\u0219i aceast\u0103 explica\u021bie parc\u0103 nu este de ajuns. Nu pentru mine. Nu acum. Pentru c\u0103 am senza\u021bia c\u0103 ne transform\u0103m din oameni \u00een ma\u0219ini, \u00een robo\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Parc\u0103 nu mai sim\u021bim (nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai sim\u021bim) mare lucru, prefer\u0103m s\u0103 preg\u0103tim totul, s\u0103 organiz\u0103m totul, s\u0103 control\u0103m ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i, mai ales, ce ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. Dar, dincolo de nevoia noastr\u0103 de a controla tot, cum r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu a ne tr\u0103i via\u021ba a\u0219a cum trebuie? Cum r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu a fi noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i a ne prezenta a\u0219a cum suntem, nu a\u0219a cum am vrea s\u0103 fim? Cum r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu a sim\u021bi lucruri frumoase \u0219i a ne bucura de ele? Cum r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu a tr\u0103i f\u0103r\u0103 fric\u0103 \u0219i a ne asuma riscuri? Cum r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu a ne umple sufletele cu lucruri frumoase, cu oameni buni \u0219i cu locuri pitore\u0219ti?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tot v\u0103d, \u00een jurul meu, c\u0103 oamenilor le este team\u0103 s\u0103 se deschid\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba celorlal\u021bi, le este team\u0103 s\u0103 nu sufere, le este team\u0103 s\u0103 nu li se \u00eent\u00e2mple &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3487"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3487"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3487\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3488,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3487\/revisions\/3488"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3487"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3487"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3487"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}