{"id":3304,"date":"2025-10-06T21:16:48","date_gmt":"2025-10-06T18:16:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=3304"},"modified":"2025-10-20T18:26:40","modified_gmt":"2025-10-20T15:26:40","slug":"stim-sa-spunem-nu-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=3304","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tim s\u0103 spunem nu? (varianta 2025)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o lume plin\u0103 de (a\u0219a-zise) oportunit\u0103\u021bi, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care to\u021bi c\u0103ut\u0103m s\u0103 avem o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103 (mai prosper\u0103), \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care suntem dispu\u0219i s\u0103 facem multe (orice?) pentru a ob\u021bine ceva mai mult (pentru o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103), \u00eentr-o astfel de lume \u0219tim s\u0103 spunem nu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tim s\u0103 vedem c\u0103 suntem influen\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 ne dorim anumite lucruri \u0219i s\u0103 avem anumite standarde? \u0218tim s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 nu to\u021bi putem fi la fel \u0219i nu to\u021bi putem avea ce au al\u021bii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tim s\u0103 ne oprim atunci c\u00e2nd trebuie (este cazul) s\u0103 ne oprim? \u0218tim s\u0103 spunem nu atunci c\u00e2nd sim\u021bim c\u0103 lucrurile ne scap\u0103 de sub control? C\u00e2nd nu mai suntem noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i c\u00e2nd ajungem s\u0103 fim altcineva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am scris un articol la 7 februarie 2023 despre expresia Totul are un pre\u021b &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1457\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1457<\/a> \u2013 ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd totul ar fi de v\u00e2nzare, ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd oric\u00e2t am spune noi nu, cineva ne va convinge cumva s\u0103 spunem da. Adic\u0103 oric\u00e2t am spune noi nu, putem fi convin\u0219i s\u0103 spunem da. Dar nu despre cum putem fi convin\u0219i s\u0103 spunem da atunci c\u00e2nd spunem nu, este vorba \u00een acest articol. Ci despre faptul c\u0103 oamenii de azi nu prea mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 spun\u0103 nu. Nu prea mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103. Nu prea mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 singuri, s\u0103 ia decizii singuri \u0219i s\u0103 analizeze singuri ceea ce li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii de azi nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 lumea a\u0219a cum este, ci doar a\u0219a cum vor ei s\u0103 fie sau doar a\u0219a cum li se spune s\u0103 fie. Pentru c\u0103 iau de bun ce li se ofer\u0103 \u0219i dau mai departe exact acela\u0219i mesaj, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel analizeze \u00een vreun fel (am scris un articol la 25 mai 2023 despre modele\/tipare \u00een activitatea profesional\u0103 sau \u00een via\u021b\u0103 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/wp-admin\/post.php?post=1698&amp;action=edit\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/wp-admin\/post.php?post=1698&amp;action=edit<\/a>), pentru c\u0103 nu mai vor s\u0103 fac\u0103 vreun efort \u0219i s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce li se potrive\u0219te, ce este pentru ei \u0219i ce nu este pentru ei din ceea ce le stabile\u0219te societatea ca \u0219i standarde. Pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i doresc s\u0103 fie accepta\u021bi de comunitate \u0219i nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 altfel. Pentru c\u0103 este mai simplu \u0219i mai confortabil s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 se adapteaz\u0103 dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i g\u0103seasc\u0103 propria cale, propriul drum \u00een via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i totu\u0219i, atunci c\u00e2nd sunt lucruri care nu ne convin, care nu ne plac, dar pe care, cumva, ne sim\u021bim obliga\u021bi s\u0103 le facem, \u0219tim oare s\u0103 spunem nu? Sau \u0219tim s\u0103 vedem c\u0103 acele lucruri chiar nu ne fac bine?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centr-o lume plin\u0103 de (a\u0219a-zise) oportunit\u0103\u021bi, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care to\u021bi c\u0103ut\u0103m s\u0103 avem o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103 (mai prosper\u0103), \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care suntem dispu\u0219i s\u0103 facem multe (orice?) &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3304"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3304"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3304\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3351,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3304\/revisions\/3351"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}