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M\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam, azi, cum mai stau oamenii din societatea contemporan\u0103 cu \u00eencrederea. Oare au \u00eencredere sau nu au \u00eencredere? \u00cen ei, \u00een ceilal\u021bi, \u00een viitor…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Din ce v\u0103d \u00een jur, mi se pare c\u0103 suferim cu to\u021bii de o lips\u0103 de \u00eencredere: \u00een to\u021bi \u0219i \u00een toate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Av\u00e2nd o anumit\u0103 v\u00e2rst\u0103, pot s\u0103 fac diferen\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre societatea pe care am perceput-o cu ochii copil\u0103riei \u0219i societatea de acum. Iar compara\u021bia, din p\u0103cate, nu e \u00een favoarea societ\u0103\u021bii de azi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O prieten\u0103 \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 fiica ei \u00eei zicea: voi a\u021bi avut tinere\u021be, iar noi avem re\u021bele de socializare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Revenind la \u00eencredere, mi se pare c\u0103 era mai u\u0219or pe acele vremuri s\u0103 ai \u00eencredere \u00een oameni. Eram sinceri (mai sinceri dec\u00e2t acum) unii cu al\u021bii, comunicam direct (nu prin ecrane), ne pl\u0103cea s\u0103 ne vedem reac\u021biile fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, ne pl\u0103cea s\u0103 petrecem timp \u00eempreun\u0103 de dragul nostru, nu pentru a ob\u021bine ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i, \u00een condi\u021biile acestea, era u\u0219or s\u0103 avem \u00eencredere unii \u00een al\u021bii, era u\u0219or s\u0103 vis\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 construim lucruri de viitor \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen ziua de azi e foarte greu s\u0103 ai \u00eencredere \u00een cineva. Vezi \u00een jur at\u00e2t de multe persoane r\u0103nite de cei \u00een care au avut \u00eencredere, \u00eenc\u00e2t ajungi \u0219i tu s\u0103 fi un sceptic. Sau iar ne l\u0103s\u0103m manipula\u021bi de societatea de acum…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd suntem tineri \u0219i naivi, trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m (pe propria piele) cum e cu \u00eencrederea, cum e s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103m \u00eencrederea cuiva \u0219i cum e s\u0103 oferim \u00eencrederea cuiva. Dar \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m \u0219i cum e s\u0103 pierdem \u00eencrederea cuiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La maturitate, \u0219tim (am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat?!) pre\u021bul \u00eencrederii. Am avut parte, cu to\u021bii, de dezam\u0103giri din partea celor \u00een care am crezut p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een p\u00e2nzele albe \u0219i am c\u00e2\u0219tigat, cu to\u021bii (uneori greu), \u00eencrederea unor oameni importan\u021bi pentru noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar, cel mai important este c\u0103 am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u00e2t de important\u0103 este \u00eencrederea \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 o pre\u021buim, \u00eei recunoa\u0219tem valoarea (nepre\u021buit\u0103!) \u0219i \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 nu o pierdem, atunci c\u00e2nd o avem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eu, una, nu cred c\u0103 poate exista rela\u021bie f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eencredere. \u00cen niciun domeniu al vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cencrederea este necesar\u0103 \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie, lipsa ei saboteaz\u0103 rela\u021bia, pentru c\u0103 partenerii, neav\u00e2nd \u00eencredere unul \u00een cel\u0103lalt , nu pot construi nimic \u00eempreun\u0103, doar reu\u0219esc s\u0103 distrug\u0103 rela\u021bia \u0219i s\u0103 se distrug\u0103 reciproc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar aceasta este doar p\u0103rerea mea…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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