{"id":3098,"date":"2025-05-08T17:43:33","date_gmt":"2025-05-08T14:43:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=3098"},"modified":"2025-05-08T17:43:33","modified_gmt":"2025-05-08T14:43:33","slug":"stim-sa-avem-incredere-in-altii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=3098","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tim s\u0103 avem \u00eencredere \u00een al\u021bii?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care doar lucrurile negative \u0219i cele rele par s\u0103 existe, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care toat\u0103 lumea invidiaz\u0103 pe toat\u0103 lumea \u0219i \u00een care suntem at\u00e2t de vulnerabili \u0219i de sensibili, exist\u0103 loc pentru \u00eencredere \u00een al\u021bii? De multe ori nu avem \u00eencredere \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine (m-am \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 avem \u00eencredere \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine \u00een articolul din 28 octombrie 2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1260\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1260<\/a>) , nu mai zic de \u00eencredere \u00een ceilal\u021bi\u2026 \u0218i totu\u0219i, tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care suntem \u00eenconjura\u021bi de al\u021bii \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 avem \u00eencredere (mai mare sau mai mic\u0103) \u00een ceilal\u021bi (spre exemplu c\u00e2nd suntem \u00een trafic, ne baz\u0103m pe faptul c\u0103 ceilal\u021bi, la fel ca noi, respect\u0103 regulile de circula\u021bie \u0219i, pentru c\u0103 to\u021bi participan\u021bii la trafic o fac, \u00eenc\u0103 se poate circula \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 pe \u0219oselele \u0219i pe trotuarele ora\u0219elor).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar, dincolo de ceea ce \u00eencerc eu (mai direct sau mai pe ocolite) s\u0103 demonstrez cu privire la \u00eencredere, oamenii nu prea mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 sib\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een al\u021bii. Pentru c\u0103 se tem prea mult. Se tem s\u0103 nu fie r\u0103ni\u021bi, se tem s\u0103 nu sufere, se tem s\u0103 nu fie tr\u0103da\u021bi, se tem s\u0103 investeasc\u0103 sentimente \u00een alt\u0103 persoan\u0103\u2026 Uneori cred c\u0103 se tem s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u0219i sunt foarte neferici\u021bi c\u00e2nd ajung la finalul vie\u021bii \u0219i constat\u0103 c\u0103 au tr\u0103it o via\u021b\u0103 \u00een frica de toate \u0219i de to\u021bi \u0219i nu au fost \u00een stare s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 a\u0219a cum ar fi trebuit. Sau cum ar fi vrut. Sau cum ar fi meritat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 oamenilor de azi le este team\u0103, nu mai \u0219tiu (oare trebuie \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi de cineva?) s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een cineva. Suntem cu to\u021bii paranoici (dex-ul online define\u0219te termenul paranoia drept nume generic&nbsp; pentru un grup de boli psihice, cornice care se manifest\u0103 prin lips\u0103 de logic\u0103 \u00een g\u00e2ndire, prin idei fixe, prin susceptibilitate, prin orgoliu exagerat, prin mania persecu\u021biei, prin halucina\u021bii etc.). Ni se pare c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea ne vrea s\u0103 ne fac\u0103 r\u0103u sau c\u0103 ne vrea r\u0103ul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 nu cred c\u0103 mai \u0219tim s\u0103 avem \u00eencredere \u00een al\u021bii (\u0219i m-am \u00eentrebat de ce nu mai avem \u00eencredere unii \u00een al\u021bii \u00een articolul din 27 septembrie 2024 <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2580\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2580<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate pentru c\u0103 nici nu mai \u0219tim ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u00eencredere (despre \u00eencredere am scris \u00een articolul din 1 august 2021 <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=319\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=319<\/a>). Sau poate pentru c\u0103 nu mai vrem s\u0103 \u0219tim ce este \u00eencrederea \u0219i nici s\u0103 o investim \u00een cineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doar c\u0103, uneori (dac\u0103 nu mai des) este bine s\u0103 mai l\u0103s\u0103m grijile altcuiva, s\u0103 povesitim cuiva nu numai problemele \u0219i nepl\u0103cerile, ci \u0219i bucuriile \u0219i g\u00e2ndurile. Exist\u0103 pe lumea aceasta \u0219i aomeni care merit\u0103 \u00eencrederea noastr\u0103. Trebuie doar s\u0103 \u00eei g\u0103sim. O s\u0103 fim dezam\u0103gi\u021bi p\u00e2n\u0103 ajungem acolo, dar merit\u0103 s\u0103 parcurgem acest drum.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care doar lucrurile negative \u0219i cele rele par s\u0103 existe, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care toat\u0103 lumea invidiaz\u0103 pe toat\u0103 lumea \u0219i \u00een care suntem at\u00e2t de vulnerabili &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3098"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3098"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3098\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3099,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3098\/revisions\/3099"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3098"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3098"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3098"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}