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\u00centr-o lume aflat\u0103 \u00eentr-o continu\u0103 mi\u0219care, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care nu e\u0219ti l\u0103sat de ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 stai (chiar dac\u0103 ai vrea s\u0103 faci acest lucru), \u0219tim s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m? \u0218tim s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m lucrurile s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare \u00een ritmul lor \u0219i s\u0103 accept\u0103m c\u0103 nu putem controla tot ce ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103? \u0218tim s\u0103 avem r\u0103bdare s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple lucrurile care trebuie s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eu cred c\u0103 oamenii de azi nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 a\u0219tepte. Nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 cread\u0103 \u00een ceva ce o s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple, ei vor s\u0103 fac\u0103 acele lucruri s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple. Nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 lucrurile de la distan\u021b\u0103, ca s\u0103 vad\u0103 situa\u021bia \u00een ansamblul ei. Oamenii de azi se gr\u0103besc spre rezultatul final, spre ceea ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc sau spre ceea ce cred c\u0103 li se cuvine; nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 anticipeze \u0219i nici s\u0103 preconizeze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00een ritmul acesta nebun, nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne oprim. \u0218i suntem nervo\u0219i, sup\u0103ra\u021bi, revolta\u021bi, frustra\u021bi, dac\u0103 cineva \u00eendr\u0103zne\u0219te s\u0103 ne spun\u0103 s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m. De parc\u0103 a\u0219teptarea nu face parte din via\u021b\u0103. De parc\u0103 totul trebuie s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple aici \u0219i acum, orice ar fi. De\u0219i ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m pentru c\u0103 exist\u0103 cozi cam peste tot unde ajungem (la magazine, \u00een rela\u021biile cu institu\u021biile publice sau private, cu institu\u021biile bancare etc), de fapt nu ne place s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m. Nu ne place ca al\u021bii s\u0103 aib\u0103 acces \u00eenaintea noastr\u0103 la ceea ce ne dorim \u0219i noi \u0219i ne comport\u0103m \u00een consecin\u021b\u0103 (a\u021bi v\u0103zut c\u00e2\u021bi oameni se ceart\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd se st\u0103 la coad\u0103? Dar nu despre statul la coad\u0103 este vorba \u00een acest articol).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 nu \u0219tim s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m pentru c\u0103 vrem totul de-a gata, repede, la dispozi\u021bia noastr\u0103 oric\u00e2nd, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 depunem prea multe eforturi. Ne-am obi\u0219nuit a\u0219a \u0219i ne deranjeaz\u0103 c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m pentru a avea ceva (sau a avea acces la ceva).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oamenii moderni au scos a\u0219teptarea din vocabularul lor. Li se pare c\u0103 a\u0219teptarea este timp pierdut \u0219i se g\u00e2ndesc c\u00e2te lucruri ar fi rezolvat \u00een perioada c\u00e2t au z\u0103bovit p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd au rezolvat o problem\u0103 sau au accesat ceea ce voiau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doar c\u0103, uneori (doar uneori?) este nevoie s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m pentru a ajunge acolo unde ne dorim. Este nevoie s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m pentru ca noi s\u0103 fim preg\u0103ti\u021bi pentru acel lucru sau ca acel lucru s\u0103 fie preg\u0103tit pentru noi. Nu vi s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat s\u0103 vede\u021bi c\u0103 v-a\u021bi aruncat asupra unor lucruri sau persoane \u0219i nu a fost un lucru bun, \u00een timp ce a\u0219tept\u00e2nd ca o rela\u021bie s\u0103 se dezvolte, lucrurile au fost mult mai frumoase? Are \u0219i a\u0219teptarea rostul ei pe lume, chiardac\u0103 nou\u0103 nu ne place s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem acest Lucru.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00centr-o lume aflat\u0103 \u00eentr-o continu\u0103 mi\u0219care, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care nu e\u0219ti l\u0103sat de ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 stai (chiar dac\u0103 ai vrea s\u0103 faci acest lucru), \u0219tim s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m? \u0218tim s\u0103 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2823"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2823"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2823\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2833,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2823\/revisions\/2833"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2823"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2823"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2823"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}