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\u00centr-o lume care se laud\u0103 cu civiliza\u021bie, cu deschidere c\u0103tre to\u021bi \u0219i toate, cu posibilitatea de a comunica oric\u00e2nd oriunde, cu posibilitatea de a face cea ce \u00eenainta\u0219ii no\u0219tri nu au putut face, \u00eent\u00e2lnim \u0219i (prea mult\u0103) agresivitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate pentru c\u0103 suntem mereu pe fug\u0103 sau pentru c\u0103 avem mereu de f\u0103cut c\u00e2te ceva, dar am observat c\u0103 oamenii se irit\u0103 repede \u0219i r\u0103spund agresiv chiar \u0219i c\u00e2nd nu au fost provoca\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o societate \u00een care suntem mereu concentra\u021bi, mereu aten\u021bi la ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een jur, mereu agita\u021bi \u0219i de aici p\u00e2n\u0103 la agresivitate nu mai este prea mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mereu m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 o societate evoluat\u0103, o societate civilizat\u0103, o societate care \u00ee\u0219i cunoa\u0219te punctele slabe \u0219i punctele tari va \u0219ti s\u0103 gestioneze situa\u021biile poten\u021bial agresive \u0219i s\u0103 dezvolte metode pa\u0219nice de rezolvare a conflictelor (de orice fel). \u00cen teorie sun\u0103 bine. \u00cen realitate, \u00eens\u0103, \u00eent\u00e2lnim agresivitate peste tot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu am un r\u0103spuns clar la \u00eentrebarea din titlul articolului. Sunt sigur\u0103 c\u0103 frustr\u0103rile, ne\u00eemplinirile \u0219i toate lucrurile (\u0219i sentimentele) negative pe care le l\u0103s\u0103m s\u0103 ne cople\u0219easc\u0103 ajung s\u0103 contribuie cumva la reac\u021bia agresiv\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de alt\u0103 persoan\u0103. Dar tot cred c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi este \u00een stare s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i gestioneze sentimentele \u0219i reac\u021biile \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 nu fie agresiv cu ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu cred c\u0103 prin agresivitate (de oricare ar fi ea, la momentul actual \u00een societate sunt destul de r\u0103sp\u00e2ndite cea verbal\u0103 \u0219i cea fizic\u0103) reu\u0219im s\u0103 rezolv\u0103m ceva pe lumea aceasta. Avem tendin\u021ba s\u0103 ne precipit\u0103m, s\u0103 ne gr\u0103bim, s\u0103 ne agit\u0103m \u0219i, de cele mai multe ori, nu reu\u0219im dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ne irosim energia \u0219i cam at\u00e2t. Rezultatul pe care \u00eel a\u0219teptam vine, de obicei, dup\u0103 ce muncim mult \u0219i dup\u0103 ce depunem eforturi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a c\u0103: de ce devin agresivi oamenii at\u00e2t de repede? Pentru c\u0103 se gr\u0103besc s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 ceva ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc (sau ceva ce cred c\u0103 li se cuvine pur \u0219i simplu)? Pentru c\u0103 s-au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 ard\u0103 etape (sau s\u0103 caute scurt\u0103turi) nemaivr\u00e2nd s\u0103 a\u0219tepte sau s\u0103 munceasc\u0103 pentru ceea ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc? Pentru c\u0103 se simt ataca\u021bi de o simpl\u0103 remarc\u0103 sau de o simpl\u0103 glum\u0103 (mai mult sau ma pu\u021bin s\u0103rat\u0103) f\u0103cut\u0103 de altcineva? Pentru c\u0103 sunt nemul\u021bumi\u021bi de ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i, de via\u021ba lor, de locul pe care \u00eel ocup\u0103, la momentul prezent, \u00een societate \u0219i se r\u0103zbun\u0103 pe oricine le iese \u00een cale? Pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i gestioneze emo\u021biile (mai ale pe cele negative)?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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