{"id":3199,"date":"2025-06-01T11:43:36","date_gmt":"2025-06-01T08:43:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=3199"},"modified":"2025-06-01T11:43:36","modified_gmt":"2025-06-01T08:43:36","slug":"de-ce-nu-mai-vrem-sa-mai-gandim-si-luam-de-bun-ce-ni-se-ofera-de-catre-societate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=3199","title":{"rendered":"De ce nu mai vrem s\u0103 mai g\u00e2ndim \u0219i lu\u0103m de bun ce ni se ofer\u0103 de c\u0103tre societate?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u0103spunsul ar putea fi simplu: din comoditate, dar cred c\u0103 lucrurile sunt mai complicate dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evolu\u021bia societ\u0103\u021bii, dezvoltarea tehnologic\u0103 \u0219i nu numai ne-au transformat \u00een persoane care a\u0219teapt\u0103 de la ceilal\u021bi mai mult dec\u00e2t de la ei \u00een\u0219i\u021bi. Este mai bine s\u0103 copiem de la al\u021bii \u0219i s\u0103 d\u0103m mai departe (s\u0103 promov\u0103m ideile altora), dec\u00e2t s\u0103 trecem lucrurile prin ra\u021biunea noastr\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 g\u0103sim propriile r\u0103spunsuri \u0219i propriile solu\u021bii la probleme sau griji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne mai folosim propria minte, pentru c\u0103 nu exers\u0103m prea mult cu ea. Ni se pare mai u\u0219or s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m celorlal\u021bi, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne g\u0103sim prorpiul rol (loc) \u00een societate. \u0218i aastfel ajungem s\u0103 tr\u0103im vie\u021bile altora, \u00een loc s\u0103 o tr\u0103im pe a noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De multe ori, nu \u00een\u021beleg de unde at\u00e2ta frustrare, ne\u00eemplinire sau r\u0103utate gratuit\u0103 \u00een societatea de azi \u0219i, mai ales, \u00een r\u00e2ndul tinerilor de azi. \u00centotdeauna au existat \u00een societate sentimente negative (invidie, ranchiun\u0103, du\u0219m\u0103nie, resentimente, rea-voin\u021b\u0103), dar parc\u0103, \u00een ziua de azi, nu mai ai loc de ele. \u00cen loc s\u0103 fie evitate \u0219i folosite c\u00e2t mai rar, sunt promovate \u0219i date ca exemplu (ca model) pentru genera\u021biile tinere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar poate c\u0103 toate aceste sentimente negative se nasc \u0219i din dorin\u021ba noastr\u0103 de a fi accepta\u021bi, de a fi valida\u021bi sau confirma\u021bi de societate. Ceea ce este un lucru bun atunci c\u00e2nd este vorba de un om matur care \u0219tie cine este, \u0219tie ce vrea, \u0219tie cum s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 ce vrea. Dar c\u00e2nd ne adres\u0103m copiilor \u0219i tinerilor cer\u00e2nd s\u0103 fie, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, ce vrem noi sau ce vrea societatea, \u00eenainte ca ei s\u0103 \u0219tie ce vor \u0219i cine sunt cu adev\u0103rat, nu cumva \u00eei vulnerabiliz\u0103m? Ne mir\u0103m c\u0103 tinerii sunt hipersensibili \u0219i c\u0103 trec cu greu de momentele mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute ale vie\u021bii lor. Dar nu cumva protejarea lor at\u00e2t de profund\u0103 \u0219i neresponsabilizarea lor cu privire la viitor ne fac \u0219i pe noi vinova\u021bi de eventualul (poten\u021bialul?) e\u0219ec al acestora de a avea o via\u021b\u0103 normal\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am pornit de la faptul c\u0103 nu mai vrem s\u0103 depunem eforturi s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim \u0219i am ajuns la sensibilitatea genera\u021biilor tinere\u2026 Nu a\u0219a m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 voi continua articolul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oricum, ca s\u0103 r\u0103spund \u00eentreb\u0103rii din titlul articolului, cred c\u0103 este mai u\u0219or s\u0103 prelu\u0103m ideile altora, g\u00e2ndurile altora, dorin\u021bele altora \u0219i s\u0103 le afi\u0219\u0103m ca fiind ale noastre (ne \u0219i convingem cumva c\u0103 ne apar\u021bin) dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 avem propriile opinii, s\u0103 prezent\u0103m propriile ra\u021biuni \u0219i s\u0103 ne exprim\u0103m propiile p\u0103reri, care pot fi sau nu la fel ca ale majorit\u0103\u021bii.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>R\u0103spunsul ar putea fi simplu: din comoditate, dar cred c\u0103 lucrurile sunt mai complicate dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t. Evolu\u021bia societ\u0103\u021bii, dezvoltarea tehnologic\u0103 \u0219i nu numai ne-au transformat \u00een persoane care a\u0219teapt\u0103 de &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3199"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3199"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3199\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3200,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3199\/revisions\/3200"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3199"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3199"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3199"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}