https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=923<\/a>) \u0219i m-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 accept c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 am o singur\u0103 op\u021biune. Dar mi se pare interesant dac\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 o alt\u0103 alegere, la un anumit moment, m-ar fi dus \u00een alt\u0103 parte sau mi-ar fi deschis alte oportunit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\nDe multe ori, facen alegerile mecanic, din obi\u0219nuin\u021b\u0103 sau sub inluen\u021ba societ\u0103\u021bii (celorlal\u021bi?). Sunt pu\u021bine alegeri pe care le facem asumat, dup\u0103 ce ne-am g\u00e2ndit bine \u0219i ne-am preg\u0103tit pentru ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dac\u0103 st\u0103m s\u0103 analiz\u0103m fiecare alegere \u0219i consecin\u021bele ei, nu prea mai apuc\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103im, pentru c\u0103 rationamentele privind situa\u021biile respective ne-ar lua foarte mult timp. \u0218i nu este normal s\u0103 avem o via\u021b\u0103 plin\u0103 de ra\u021biune, \u00een loc s\u0103 avem o via\u021b\u0103 plin\u0103 de oameni frumo\u0219i, de lucruri \u0219i evenimente pl\u0103cute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doar c\u0103, nu ar fi r\u0103u s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103, \u00een spatele unei alegeri, este o renun\u021bare (la ceva sau la cineva?). Pentru a fi \u00een stare s\u0103 alegem asumat \u0219i responsabil, trebuie s\u0103 fim \u00een stare s\u0103 accept\u0103m acest lucru. Adic\u0103 vrem s\u0103 parcurgem un drum, vrem s\u0103 facem ceva, dar trebuie s\u0103 realiz\u0103m c\u0103, \u00een acela\u0219i timp, sunt ni\u0219te lucruri la care trebuie s\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103m \u0219i ni\u0219te oameni de care ne \u00eendep\u0103rt\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De multe ori, alegem ceva repede (pentru c\u0103 suntem obi\u0219nui\u021bi s\u0103 facem totul \u00een vitez\u0103), f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fim prea siguri cu privire la ceea ce vrem \u0219i dac\u0103 alegerea ne apar\u021bine \u00een totalitate \u0219i nu realiz\u0103m dec\u00e2t prea t\u00e2rziu c\u0103 am fi putut alege \u0219i altceva, care ni s-ar fi potrivit mai bine. Sau \u00een\u021belegem acest lucru prea t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd respectiva op\u021biune nu mai este valabil\u0103 \u0219i ne umplem de sup\u0103rare, frustrare, nemul\u021bumire \u0219i tot felul de sentimente negative. \u00een loc s\u0103 accept\u0103m c\u0103 noi am optat astfel \u0219i c\u0103 noi suntem cei care am ales s\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103m la orice altceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pare complicat \u0219i dificil subiectul acestui articol. Dar mi se pare interesant \u0219i ne pune pe g\u00e2nduri. Ne face s\u0103 fim mai aten\u021bi \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu alegerile pe care le facem, s\u0103 fim mai aten\u021bi la deciziile pe care le lu\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 con\u0219tientiz\u0103m c\u0103 a face ceva echivaleaz\u0103, \u00een acela\u0219i timp, cu a renun\u021ba la ceva (altceva?).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Este o replic\u0103 dintr-un film pe care l-am v\u0103zut de cur\u00e2nd, dar mi-a r\u0103mas cumva \u00een minte. De\u0219i facem multe alegeri zilnic, de\u0219i credem c\u0103 via\u021ba noastr\u0103 depinde doar de …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3259"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3259"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3259\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3297,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3259\/revisions\/3297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}