{"id":2878,"date":"2025-02-12T18:14:13","date_gmt":"2025-02-12T16:14:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2878"},"modified":"2025-02-12T18:14:40","modified_gmt":"2025-02-12T16:14:40","slug":"despre-agitatia-care-ne-consuma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2878","title":{"rendered":"Despre agita\u021bia care ne consum\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 fim mereu concentra\u021bi, mereu agita\u021bi, mereu conecta\u021bi cu to\u021bi \u0219i toate. Nu mai ltim s\u0103 tr\u0103im dec\u00e2t \u00een ritm nebun, iar c\u00e2nd nu avem nimic de f\u0103cut ne sim\u021bim inutili \u0219i ni se pare c\u0103 pierdem ceva important din via\u021ba noastr\u0103. Probabil c\u0103 am ajuns cu to\u021bii dependen\u021bi de starea de agita\u021bie \u0219i nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ie\u0219im din aceast\u0103 stare. Nu \u0219tim ce s\u0103 facem cu timpul liber sau \u00eel planific\u0103m \u0219i pe acesta astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu avem ocazia s\u0103 ne tragem sufletul \u0219i s\u0103 ne odihnim activ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Adev\u0103rul este c\u0103 aceast\u0103 stare de permanent\u0103 aten\u021bie ne face s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim vii (nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 este cel mai potrivit termen, dar cred descrie cel mai bine senza\u021bia pe care o avem). Faptul c\u0103 avem permanent oupa\u021bie, c\u0103 avem ce face, c\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00een vitez\u0103, ne face s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim bine. \u0218i atunci c\u00e2nd suntem tineri nici nu sim\u021bim surmenarea care vine odat\u0103 cu aceast\u0103 stare (aproape) permanent de veghe. &nbsp;Odat\u0103 cu v\u00e2rsta, \u00eens\u0103, nu mai putem tr\u0103i \u00een aceea\u0219i vitez\u0103 ca \u00een tinere\u021be (de\u0219i noi nu vrem s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem acet lucru \u0219i abia c\u00e2nd apar problemele de s\u0103n\u0103tate \u00eencepem s\u0103 realiz\u0103m c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 reducem ritmul vie\u021bii \u00een care tr\u0103im).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De\u0219i este greu de \u00een\u021beles \u0219i de acceptat, agita\u021bia vie\u021bii cotidiene ne consum\u0103 \u00een toate domeniile (emo\u021bional, psihologic, social, economic etc). Pentru c\u0103 planific\u0103m tot sau pentru c\u0103 vrem s\u0103 rezolv\u0103m tot, ne epuiz\u0103m \u0219i ajungem s\u0103 fim irascibili, obosi\u021bi aproape permanent, depresivi, tri\u0219ti, ne\u00een\u021bele\u0219i, nervo\u0219i, chiar agresivi pentru lucruri pu\u021bin importante. \u0218i am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb: chiar merit\u0103? Adic\u0103 dac\u0103 tot avem o singur\u0103 via\u021b\u0103, de ce s\u0103 o tr\u0103im pe fug\u0103? De ce s\u0103 fin tot timpul \u00een \u00eent\u00e2rziere undeva sau \u00een drum spre altceva, dar niciodat\u0103 s\u00ee nu avem timp sufficient pentru a ne bucura de ceva sau pentru a admira ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Scriam, \u00een primul articol de pe blog (din 15 iunie 2021 <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=72\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=72<\/a>), despre cum am descoperit, la un moment dat, o gr\u0103din\u0103 superb\u0103 pe drumul meu c\u0103tre birou, gr\u0103din\u0103 care era acolo de mult timp, dar pe care eu, absorbit\u0103 de g\u00e2nduri sau concentrat\u0103 pe ce mai am de f\u0103cut, nu am v\u0103zut-o dec\u00e2t foarte t\u00e2rziu, dar m-am bucurat de descoperirea mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recunosc c\u0103 am constatat c\u0103 agita\u021bia m\u0103 consum\u0103 (foarte mult) la v\u00e2rsta maturit\u0103\u021bii. Este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 la 40 de ani nu mai avem energia de la 20, dar vrem s\u0103 facem acelea\u0219i lucruri, cu aceea\u0219i pasiune. Doar c\u0103, maturitatea (sau \u00een\u021belepciunea) ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 sc\u0103dem din viteza vie\u021bii cotidiene \u0219i \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m mai mult de ceea ce avem, de ceea ce vedem, de ceea ce sim\u021bim, de ceea ce este frumos.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 fim mereu concentra\u021bi, mereu agita\u021bi, mereu conecta\u021bi cu to\u021bi \u0219i toate. Nu mai ltim s\u0103 tr\u0103im dec\u00e2t \u00een ritm nebun, iar c\u00e2nd nu avem nimic de f\u0103cut &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2878"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2878"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2878\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2879,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2878\/revisions\/2879"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}