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\u00centr-o lume \u00een care doar ambalajul conteaz\u0103, \u00een care doar aparen\u021bele sunt importante, o lume condus\u0103 de superficial, mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218tim s\u0103 ne recunoa\u0219tem punctele slabe, sensibilit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i vulnerabilit\u0103\u021bile? \u0218tim s\u0103 fim sinceri \u00een privin\u021ba lucrurilor pe care le sim\u021bim \u00een lumea de azi, lume care ne cere multe \u0219i ne oblig\u0103 s\u0103 accept\u0103m \u0219i mai multe?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218tim s\u0103 ne relax\u0103m din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencetinim ritmul vie\u021bii de zi cu zi, ca s\u0103 putem s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m \u0219i noi de ceea ce tr\u0103im?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eu cred c\u0103 am uitat s\u0103 fim cinsti\u021bi cu noi \u00een\u0219ine. Ne-am ascuns at\u00e2t de bine \u00een spatele aparen\u021belor, \u00een spatele standardelor sociale, \u00een spatele calculatoarelor \u0219i nu mai \u0219tim cine suntem \u0219i nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine. Nu mai suntem \u00een stare (sau nu mai vrem?) s\u0103 depunem eforturi pentru a avea o via\u021b\u0103 adev\u0103rat\u0103, nu doar pe cea pe care le-o ar\u0103t\u0103m celorlal\u021bi prin post\u0103rile de pe re\u021belele de socializare. Ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 nu mai depunem eforturi pentru nimic, s\u0103 primim totul pe tav\u0103, s\u0103 nu facem prea multe pentru a ob\u021bine ceva. \u0218i ne mai mir\u0103m c\u0103 vie\u021bile noastre sunt plictisitoare, rutinate, fade, nefericite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i, pentru c\u0103 nu mai vrem (nu mai putem?) s\u0103 facem eforturi de a fi sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i cu ceilal\u021bi, ajungem s\u0103 fim tri\u0219ti, ne\u00eemplini\u021bi, frustra\u021bi sau s\u0103 tr\u0103im vie\u021bile altora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen societatea de azi \u00een care oamenii se cred perfec\u021bi (sunt \u00eencuraja\u021bi s\u0103 fie perfec\u021bi!) este greu s\u0103 putem fi cinsti\u021bi cu noi \u00een\u0219ine. Este greu s\u0103 accept\u0103m c\u0103 avem \u0219i probleme, puncte slabe \u0219i c\u0103 nu suntem at\u0103t de puternici \u0219i invincibili cum ne credem (sau cum ne \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 societatea s\u0103 credem). \u0218i nu putem fi echilibra\u021bi, nu putem fi noi \u00een\u0219ine, nu putem fi lini\u0219ti\u021bi, dac\u0103 nu suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i cu ceilal\u021bi. Este ca \u0219i cum (?) ne min\u021bim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i pe ceilal\u021bi \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu lucrurile importante (\u0219i mai pu\u021bin importante) din via\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Problema este c\u0103 nu putem avea o via\u021b\u0103 fericit\u0103 \u0219i \u00eemplinit\u0103 dac\u0103 nu suntem echilibra\u021bi, dac\u0103 nu suntem destul de maturi \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 ne accept\u0103m a\u0219a cum suntem \u0219i s\u0103 facem fa\u021b\u0103, c\u00e2t mai bine posibil, provoc\u0103rilor vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oricum mi se pare c\u0103 termenii de cinste \u0219i cinstit nu prea mai au loc \u00eentr-o societate \u00een care toate lumea are strategii pentru a ajunge c\u00e2t mai sus, \u00een care sunt \u00eencuraja\u021bi cei descurc\u0103re\u021bi, \u00een care a ajuns s\u0103 conteze doar rezultatul, nu \u0219i modalitatea prin care s-a ajuns la el sau efortul depus.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00centr-o lume \u00een care doar ambalajul conteaz\u0103, \u00een care doar aparen\u021bele sunt importante, o lume condus\u0103 de superficial, mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine? \u0218tim s\u0103 ne recunoa\u0219tem …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3272"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3272"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3272\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3275,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3272\/revisions\/3275"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3272"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3272"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3272"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}