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Ideea acestui articol a pornit de la \u2026 m\u00e2ncare. Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi exager\u0103m (unii mai mult, al\u021bii mai pu\u021bin) de s\u0103rb\u0103torile de iarn\u0103 cu m\u00e2ncarea. Iar unii ajung s\u0103 aib\u0103 chiar probleme de s\u0103n\u0103tate. \u0218i totu\u0219i, chiar dac\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 unele produse le fac r\u0103u (\u00een cantit\u0103\u021bi mari, pentru c\u0103 \u00een cantit\u0103\u021bi mici nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 nimic r\u0103u), ace\u0219tia continu\u0103 s\u0103 le consume. Ba am auzit oameni care sus\u021bin c\u0103 nu se pot ab\u021bine s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce ceva, de\u0219i \u0219tiu foarte bine c\u0103 le va face r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i, pornind de la aceste lucruri, am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu cumva ace\u0219ti oameni ofer\u0103 un loc \u00een via\u021ba lor \u0219i lucrurilor (situa\u021biilor sau persoanelor) care le fac r\u0103u, de\u0219i \u0219tiu c\u0103 le fac r\u0103u sau se vor sim\u021bi r\u0103u din cauza acestora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen mod normal, am elimina din via\u021ba noast\u0103 lucrurile care ne fac r\u0103u. Este o chestie logic\u0103, ra\u021bional\u0103 dac\u0103 vre\u021bi. Dac\u0103 ceva m\u0103 face s\u0103 nu m\u0103 simt bine, nu a\u0219 avea de ce s\u0103 \u00eel mai p\u0103strez \u00een via\u021ba mea. Corect? \u0218i totu\u0219i\u2026 Fiecare dintre noi are \u00een via\u021ba lui lucruri care \u00eei fac r\u0103u pe care nu le exclude din via\u021ba lui. \u0218i nu pentru c\u0103 nu ar putea, ci pentru c\u0103 nu vrea. Pentru c\u0103 acele lucruri, de\u0219i pe termen lung \u00eel fac s\u0103 se simt\u0103 r\u0103u (iar el \u0219tie acest fapt pentru c\u0103 s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat deja), pe termen scurt (sau imediat) \u00eei ofer\u0103 ceva ce el crede c\u0103 \u00eei trebuie. Am auzit pe cineva spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 a exagerat cu ceva ce \u0219tia c\u0103 o s\u0103 \u00eei fac\u0103 r\u0103u (pentru c\u0103 deja se sim\u021bea r\u0103u), dar c\u0103 nu se putea ab\u021bine s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 acel lucru. Era ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd nu mai avea voin\u021b\u0103 proprie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am ajuns s\u0103 cred c\u0103 unii dintre oameni accept\u0103 lucrurile rele \u00een via\u021ba lor pentru a se pedepsi pentru c\u0103 se simt vinova\u021bi pentru ceva din via\u021ba lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate c\u0103 unii dintre noi nu pot func\u021biona dec\u00e2t fiind toxici pentru al\u021bii sau fiind intoxica\u021bi de al\u021bii. Pentru c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd m\u0103 refer la lucruri care ne fac r\u0103u, m\u0103 refer \u0219i la al\u021bi osmeni care ne fac r\u0103u (inten\u021bionat sau nu). Ra\u021bional, ar trebui s\u0103 nu ne \u00eentoarcem la cei care ne-au r\u0103nit sau ne-au f\u0103cut s\u0103 suferim \u00een vreun fel. \u0218i totu\u0219i, exist\u0103 rela\u021bii care supravie\u021buiesc timpului, de\u0219i cei implica\u021bi \u00ee\u0219i fac r\u0103u unul altuia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a c\u0103 am ajuns la concluzia c\u0103 poate percep\u021biile mele despre r\u0103u, despre durere, despre suferin\u021b\u0103 sunt desuete, iar lumea aceasta modern\u0103 \u0219i sofisticat\u0103 este complicat\u0103 \u0219i greu de \u00een\u021beles \u0219i prefer\u0103 s\u0103 p\u0103streze \u00een apropiere lucrurile (situa\u021biile sau oamenii) care \u00eei fac r\u0103u.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ideea acestui articol a pornit de la \u2026 m\u00e2ncare. Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi exager\u0103m (unii mai mult, al\u021bii mai pu\u021bin) de s\u0103rb\u0103torile de iarn\u0103 cu m\u00e2ncarea. Iar unii ajung s\u0103 aib\u0103 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2796"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2796"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2796\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2797,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2796\/revisions\/2797"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2796"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2796"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2796"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}