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De-a lungul vie\u021bii, ne construim o lume ideal\u0103 sau o lume \u00een care ne-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 tr\u0103im \u0219i ne dorim s\u0103 ajungem s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de aceste universuri. Doar c\u0103, \u00een realitate, lumea nu este a\u0219a cum o credem sau cum ne-o dorim, ci este diferit\u0103. Are \u0219i lucruri bune \u0219i lucruri mai pu\u021bin bune, are \u0219i momente frumoase \u0219i momente mai pu\u021bin frumoase, are oameni pl\u0103cu\u021bi \u0219i oameni mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cu\u021bi. \u0218tim noi s\u0103 vedem realitatea a\u0219a cum este? Sau ne \u00eenconjur\u0103m doar de lucruri care fac parte doar din lumea pe care ne-o dorim \u0219i ignor\u0103m restul?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu prea \u0219tim s\u0103 privim realitatea \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 accept\u0103m c\u0103 lucrurile nu stu chiar a\u0219a cum credem sau cum ne dorim noi. \u0218i ce facem \u00een astfel de situa\u021bii? Ne refugiem \u00een lumea \u00een care ne sim\u021bim bine \u0219i ignor\u0103m realitatea, rearanj\u00e2nd lucrurile a\u0219a cum vrem? Ne lupt\u0103m cu realitatea, sper\u00e2nd s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103m un r\u0103zboi pe care nicio persoan\u0103 nu l-a c\u00e2\u0219tigat vreodat\u0103? Ne l\u0103s\u0103m cotropi\u021bi de o realitate dur\u0103 \u0219i trist\u0103 \u0219i tr\u0103im o via\u021b\u0103 de deziluzii \u0219i dezam\u0103giri?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu \u0219tiu ce ar fi mai r\u0103u: s\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00een lumea noastr\u0103 refuz\u00e2nd acceptarea realit\u0103\u021bii sau s\u0103 tr\u0103im o via\u021b\u0103 trist\u0103 \u0219i amar\u0103 pentru c\u0103 \u0219tim c\u0103 nu putem schimba lucrurile rele din existen\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar, dincolo de modul nostru de a privi lucrurile \u0219i de cum alegem s\u0103 privim realitatea, \u0219tim s\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00een lumea real\u0103? Adic\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 vdeme ce este bun \u0219i ce este mai pu\u021bin bun \u0219i s\u0103 accept\u0103m c\u0103 a\u0219a este via\u021ba? Sau \u0219tim s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 nu putem face doar bine \u0219i c\u0103 este normal s\u0103 mai \u0219i gre\u0219im? Sau c\u0103 via\u021ba nu poate fi doar a\u0219a cum ne a\u0219tept\u0103m noi s\u0103 fie, ci c\u0103 are \u0219i lucruri e care nu le putem controla care ne pot dirija cursul existen\u021bei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am \u00eent\u00e2lnit oameni care fac o dram\u0103 din orice, apoi am avut de-a face cu oameni pragmatici care sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 obiectiv tot felul de situa\u021bii subiective. Am stat al\u0103turi de oameni care nu erau \u00een stare s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u0103 au o problem\u0103 (nu mai zic de a c\u0103uta solu\u021bii pentru problema respectiv\u0103), de\u0219i pentru ceilal\u021bi situa\u021bia era foarte clar\u0103. Am \u00eent\u00e2lnit oameni care se enervau din orice (erau irita\u021bi de absolute de tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpla \u00een via\u021ba lor) \u0219i oameni care se bucurau de orice (care \u00eenv\u0103\u021baser\u0103 c\u0103 via\u021ba este prea scurt\u0103).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a c\u0103 depinde de fiecare dintre noi cum prive\u0219te via\u021ba. Doar c\u0103 o abordare gre\u0219it\u0103 ne va ajuta s\u0103 construim ceva gre\u0219it care se va pr\u0103bu\u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd ne va fi lumea mai drag\u0103. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
De-a lungul vie\u021bii, ne construim o lume ideal\u0103 sau o lume \u00een care ne-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 tr\u0103im \u0219i ne dorim s\u0103 ajungem s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de aceste universuri. Doar c\u0103, …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2709"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2709"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2709\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2710,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2709\/revisions\/2710"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2709"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2709"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2709"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}