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Am observat c\u0103 oamenii prefer\u0103 s\u0103 ignore realitatea, prefer\u0103 s\u0103 ignore lucrurile evidente \u0219i accept\u0103 idei sau situa\u021bii care corespund visurilor lor, chiar dac\u0103 acestea din urm\u0103 sunt rupte de realitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oamenii au ajuns s\u0103 interpreteze realitatea cum vor ei, s\u0103 ia ce le convine \u0219i s\u0103 nege ce nu este pe m\u0103sura a\u0219tept\u0103rilor. Adic\u0103 s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 pot \u00eenvinge realitatea sau pot ob\u021bine rezultatele pe care le doresc, \u00een ciuda eviden\u021bei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am v\u0103zut destui oameni care prefer\u0103 s\u0103 nu vad\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba ochilor lor, dar s\u0103 fie speciali\u0219ti \u00een a-i judeca pe al\u021bii. Oameni care prefer\u0103 s\u0103 nu recunoasc\u0103 faptul c\u0103 au o problem\u0103 care trebuie judecat\u0103, dar care nu stau pe g\u00e2nduri \u00een a le spune altora ce \u0219i cum s\u0103 fac\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd m-am g\u00e2ndit s\u0103 scriu acest articol nu aveam lucrurile prea clare \u00een mintea mea. Adic\u0103 nu \u0219tiam exact cum s\u0103 \u00eel scriu sau la ce anume, \u00een mod concret, s\u0103 m\u0103 raportez. Dar acum \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 ar fi mai multe aspecte pe care ar trebui s\u0103 le abordez, a\u0219a c\u0103 o s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 m\u0103 l\u0103muresc \u00een cele ce urmeaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fiecare dintre noi vrea ceva de la via\u021b\u0103: s\u0103 fie fericit, s\u0103 fie bogat, s\u0103 aib\u0103 putere, s\u0103 aib\u0103 o familie frumoas\u0103, s\u0103 fie recunoscut pe strad\u0103 etc. \u0218i, pentru a ajunge acolo unde ne dorim, suntem dispusi s\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103m la unele lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doar c\u0103, unii dintre noi, pornind spre ceea ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc, renun\u021b\u0103 inclusiv la principiile lor, la lucrurile care \u00eei defines, la cine sunt \u0219i ajung, poate, la \u00eemplinirea visului lor, dar nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 se bucure de aceast\u0103 \u00eemplinire sau constat\u0103 c\u0103 nu mai sunt persoana care au \u00eenceput acel drum \u0219i c\u0103 nu se \u00eempac\u0103 prea bine cu cine sunt la momentul prezent (au renun\u021bat la prea mult din ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i \u0219i nu se mai recunosc pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi sunt cei care nu renun\u021b\u0103 la principiile lor de via\u021b\u0103, dar sunt at\u00e2t de umili\u021bi de ceilal\u021bi \u0219i frustra\u021bi v\u0103z\u00e2nd at\u00e2\u021bia trec\u00e2nd pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ei \u0219i ajung\u00e2nd acolo unde ei \u00ee\u0219i doreau s\u0103 fie, \u00eenc\u00e2t devin ni\u0219te persoane acre \u0219i r\u0103ut\u0103cioase care se bucur\u0103 de r\u0103ul celorlal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sunt prea pu\u021bini cei care \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 via\u021ba este trec\u0103toare \u0219i c\u0103 depinde de noi cum o tr\u0103im, unde ajungem, unde ne oprim, al\u0103turi de cine vrem s\u0103 fim, al\u0103turi de cine ajungem s\u0103 fim \u0219i s\u0103 fie \u0219i \u00eemp\u0103ca\u021bi cu respectiva situa\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate pentru c\u0103 \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care vrem totul, \u00een care ni se arat\u0103 c\u0103 am putea avea totul, nu \u0219tim c\u0103 nu putem avea totul. Sau nu vrem s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 nu putem avea totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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