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Am g\u0103sit \u00eentr-o carte expresia \u201cMinciunile \u00eei fac pe oameni s\u0103 fie ur\u00e2\u021bi\u201d \u0219i mi s-a p\u0103rut interesant\u0103. Pentru c\u0103, \u00een societatea de azi, vorbim despre frumuse\u021be, vorbim despre imagine, vorbim despre cum ap\u0103rem (sau cum vrem s\u0103 ap\u0103rem) \u00een ochii celorlal\u021bi, vorbim despre cum vrem s\u0103 fim, dar nu despre cum suntem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am folosit, de multe ori, \u00een articolele mele termenul \u201coameni frumo\u0219i\u201d \u0219i nu m-am referit la aspectul fizic, ci la cum sunt ei, cum ne fac s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim, despre faptul c\u0103 ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 fim noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i s\u0103 ne dezvolt\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Minciunile, \u00een schimb, ne ur\u00e2\u021besc. \u0218i nu fizic, c\u00e2t suflete\u0219te. Oamenii care sunt obi\u0219nui\u021bi s\u0103 mint\u0103, de\u0219i pot avea o imagine foarte bun\u0103, dac\u0103 ajungem s\u0103 \u00eei cunoa\u0219tem vom afla c\u0103 sunt, de fapt, ur\u00e2\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ca s\u0103 ne l\u0103murim \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu termenii folosi\u021bi, vom apela la defini\u021biile acestora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
DEx-ul define\u0219te minciuna drept afirma\u021bie prin care se denatureaz\u0103, \u00een mod deliberat, adev\u0103rul; vicle\u0219ug, \u00een\u0219el\u0103ciune; fic\u021biune, inven\u021bie, n\u0103scocire, pl\u0103smuire, scornitur\u0103, \u00eenchipuire. Cu alte cuvinte, minciuna nu are nicio leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu realitatea, este doar o inducer \u00een eroare a celui care trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tie adev\u0103rul sau vrea s\u0103 \u0219tie adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acela\u0219i DEX define\u0219te ur\u00e2t drept diform, hidos, h\u00e2d, monstruos, pocit, resping\u0103tor, schimonosit, slut, desfigurat, deformat; inestetic, \u00eennorat; nefavorabil; mizerabil; nepl\u0103cut; defavorabil; r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cumva, nu ar trebui s\u0103 ne mire c\u0103 minciunile \u00eei ur\u00e2\u021besc pe oameni, pentru c\u0103 nu poate fi frumos cel care nu spune (nu recunoa\u0219te) adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 tr\u0103im vremuri \u00een care imaginea (doar imaginea!) conteaz\u0103, avem tendin\u021ba s\u0103 ne raport\u0103m la ceilal\u021bi \u00een func\u021bie de cum se prezint\u0103 \u0219i de cum arat\u0103. Avem tendin\u021ba s\u0103 ne form\u0103m p\u0103reri dup\u0103 ceea ce ni se serve\u0219te. \u0218i atunci este foarte u\u0219or s\u0103 fim indu\u0219i \u00een eroare (sedu\u0219i?) de cineva care are mare grij\u0103 de imaginea lui, care arat\u0103 \u00eentr-un mare fel \u0219i s\u0103 nu fim \u00een stare s\u0103 vedem dincolo de ce avem \u00een fa\u021ba ochilor. Credem c\u0103 avem de-a face cu oameni frumo\u0219i, care, de fapt, \u00een sufletul lor, sunt oameni ur\u00e2\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unii dintre noi au capacitatea s\u0103 vad\u0103 dincolo de imagine, dincolo de ceea ce li se prezint\u0103 de c\u0103tre ceilal\u021bi. Probabil c\u0103 to\u021bi oamenii au posibilitatea s\u0103 vad\u0103 dincolo de aparen\u021be, trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 ceva experien\u021b\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i asculte instinctul. Doar c\u0103, de multe ori, ajungem s\u0103 ne ata\u0219\u0103m de oameni ur\u00e2\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 nu ne vin\u0103 s\u0103 credem c\u0103 nu sunt cei pe care \u00eei credeam (\u00eei creasem \u00een propria noastr\u0103 minte) \u0219i ajungem s\u0103 ne \u00eendoim de noi \u00een\u0219ine. Uneori, \u00eens\u0103, este chiar foarte greu s\u0103 identifici oamenii ur\u00e2\u021bi, pentru c\u0103 se ascund at\u00e2t de bine,. Dar poate \u0219i pentru c\u0103 ne dorim ca to\u021bi oamenii s\u0103 fie frumo\u0219i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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