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Pe oricine ai \u00eentreba, \u00ee\u021bi va spune c\u0103 o duce r\u0103u \u00een timp ce al\u021bii o duc bine, de\u0219i, \u00een realitate, marea majoritate a popula\u021biei tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00een condi\u021bii bune (\u00een confort). Oamenii nu vor s\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 faptul c\u0103 le este bine \u0219i r\u00e2vnesc la ce v\u0103d c\u0103 au al\u021bii, ar\u0103t\u00e2ndu-se nemul\u021bumi\u021bi de ceea ce au ei, de parc\u0103 tot timpul ar fi mai important ce au ceilal\u021bi (dar referindu-se doar la cei care au mai mult dec\u00e2t ei, niciodat\u0103 nu vor s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 \u0219i spre cei care au mai pu\u021bin).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd se \u00eent\u00e2lnesc doi cunoscu\u021bi (mai ales dac\u0103 nu s-au mai v\u0103zut de ceva timp), \u00eencep s\u0103 se pl\u00e2ng\u0103 de c\u00eet de grea este via\u021ba \u0219i de c\u00e2t de greu o duc, de\u0219i, \u00een realitate, ei o duc bine (uneori foarte bine). Ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 ne pl\u00eengem de orice, de oricine \u0219i, uneori, s\u0103 ne pl\u00e2ngem chiar de mil\u0103. A ne pl\u00eenge \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu modul de trai a devenit o stare normal\u0103. Este anormal c\u00e2nd cineva nu se pl\u00e2nge de problemele \u0219i grijile pecare le are. Respectiva persoan\u0103 este privit\u0103 cu ne\u00eencredere \u0219i restul oamenilor au senza\u021bia c\u0103 nu se pl\u00e2nge pentru c\u0103 nu are probleme, Oamenii nu \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 se poate tr\u0103i \u0219i altfel. Adic\u0103 nu este nevoie s\u0103 ne sp\u0103l\u0103m rufele \u00een public.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Chiar nu este necesar s\u0103 \u0219tie toat\u0103 lumea cu ce probleme ne confrunt\u0103m \u0219i c\u00e2t de greu ne este. Sau ce griji avem \u0219i c\u00e2t de greu ne este. Unii dintre noi chiar au nevoie de intimidate, adic\u0103 nu vor s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i expun\u0103 via\u021ba \u00een public. Nu v\u0103d (nu \u00een\u021beleg) necesitatea cunoa\u0219terii problemelor lor de c\u0103tre al\u021bii, care, de cele mai multe ori, nu pot nici m\u0103car s\u0103 \u00eei ajute. Pot, cel mult, s\u0103 \u00eei comp\u0103timeasc\u0103 sau s\u0103 le povesteasc\u0103 propriile lor griji \u0219i probleme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oare ne place s\u0103 facem pe victimele? Sau ne place c\u00e2nd noi \u0219i problemele noastre suntem \u00een centrul aten\u021biei celorlal\u021bi? Faptul c\u0103 ne pl\u00e2ngem, oare ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 g\u0103sim solu\u021bii \u00een rezolvarea problemelor? Sau ne ajut\u0103 doar s\u0103 ap\u0103rem ca ni\u0219te pl\u00e2ng\u0103cio\u0219i \u0219i neputincio\u0219i \u00een ochii celorlal\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u0103ut\u0103m consolare sau solu\u021bii la oamenii care au trecut prin probleme similare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uneori am senza\u021bia c\u0103 oamenii nu mai sunt at\u00e2t de puternici cum erau \u00een timpurile de demult. Par fragili, delica\u021bi, u\u0219or de r\u0103nit sau de jignit. Da, este adev\u0103rat to\u021bi avem vulnerabilit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i sensibilit\u0103\u021bile noastre. Dar parc\u0103 tr\u0103im o epoc\u0103 \u00een care nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim puternici. Sau nu mai suntem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 fim puternici. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai lupt\u0103m pentru ce vrem \u0219i ce ne place \u0219i ne complacem \u00een realitatea cotidian\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 a \u00eencerca s\u0103 schimb\u0103m ceva. Daor ne pl\u00e2ngem c\u00e2t de r\u0103u o ducem \u0219i c\u00e2t de grea este via\u021ba.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Pe oricine ai \u00eentreba, \u00ee\u021bi va spune c\u0103 o duce r\u0103u \u00een timp ce al\u021bii o duc bine, de\u0219i, \u00een realitate, marea majoritate a popula\u021biei tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00een condi\u021bii bune (\u00een …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2698"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2698"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2698\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2699,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2698\/revisions\/2699"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}