{"id":2777,"date":"2024-12-30T17:17:11","date_gmt":"2024-12-30T15:17:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2777"},"modified":"2026-04-15T20:39:19","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T17:39:19","slug":"nostalgie-de-final-de-an","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2777","title":{"rendered":"Nostalgie de final de an"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apropierea noului an ne face s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la ce am f\u0103cut, ce am tr\u0103it, ce am construit anul acesta, ce nu am reu\u0219it s\u0103 facem sau ce am stricat \u0219i ne \u00eendrum\u0103 s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim ce vrem de la anul care urmeaz\u0103. Ce vrem de la noi, de la ceilal\u021bi, de la via\u021b\u0103\u2026 Odat\u0103 cu trecerea timpului, nu ne mai propunem s\u0103 realiz\u0103m at\u00e2t de multe &#8211; nu mai vrem s\u0103 mai mut\u0103m mun\u021bii sau s\u0103 salv\u0103m omenirea \u2013 ci doar s\u0103 avem lucruri frumoase \u0219i oameni frumo\u0219i \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doar c\u0103, g\u00e2ndindu-ne la ce am realizat \u00een anul \u00een curs, inevitabil ajungem s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim \u0219i la ce nu am realizat. Azi mi-a zburat g\u00e2ndul la oameni care nu mai sunt al\u0103turi de mine (din motive obiective sau de ne\u00een\u021beles). &nbsp;Oameni care mi-au fost (\u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eemi sunt) dragi, de\u0219i ei nu mai sunt l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine. Cumva, finalul \u0219i \u00eenceputul de an ne amintesc \u0219i de lucrurile mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute, de momentele mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute \u0219i de oamenii pe care nu \u00eei mai avem al\u0103turi de noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u00eenceputul de an este cu speran\u021be de bine, cu g\u00e2nduri bune pentru noul an, cu planuri pentru a avea ceea ce nu am avut \u0219i de a tr\u0103i momente frumoase, sf\u00e2r\u0219itul de an ne oblig\u0103 s\u0103 analiz\u0103m \u0219i ce nu a mers anul acesta, ce nu s-a \u00eemplinit, de ce nu s-a \u00eemplinit, ce putem face pentru a repara ce a fost gre\u0219it sau pentru a nu repeta gre\u0219elile\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 noul an ne umple de optimism, de \u00eencredere, de tot felul de sentimente de bine, finalul de an ne aminte\u0219te c\u0103 nu totul este roz \u0219i c\u0103 nu tot ce ne propunem se \u00eempline\u0219te, c\u0103 gre\u0219im \u0219i c\u0103 avem voie s\u0103 fim pu\u021bin nostalgici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De\u0219i \u00eencerc s\u0103 m\u0103 concentrez pe lucrurile frumoase \u0219i bune care mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, nu trebuie s\u0103 uit c\u0103 mai exist\u0103 \u0219i oameni care nu sunt l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine, oameni cu care am \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit multe, de care m\u0103 leag\u0103 amintiri pe care nu am cum s\u0103 le uit (nici amintirile, dar nici oamenii al\u0103turi de care am tr\u0103it momentele respective). A\u0219a c\u0103, pentru mine, finalul de an are \u0219i momentele lui de u\u0219oar\u0103 triste\u021be, pentru c\u0103 nu putem avea tot timpul tot ce ne dorim, dar acest lucru nu ar trebui s\u0103 constituie o problem\u0103. Pentru nimeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, putem fi nostalgici, dar nu avem voie s\u0103 fim tri\u0219ti. Putem z\u00e2mbi amintirilor \u0219i oamenilor din amintirile noastre \u0219i s\u0103 ne \u00eentoarcem \u00een realitate \u0219i s\u0103 ne cre\u0103m alte amintiri al\u0103turi de al\u021bi oameni, la care s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul anilor urm\u0103tori.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Apropierea noului an ne face s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la ce am f\u0103cut, ce am tr\u0103it, ce am construit anul acesta, ce nu am reu\u0219it s\u0103 facem sau ce am stricat &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2777"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2777"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2777\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3716,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2777\/revisions\/3716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}