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Lua\u021bi de valul vie\u021bii cotidiene, prin\u0219i \u00een activit\u0103\u021bile zilnice \u0219i \u00een planificarea celor din perioada urm\u0103toare, mai suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 vedem c\u00e2t de fragili suntem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne credem indestructibili, ne credem nemutirori, ne credem puternici, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd ni se pune un diagnostic care ne demonstreaz\u0103 c\u0103 nu este deloc a\u0219a. \u0218i chiar \u0219i a\u0219a tot nu credem c\u0103 suntem vulnerabil: c\u0103ut\u0103m vinova\u021bi, c\u0103ut\u0103m s\u0103 d\u0103m vina pe cineva pentru ce ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 ne oprim, s\u0103 ne tragem sufletul \u0219i s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 lu\u0103m via\u021ba a\u0219a cum este.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd apar ve\u0219ti care ne transmit c\u0103 nu suntem a\u0219a de duri cum ne credeam, de fapt ni se aduce aminte c\u0103 suntem sensibili, c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 \u0219i de noi \u0219i s\u0103 ne revizuim priorit\u0103\u021bile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu este cazul s\u0103 devenim dispera\u021bi sau s\u0103 intr\u0103m \u00een panic\u0103, de\u0219i cam acestea sunt primele reac\u021bii ale oric\u0103rei persoane care prime\u0219te ve\u0219ti mai pu\u021bin bune despre s\u0103n\u0103tatea sa. De cele mai multe ori, astfel de ve\u0219ti vin ca un du\u0219 rece ca s\u0103 ne aminteasc\u0103 faptul c\u0103 suntem fragili \u0219i c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 mai avem grij\u0103 \u0219i de s\u0103n\u0103tatea noastr\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 via\u021ba cotidian\u0103 ne d\u0103 at\u00e2tea sarcini, at\u00e2tea lucruri de f\u0103cut \u0219i, de foarte multe ori, uit\u0103m de noi \u00een\u0219ine, uit\u0103m s\u0103 ne \u00eengrijim de propria persoan\u0103 sau minimaliz\u0103m probleme pe care ar trebui s\u0103 le trat\u0103m cu mai mult\u0103 aten\u021bie sau cu mai mult\u0103 seriozitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da, azi sunt serioas\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 avem tendin\u021ba s\u0103 ne punem pe ultimul loc \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i, c\u00e2nd ne confrunt\u0103m cu probleme medicale sau informa\u021bii care ne afecteaz\u0103 via\u021ba pe termen lung, nu \u0219tim cum s\u0103 reac\u021bion\u0103m. Sau nu \u00een\u021belegem de ce ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 a\u0219a ceva tocmai nou\u0103. Sau vrem s\u0103 \u0219tim cu ce suntem de vin\u0103 sau unde am gre\u0219it de am ajuns \u00een situa\u021bia aceasta nepl\u0103cut\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen realitate, ar trebui s\u0103 lu\u0103m lucrurile \u00eencet. S\u0103 ne d\u0103m timp s\u0103 asimil\u0103m ve\u0219tile mai pu\u021bin bune, s\u0103 le \u00een\u021belegem, s\u0103 le percepem \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencepem s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m la noua realitate. Nu este u\u0219or. Nimeni nu va spune vreodat\u0103 c\u0103 o veste pu\u021bin pl\u0103cut\u0103 referitor la s\u0103n\u0103tatea sa a fost u\u0219or de asimilat, u\u0219or de \u00een\u021beles sau u\u0219or de acceptat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, oamenii se pot adapta at\u00e2tor situa\u021bii diverse, \u00eenc\u00e2t au capacitatea de a face fa\u021b\u0103 multor provoc\u0103ri aduse de via\u021b\u0103. Da, nu este u\u0219or, dar \u00een situa\u021bii dificile afl\u0103m, de obicei, lucruri noi despre propria persoan\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2t de puternici suntem \u00een confruntarea cu acestea. \u0218i cum vom face fa\u021b\u0103 schimb\u0103rilor ce vor interveni \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ca s\u0103 r\u0103spund \u00eentreb\u0103rii din titlul articolului: nu, nu cred c\u0103 realiz\u0103m c\u00e2t de fragili suntem, dec\u00e2t \u00een momentul \u00een care ne confrunt\u0103m cu ve\u0219ti nepl\u0103cute \u0219i suntem pu\u0219i \u00een fa\u021ba unor situa\u021bii c\u0103rora trebuie (fie c\u0103 vrem, fie c\u0103 nu vrem) s\u0103 le facem fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Lua\u021bi de valul vie\u021bii cotidiene, prin\u0219i \u00een activit\u0103\u021bile zilnice \u0219i \u00een planificarea celor din perioada urm\u0103toare, mai suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 vedem c\u00e2t de fragili suntem? Ne credem indestructibili, ne …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2963"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2963"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2963\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2964,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2963\/revisions\/2964"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2963"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2963"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2963"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}