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Este o expresie (\u00eentrebare) dintr-o carte pe care am citit-o de cur\u00e2nd \u0219i mi-a r\u0103mas cumva \u00een minte. Adic\u0103 mi se are c\u0103 se potrive\u0219te lumii de azi, \u00een care nimeni nu mai are \u00eencredere \u00een nimeni, \u00een care suntem \u00eencuraja\u021bi s\u0103 credem ce este mai r\u0103u despre ceilal\u021bi, \u00een care ni se spune (ni se sugereaz\u0103?) s\u0103 ne izol\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103im c\u00e2t mai departe de to\u021bi \u0219i de toate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i pe mine m-a urm\u0103rit \u00eentrebarea din titlul articolului. \u00centotdeauna am \u00eencercat s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg de ce avem tendin\u021ba de crede \u0219i de a ne g\u00e2ndi la lucruri ur\u00e2te \u0219i triste, \u00eenainte de orice. Avem tendin\u021ba s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim lucruri nepl\u0103cute \u00eenainte s\u0103 cunoa\u0219tem persoana sau situa\u021bia \u0219i de a trage concluzii pripite \u0219i nepotrivite \u00eenainte de a analiza cu aten\u021bie ce ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i totu\u0219i, \u00een justi\u021bie exist\u0103 prezum\u021bia de nevinov\u0103\u021bie (o persoan\u0103 este considerat\u0103 nevinovat\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd sunt prezentate dovezi care arat\u0103 c\u0103 nu este a\u0219a), oare \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 de zi cu zi nu poate exista prezum\u021bia de nevinov\u0103\u021bie? Nu putem s\u0103 acord\u0103m oamenilor \u0219i \u0219ansa de a fi buni, de a ne demonstra bunele lor inten\u021bii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De c\u00e2te ori m-am \u00eentrebat de ce oamenii cred lucruri rele despre ceilal\u021bi (sau de ce sunt tenta\u021bi s\u0103 cread\u0103 astfel de lucruri), nu am avut un r\u0103spuns clar. Pentru c\u0103 mi se p\u0103rea c\u0103 poate exagerez sau poate am interpretat gre\u0219it anumite lucruri sau situa\u021bii. Dar, \u00een ultimul timp, nu mai g\u0103sesc oameni care s\u0103 vad\u0103 \u0219i partea plin\u0103 a paharului. Nu mai v\u0103d oameni dispu\u0219i s\u0103 fac\u0103 bine \u0219i s\u0103 vad\u0103 frumosul din ceilal\u021bi. \u00cen schimb, v\u0103d foarte mul\u021bi oameni (\u0219i, mai ales tineri, iar acest lucru m\u0103 \u00eengrijoreaz\u0103) care pornesc \u00een orice situa\u021bie cu g\u00e2nduri negative, cu energie negativ\u0103, cu a\u0219tept\u0103ri mici \u0219i cu sentimentul c\u0103 vor fi dezam\u0103gi\u021bi. \u0218i sunt uimit\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu \u00een\u021beleg unde a disp\u0103rut speran\u021ba, \u00eencrederea, dorin\u021ba de a face bine \u0219i de a ne sim\u021bi bine f\u0103c\u00e2nd bine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218tirile \u0219i presa au un loc important \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i, n-ar trebui s\u0103 ne mire, influen\u021ba pesimist\u0103 a acestora asupra oamenilor. Este normal, v\u0103z\u00e2nd \u00een jurul nostru (de fapt \u00een \u0219tiri) at\u00e2ta violen\u021b\u0103, falsitate, ne\u00eencredere, rea-credin\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 facem loc acestor sentimente negative \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103. Problema este c\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m aceast\u0103 negativitate s\u0103 ne conduc\u0103 via\u021ba \u0219i devenim tri\u0219ti, deprima\u021bi, depresivi, nu mai vedem nimic bun \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103. \u0218i, pentru c\u0103 avem o singur\u0103 via\u021b\u0103, poate c\u0103 nu ar fi r\u0103u s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m \u0219i partea pozitiv\u0103 a vie\u021bii. \u0218i poate vom prinde atunci gustul (bun \u0219i frumos) al vie\u021bii noastre.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Este o expresie (\u00eentrebare) dintr-o carte pe care am citit-o de cur\u00e2nd \u0219i mi-a r\u0103mas cumva \u00een minte. Adic\u0103 mi se are c\u0103 se potrive\u0219te lumii de azi, \u00een care …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2829"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2829"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2829\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3358,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2829\/revisions\/3358"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2829"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2829"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2829"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}