{"id":2715,"date":"2024-11-27T16:33:10","date_gmt":"2024-11-27T14:33:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2715"},"modified":"2024-11-27T16:33:10","modified_gmt":"2024-11-27T14:33:10","slug":"cand-lucrurile-merg-bine-iti-arati-personalitatea-cand-merg-rau-iti-dovedesti-caracterul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2715","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2nd lucrurile merg bine, \u00ee\u021bi ar\u0103\u021bi personalitatea, c\u00e2nd merg r\u0103u, \u00ee\u021bi dovede\u0219ti caracterul"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este o replic\u0103 dintr-un film pe care l-am v\u0103zut cu pu\u021bin timp \u00een urm\u0103. \u0218i n-am putut s\u0103 trec peste a f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 o analizez pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i am pornit cu \u00eenceputul. De la defini\u021bii. Dic\u021bionarul Explicativ al Limbii Rom\u00e2ne pe care \u00eel am eu define\u0219te personalitatea drept ceea ce este propriu, caracteristic fiec\u0103rei persoane \u0219i o distinge ca individualitate cunoscut\u0103 \u0219i liber\u0103; ansamblu de tr\u0103s\u0103turi morale sau intelectuale prin care se remarc\u0103 o persoan\u0103; felul propriu de a fi al cuiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acela\u0219i DEX define\u0219te caracterul drept ansamblul \u00eensu\u0219irilor fundamentale psihice \u2013 morale ale unei persoane care se manifest\u0103 \u00een modul de comportare, \u00een ideile \u0219i \u00een ac\u021biunile sale; \u00eensu\u0219ire moral\u0103 care se manifest\u0103 prin perseveren\u021b\u0103, voin\u021b\u0103 ferm\u0103, \u0219i corectitudine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 personajul care a rostit aceast\u0103 replic\u0103 se referee la voin\u021ba care ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 trecem prin momente grele. Doar \u00een astfel d emomente ne test\u0103m (cu adev\u0103rat) voin\u021ba \u0219i modul \u00een care vrem (\u00een\u021belegem?) s\u0103 ne tr\u0103im via\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd lucrurile sunt bune, c\u00e2nd nu avem factori pertubatori sau evenimente nepl\u0103cute care s\u0103 ne strice buna dispozi\u021bie, putem fi foarte u\u0219or noi \u00een\u0219ine. Putem s\u0103 facem ce ne dorim, putem fi cine vrem. Iar atunci c\u00e2nd z\u00e2mbim, oamenii ne sunt al\u0103turi (pentru c\u0103 tututor le plac z\u00e2mbetele \u0219i starea de bine).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen momentele grele, atunci c\u00e2nd suntem pu\u0219i la \u00eencercare, modul \u00een care gestion\u0103m situa\u021biile, modul \u00een care ne raport\u0103m la ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, modul \u00een care abord\u0103m lucrurile, vorbesc despre voin\u021ba noastr\u0103, despre cine suntem \u0219i despre ce putem face pentru a ie\u0219i din momentul respectiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unii se panicheaz\u0103 c\u00e2nd se g\u0103sesc \u00een situa\u021bii nepl\u0103cute, al\u021bii, \u00eens\u0103, g\u0103sesc putere s\u0103 fac\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 cumva situa\u021biei \u0219i abia dup\u0103 ce se l\u0103muresc lucrurile resimt efectele panicii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fiecare are modul lui de a aborda lucrurile, problemele \u0219i&nbsp; grijile. Doar c\u0103, \u00een situa\u021biile nepl\u0103cute, de multe ori, \u0219i noi devenim nepl\u0103cu\u021bi. Pentru c\u0103 suntem nervo\u0219i, irita\u021bi, irascibili, nelini\u0219ti\u021bi \u0219i avem tendin\u021ba de a privi toate lucrurile \u0219i to\u021bi oamenii din jur cu ochi negativi. \u0218i nu numai din cauza panicii resim\u021bite. Ci \u0219i pentru c\u0103 avem senza\u021bia c\u0103 situa\u021bia ne dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219te, c\u0103 nu \u0219tim sau nu putem s\u0103 \u00eei facem fa\u021b\u0103, ori nu \u0219tim s\u0103 cerem ajutor ori nu avem cui s\u0103 cerem ajutor ori vrem s\u0103 ne decsurc\u0103m singuri (chiar dac\u0103 suntem con\u0219tien\u021bi c\u0103 situa\u021bia ne dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219te). \u0218i astfel, ajungem ca \u00een situa\u021bii nepl\u0103cute s\u0103 nu mai fim noi \u00een\u0219ine, s\u0103 nu mai fim acei oameni pl\u0103cu\u021bi \u0219i lini\u0219ti\u021bi din momentele pl\u0103cute ale vie\u021bii noastre.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Este o replic\u0103 dintr-un film pe care l-am v\u0103zut cu pu\u021bin timp \u00een urm\u0103. \u0218i n-am putut s\u0103 trec peste a f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 o analizez pu\u021bin. \u0218i am pornit cu &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2715"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2715"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2716,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2715\/revisions\/2716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}