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Este ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd tr\u0103im doar ca s\u0103 dovedim cuiva ceva (uneori chiar nou\u0103 \u00een\u0219ine). \u0218i nu \u00een\u021beleg de ce am tr\u0103i pentru al\u021bii sau pentru a ar\u0103ta ceva cuiva \u0219i nu tr\u0103im pentru noi? Prin\u0219i \u00een via\u021ba cotidian\u0103 (pe care mul\u021bi dintre noi o consider\u0103 o lupt\u0103) uit\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103im. Uit\u0103m s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de lucrurile frumoase din jurul nostrum, de oamenii dragi care \u00ee\u0219i doresc s\u0103 petrecem mai mult timp cu ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen loc s\u0103 fim lini\u0219ti\u021bi, \u00een loc s\u0103 savur\u0103m ceea ce avem, noi, tot timpul, sim\u021bim nevoia s\u0103 demonstr\u0103m ceva, S\u0103 ie\u0219im \u00een eviden\u021b\u0103 sau s\u0103 ne impunem punctul de vedere. S\u0103 le ar\u0103t\u0103m celorlal\u021bi c\u0103 noi avem dreptate (sau c\u0103 \u0219tim totul?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uneori, ne \u0219i pierdem \u00een aceste demonstra\u021bii sau ne \u00eenver\u0219un\u0103m at\u00e2t de mult \u00eenc\u00e2t \u00eei vedem pe ceilal\u021bi ca pe ni\u0219te inamici \u0219i ne comport\u0103m ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd am fi \u00een r\u00e2zboi cu ei. Dar, \u00een realitate, chiar uit\u0103m de la ce am pornit (motivul se pierde \u00eentr-un col\u021b de memorie).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103, ini\u021bial, ne place energia cu care vrem s\u0103 \u00eei convingem pe ceilal\u021bi \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu punctul nostru de vedere. Ne place cu, ne face s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim. Ne place s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m argumente \u0219i dovezi \u00een favoarea noastr\u0103. Ne place s\u0103 adun\u0103m oameni \u00een jurul nostru c\u0103rora s\u0103 le prezent\u0103m p\u0103rerea noastr\u0103. Ne place c\u00e2t de vii ne sim\u021bim c\u00e2nd lupt\u0103m pentru ceea ce avem de spus (sau de demonstrat).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doar c\u0103, ajungem s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m mereu \u0219i \u00een orice s\u0103 avem dreptate. \u0218i tot timpul parc\u0103 vrem s\u0103 demonstr\u0103m c\u0103 lucrurile stau cum credem noi \u0219i c\u0103 ceilal\u021bi nu au dreptate. \u0218i astfel ajungem s\u0103 vrem s\u0103 demonstr\u0103m, permanent, ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uneori, mi se pare c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne mai relax\u0103m. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 st\u0103m deoparte \u0219i s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m lucrurile s\u0103 mai \u0219i treac\u0103 pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi (nu doar prin noi). Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 nu mai fim crispa\u021bi, agita\u021bi, \u00eengrijora\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da, \u0219tiu, \u00een societatea de azi \u00een care to\u021bi trebuie s\u0103 facem totul cu viteza luminii, nimeni nu are timp s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103. Nimeni nu mai are timp s\u0103 se relaxeze. Nimeni nu mai \u0219tie ce este lini\u0219tea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a c\u0103, fiind permanent conecta\u021bi la informa\u021bii, la \u0219tiri, la diverse alte lucruri din aceea\u0219i categorie, nu mai avem cum s\u0103 \u0219tim ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 relaxarea. Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 mai l\u0103s\u0103m de la noi. S\u0103 mai d\u0103m dreptate \u0219i altora. S\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103 nu \u0219tim totul despre to\u021bi \u0219i toate. \u0218i s\u0103 nu mai c\u0103ut\u0103m s\u0103 demonstr\u0103m nimic nim\u0103nui. Este de ajuns s\u0103 ne tr\u0103im via\u021ba. \u0218i at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Este ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd tr\u0103im doar ca s\u0103 dovedim cuiva ceva (uneori chiar nou\u0103 \u00een\u0219ine). \u0218i nu \u00een\u021beleg de ce am tr\u0103i pentru al\u021bii sau pentru a ar\u0103ta ceva cuiva …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2736"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2736"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2736\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2737,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2736\/revisions\/2737"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2736"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2736"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2736"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}