{"id":2915,"date":"2025-02-27T16:49:50","date_gmt":"2025-02-27T14:49:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2915"},"modified":"2025-02-27T16:49:51","modified_gmt":"2025-02-27T14:49:51","slug":"stim-sa-ne-traim-viata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2915","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tim s\u0103 ne tr\u0103im via\u021ba?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu ceea ce ne dorim, nu ceea ce vedem la al\u021bii, nu ceea ce credem c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 tr\u0103im, ci via\u021ba noastr\u0103 a\u0219a cum este. Sunt uimit\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103d c\u0103 oamenii t\u00e2njesc la ce au al\u021bii sau sunt frustra\u021bi c\u0103 nu au ce posed\u0103 al\u021bii, dar nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u00e2t de plin\u0103 este via\u021ba lor \u0219i c\u00e2t de multe lucruri frumoase au \u00een via\u021ba lor de care ar trebui s\u0103 se bucure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate pentru c\u0103 avem acces la o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de informa\u021bii sau pentru c\u0103 ne-am transformat \u00een persoane egoiste \u0219i triste, vrem s\u0103 avem tot ceea ce ni se pare bun \u0219i frumos pe lumea aceasta. Vrem s\u0103 de\u021binem toate lucrurile scumpe \u0219i s\u0103 beneficiem de cele mai costisitoare servicii, a\u0219a cum am v\u0103zut c\u0103 fac unii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cens\u0103, cu ochii la via\u021ba altora, a noastr\u0103 trece pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi. \u0218i \u00een loc s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de ceea ce avem (pentru c\u0103, de\u0219i nu vrem s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem sau nu suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 observ\u0103m, avem multe lucruri pentru care ar trebui s\u0103 fim m\u00e2ndri \u0219i pentru care mul\u021bi oameni ne invidiaz\u0103), ni se pare c\u0103 avem prea pu\u021bin \u0219i credem c\u0103 merit\u0103m (?) mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dorin\u021ba de a avea mai mult, de a de\u021bine mai mult, de a ajunge mai departe nu este niciodat\u0103 un luru negative. Dec\u00e2t atunci c\u00e2nd ajunge o obsesie, atunci c\u00e2nd acest lucru ne conduce via\u021ba \u0219i totul se \u00eenv\u00e2rte \u00een jurul ob\u021binerii unor \u0219ucruri despre care credem noi c\u0103 ne-ar face s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim mai bine \u00een propria noastr\u0103 piele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De multe ori, lucrurile pe care ni le dorim sunt un capriciu, un moft, ceva ce ne dorim doar pentru c\u0103 sim\u021bim c\u0103 a\u0219a am fi la mod\u0103 (am scris la 3 februarie 2025 una rticol despre cei care devin victim ale vreumurilor <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2856)\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2856)<\/a>., nu pentru c\u0103 n-am putea tr\u0103i f\u0103r\u0103 acele lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103: \u0219tim s\u0103 ne tr\u0103im via\u021ba? Adic\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de momentele pl\u0103cute, s\u0103 facem strategii ca s\u0103 trecem de obstacole \u0219i s\u0103 vedem \u00een bariere doar ni\u0219te provoc\u0103ri care ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 ne dezvolt\u0103m ca persoane? \u0218tim s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m emo\u021biile negative deoparte \u0219I s\u0103 ne concentr\u0103m pe cele pozitive, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu avem parte, la fiecare pas, de frustrare, sup\u0103rare, ne\u00eemplinire etc? \u0218tim s\u0103 savur\u0103m fiecare moment frumos, s\u0103 ni-l \u00eentip\u0103rim \u00een memorie, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 avem o amintire pl\u0103cut\u0103 pentru restul vie\u021bii noastre?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tim s\u0103 lu\u0103m lucrurile a\u0219a cum sunt, nu a\u0219a cum vrem s\u0103 fie \u0219i s\u0103 ne tr\u0103im via\u021ba noastr\u0103, nu a altora? Nu \u0219tiu c\u00e2\u021bi oameni ar putea r\u0103spunde sincer pozitiv la aceste \u00eentreb\u0103ri, pentru c\u0103, privind \u00een jur, vd doar oameni nemul\u021bumi\u021bi, critici, deranja\u021bi de oricine \u0219i orice, sup\u0103ra\u021bi \u0219i ne\u00een\u021bele\u0219i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nu ceea ce ne dorim, nu ceea ce vedem la al\u021bii, nu ceea ce credem c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 tr\u0103im, ci via\u021ba noastr\u0103 a\u0219a cum este. Sunt uimit\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103d &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2915"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2915"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2915\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2916,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2915\/revisions\/2916"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2915"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2915"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2915"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}