{"id":2723,"date":"2024-12-02T18:04:57","date_gmt":"2024-12-02T16:04:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2723"},"modified":"2024-12-02T18:04:57","modified_gmt":"2024-12-02T16:04:57","slug":"stim-sa-facem-fata-schimbarii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2723","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tim s\u0103 facem fa\u021b\u0103 schimb\u0103rii?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o lume care evolueaz\u0103 foarte repede, care se dezvolat\u0103 permanent \u0219i \u00een care tehnologia a juns s\u0103 aib\u0103 rolul principal, oare \u0219rim s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m schimb\u0103rii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mul\u021bi ar spune c\u0103 schimb\u0103rile sunt bune. \u0218i \u00een principiu sunt de acord cu acest lucru. Doar c\u0103, noi am ajuns s\u0103 avem schimbarea la ordinea zilei, adic\u0103 at\u00e2t de multe lucruri au fost schimbate \u00eentr-o perioad\u0103 at\u00e2t de scurt\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 tr\u0103im altfel, dec\u00e2t cu valul schimb\u0103rii. Dar ne d\u0103m timp s\u0103 accept\u0103m schimb\u0103rile \u0219i s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m acestora?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uneori, am senza\u021bia c\u0103 tr\u0103im doar \u00een schimbare \u0219i c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim ce este stabilitatea \u0219i c\u00e2t\u0103 nevoie avem de ea \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103. Schimbarea \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fim permanent concentra\u021bi, vigilen\u021bi, aten\u021bi. Ori, o via\u021b\u0103 nu poate s\u0103 \u00eensemne doar agita\u021bie, avem nevoie \u0219i de momente de lini\u0219te, de relaxare, de pace, \u00een care s\u0103 ne reg\u0103sim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i s\u0103 decidem ce facem mai departe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 mereu au loc schimb\u0103ri \u00een vie\u021bile noastre, nu mai avem timp s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la ele, s\u0103 analiz\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 vedem dac\u0103 le accept\u0103m sau nu, dac\u0103 ni se potrivesc sau nu, dac\u0103 sunt pentru noi sau nu, dac\u0103 sunt normale sau nu, dac\u0103 putem s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m lor sau nu. Pur \u0219i simplu le facem loc \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i mergem mai departe a\u0219a, pentru c\u0103 ni se spune c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 facem astfel. Doar c\u0103, uneori, ar trebui s\u0103 ne mai oprim din ceea ce facem \u0219i s\u0103 vedem c\u00e2t de \u00eemp\u0103ca\u021bi suntem cu schimb\u0103rile din via\u021ba noastr\u0103. \u0218i poate astfel am afla de unde ne vine nervozitatea \u0219i irascibilitatea din ultima perioad\u0103, de unde provin nesiguran\u021ba \u0219i ne\u00eencrederea \u00een ceilal\u021bi, de unde provin frustr\u0103rile \u0219i sup\u0103r\u0103rile noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate c\u0103, nu ar fi r\u0103u ca, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, s\u0103 vedem c\u00e2t de repede accept\u0103m schimb\u0103rile din via\u021ba noastr\u0103 (chiar dac\u0103 noi avem senza\u021bia c\u0103 nu este nevoie de o astfel de analiz\u0103). S-ar putea s\u0103 fim surprin\u0219i s\u0103 constat\u0103m c\u0103 nu suntem deloc \u00eemp\u0103ca\u021bi cu unele lucruri care au fost schimbate \u0219i c\u0103 accept\u0103m destul de greu c\u0103 lucrurile nu mai sunt a\u0219a cum le \u0219tiam, a\u0219a cum ne pl\u0103cea s\u0103 fie sau a\u0219a cum consideram nri normal s\u0103 fie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nimeni nu poate accepta toate schimb\u0103rile din societatea de azi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 o reac\u021bie de vreun fel (pozitiv\u0103 sau negativ\u0103). Este prea mult. Iar unii dintre noi au senza\u021bia c\u0103 este u\u0219or, doar c\u0103 se vor \u00eempiedica, la un moment dat \u0219i nu vor putea s\u0103 se ridice de jos. Al\u021bii accept\u0103 greu, dar \u00eencet \u2013 \u00eencet realizeaz\u0103 c\u0103 nu au alt\u0103 solu\u021bie dec\u00e2t s\u0103 mearg\u0103 mai departe al\u0103turi de ceilal\u021bi. Pe unii \u00eei entuziasmeaz\u0103 schimb\u0103rile pentru c\u0103 nu se pot adapta nic\u0103ieri sau pentru c\u0103 le plac \u00eenceputurile. Sau pur \u0219i simplu pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 altfel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 facem schimb\u0103rilor. Cred c\u0103 depinde de fiecare dintre noi. \u0218i de schimbarea c\u0103reia trebuie s\u0103 \u00eei facem fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centr-o lume care evolueaz\u0103 foarte repede, care se dezvolat\u0103 permanent \u0219i \u00een care tehnologia a juns s\u0103 aib\u0103 rolul principal, oare \u0219rim s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m schimb\u0103rii? Mul\u021bi ar spune c\u0103 &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2723"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2723"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2723\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2724,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2723\/revisions\/2724"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2723"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2723"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2723"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}