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Am avut o zi plin\u0103 cu o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de tipuri de persoane: oameni care arunc\u0103 sarcini \u00een st\u00e2nga \u0219i \u00een dreapta, oameni care nu vor s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i asume nimic \u0219i se ascund \u00een spatele altora, oameni care nu \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u021binem cont de reguli \u0219i regulamente, oameni care caut\u0103 probleme \u0219i acolo unde nu sunt\u2026 A\u0219a cum am zis deja, am avut o zi plin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La un moment dat, toate \u00eencerc\u0103rile de azi m-au afectat destul de mult. \u00cencepeam s\u0103 simt cum m\u0103 enervez \u0219i cum scap lucrurile de sub control. Se adunau sarcini de f\u0103cut, iar oamenii care ar fi trebuit s\u0103 le fac\u0103 g\u0103seau tot felul de motive s\u0103 nu le \u00eendeplineasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doar c\u0103, la un moment dat, m-am oprit din agita\u021bie, din ceea ce f\u0103ceam \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 chiar merit\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 enervez. \u0218i am ajuns la concluzia c\u0103 nu, nu merit\u0103 s\u0103 mm\u0103 sup\u0103r, s\u0103 m\u0103 las afectat\u0103 de lucruri pe care nu le pot sontrola \u0219i c\u0103 este mai bine s\u0103 m\u0103 calmez \u0219i s\u0103 iau lucrurile (\u0219i oamenii) mai u\u0219or. \u0218i apoi mi-am dat seama c\u0103 de-a lungul timpului, m-am l\u0103sat influen\u021bat\u0103 de astfel de momente, le-am l\u0103sat s\u0103 \u00eemi strice ziua sau rela\u021biile cu cei apropia\u021bi (pentru c\u0103 aduceam tensiunea de la birou acas\u0103 \u0219i o transmiteam celor din jurul meu, \u00eentr-un fel sau altul).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i a\u0219a am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 nu ne l\u0103s\u0103m afecta\u021bi de nepl\u0103cerile provocate de al\u021bii? Iar r\u0103spunsul meu este c\u0103 nu \u0219tim. Nu \u0219tim s\u0103 ne calm\u0103m atunci c\u00e2nd vedem c\u0103 oamenii nu mai ltiu ce este respectful \u0219i buna cuviin\u021b\u0103, nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne lini\u0219tim atunci c\u00e2nd al\u021bii ne plaseaz\u0103 sarcini pe care ei nu vor (nu pot?) s\u0103 le execute. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tatea noastr\u0103 (fizic\u0103, emo\u021bional\u0103, psihologic\u0103) este mult mai important\u0103 dec\u00e2t oricine altcineva \u0219i dec\u00e2t orice altceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen principiu, nu merit\u0103 s\u0103 ne consum\u0103m energia, aten\u021bia, r\u0103bdarea cu oameni care vor s\u0103 ne enerveze, vor s\u0103 profite de tot felul de circumstan\u021be, de oameni care vor s\u0103 le facem treaba, iar ei s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i asume r\u0103spunderea etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar, oare putem, \u00een momentele \u00een care sim\u021bim c\u0103 \u00eencepem s\u0103 ne enerv\u0103m din cauza unor astfel de oameni, s\u0103 ne control\u0103m nervii? Suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 realiz\u0103m c\u0103 sup\u0103rarea, triste\u021bea, consumul de energie care vin odat\u0103 cu starea de nervozitate provocat\u0103 de astfel de persoane chiar nu merit\u0103. Putem s\u0103 g\u0103sim \u00een noi puterea s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 enervarea nu este o reac\u021bie bun\u0103 \u00eentr-o astfel de situa\u021bie? Este greu s\u0103 nu ne l\u0103s\u0103m afecta\u021bi de astfel de comportamente ale altora, dar, pe termen lung o stare de calm, de lini\u0219te ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 avem o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103. \u0218i mai pl\u0103cut\u0103. \u0218i, poate, mai lung\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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