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\u00centr-o lume \u00een care toate (aproape toate?) se fac \u00een mediul virtual, iar toat\u0103 lumea (aproape toat\u0103 lumea) refuz\u0103 realitatea sau refuz\u0103 ancorarea \u00een realitate, suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m realit\u0103\u021bii? Suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 accept\u0103m ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een jurul nostru \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 avem o via\u021b\u0103 bun\u0103 \u00een condi\u021biile lumii de azi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Avem tendin\u021ba de a ne crea o lume a noastr\u0103 – o lume perfect\u0103, iar c\u00e2nd realitatea nu se ridic\u0103 la nivelul a\u0219tept\u0103rilor (visurilor?) noastre ne \u00eentrist\u0103m \u0219i ne sup\u0103r\u0103m pe via\u021b\u0103. ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd to\u021bi ceilal\u021bi sunt vinova\u021bi c\u0103 lucrurile nu au ie\u0219it a\u0219a cum ne doream. A\u0219a c\u0103 revin la \u00eentrebarea din titlul articolului: \u0219tim s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m realit\u0103\u021bii? \u0218tim s\u0103 lu\u0103m ce este bun \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eel transform\u0103m \u00een ceva \u0219i mai bun? \u0218tim s\u0103 accept\u0103m ce este mai pu\u021bin bun \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bim ceea ce avem? \u0218tim s\u0103 privim realitatea \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, dar s\u0103 ne p\u0103str\u0103m idealurile \u0219i speran\u021ba? \u0218tim s\u0103 nu ne resemn\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 nu renun\u021b\u0103m la cine suntem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De cele mai multe ori, contactul cu realitatea cotidian\u0103 ne aduce cu picioarele pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt. Pentru c\u0103 exist\u0103 momente c\u00e2nd avem senza\u021bia c\u0103 putem controla totul \u0219i putem a\u0219eza lucrurile( \u00een vie\u021bile noastre sau \u00een vie\u021bile altora) a\u0219a cum ne dorim. Dar exact c\u00e2nd suntem aproape s\u0103 sc\u0103p\u0103m lucrurile d esub control se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ceva care ne dovede\u0219te c\u00e2t de efemeri suntem \u0219i c\u00e2t de fragile suntem. \u0218i a\u0219a ne \u00eentoarcem \u00een realitate, \u00een cea care, de\u0219i nu ne convine, este cea cu care ne confrunt\u0103m \u00een fiecare zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unii dintre noi au capacitatea de a se adapta repede (din mers, a\u0219 zice eu) realit\u0103\u021bilor vie\u021bii cotidiene. Sunt cei care sunt preg\u0103ti\u021bi pentru orice li s-ar \u00eent\u00e2mpla. Apoi sunt cei care trebuie s\u0103 accepte realitatea (sau faptul c\u0103 este diferit\u0103 de cea pe care o a\u0219teptau) \u0219i apoi s\u0103 se adapteze ei. Apoi sunt cei care au senza\u021bia c\u0103 lumea se \u00eenv\u00e2rte \u00een jurul lor \u0219i c\u0103 ei stabilesc regulile jocului. Ace\u0219ti oameni sunt cei care neag\u0103 realitatea (pentru c\u0103 nu corespunde cerin\u021belor lor) \u0219i care nu se pot adapta realit\u0103\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Adev\u0103rul este c\u0103, la c\u00e2t de mult \u0219i de des se schimb\u0103 lumea de azi, este greu s\u0103 reu\u0219im s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m \u00een vreun fel. Pentru c\u0103 tr\u0103im aceste vremuri de agita\u021bie continu\u0103, de permanent\u0103 mi\u0219care, de schimb\u0103ri rapide \u0219i bru\u0219te, uneori ajungem s\u0103 ne \u00eentreb\u0103m \u0219i noi care este realitatea? Nu mai \u0219tim la ce s\u0103 ne raport\u0103m atunci c\u00e2nd vorbim despre realitate. A\u0219a c\u0103 poate ar trebui s\u0103 ne mai oprim din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd \u0219i s\u0103 afl\u0103m unde ne situ\u0103m \u00een raport cu realitatea zilei de azi. Poate ne va ajuta s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem unele lucruri. \u0218i poate vom g\u0103si modalit\u0103\u021bi de a ne adapta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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