{"id":2683,"date":"2024-11-10T15:52:19","date_gmt":"2024-11-10T13:52:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2683"},"modified":"2024-11-10T15:52:21","modified_gmt":"2024-11-10T13:52:21","slug":"de-ce-ne-atasam-atat-de-mult-de-lucruri-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2683","title":{"rendered":"De ce ne ata\u0219\u0103m at\u00e2t de mult de lucruri?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen lumea de azi, to\u021bi ne acuz\u0103m unii pe al\u021bii c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim empatici, c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne apropiem unii de al\u021bii, c\u0103 prefer\u0103m s\u0103 ne izol\u0103m de ceilal\u021bi \u0219i c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim \u00eempreun\u0103 cu ceilali (dec\u00e2t \u00een mediul online \u00een care oricine poate s\u0103 fie oricine \u0219i oricine poate s\u0103 sus\u021bin\u0103 c\u0103 este oricine\u2026).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen lumea de azi, \u00een loc s\u0103 ne ata\u0219\u0103m d eoameni, \u00een loc s\u0103 avem rela\u021bii cu oamenii din jur, prefer\u0103m s\u0103 avem lucruri. Da, este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 lucrurile le putem \u021bine sub control, le putem arunca oric\u00e2nd nu ne mai plac sau nu le mai g\u0103sim folositoare sau putem cump\u0103ra oric\u00e2nd altele noi (\u0219i mai bune) pentru a le \u00eenlocui pe cele vechi. Mai este o discu\u021bie despre faptul c\u0103 odat\u0103 cu avansarea \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 ne este din ce \u00een ce mai greu s\u0103 ne desp\u0103r\u021bim de anumite lucruri, pentru c\u0103 ele reprezint\u0103, probabil, amintiri la care nu vrem s\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103m, dar acesta ar putea fi subiectul unui alt articol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ast\u0103zi, \u00eens\u0103, m\u0103 \u00eentrebam de ce oamenii se ata\u0219eaz\u0103 at\u00e2t de mult de lucruri? De ce prefer\u0103 s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 (s\u0103 aib\u0103 sentimente \u2013 nu de pu\u021bine ori aud \u00een reclame expresia te iubesc referitor la tot felul de lucruri) la ni\u0219te bunuri, \u00een loc s\u0103 construiasc\u0103 leg\u0103turi cu al\u021bi oameni? Da, lucrurile nu ne pot afce s\u0103 suferim, nu ne pot r\u0103ni (dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 le folosim \u00een mod necorespunz\u0103tor \u0219i doar fizic), \u00een timp ce oamenii ne pot r\u0103ni sufletele. Dar, pe de alt\u0103 parte, sunt \u0219i oameni care ne pot umple sufletele. Care ne pot ajuta s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 via\u021ba este frumoas\u0103 \u0219i merit\u0103 tr\u0103it\u0103 din plin. \u0218i, \u00een loc s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim astfel \u0219i avem \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 astfel de oameni, prefer\u0103m s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim negativ despre to\u021bi \u0219i despre toate, prefer\u0103m s\u0103 vedem doar partea nepl\u0103cut\u0103 a situa\u021biilor \u0219i s\u0103 ne refugiem \u00een spatele unor ziduri pe care le-am construit singuri, pentru a ne proteja de ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 mul\u021bi dintre noi nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i gestioneze sentimentele \u0219i reac\u021biile \u0219i sut uimit\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103d oameni maturi care prefer s\u0103 de descarce de o energie negativ\u0103 \u00een tot felul de moduri, \u00een loc s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la cauze \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 rezolve problema.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar chiar \u0219i a\u0219a. De ce s\u0103 ne \u00eenconjur\u0103m d elucruri \u0219i s\u0103 ne \u00eendep\u0103rt\u0103m de oameni? Lucrurile ne pot face s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim bine pe moment sau pentru o perioad\u0103 scurt\u0103, \u00een timp ce rela\u021biile cu oamenii pot dura o via\u021b\u0103. Oare ne atas\u0103m d elucruri pentru c\u0103 ele &nbsp;nu ne vor spune (nu ne pot spune) adev\u0103ruri care dor sau lucruri pe care nu vrem s\u0103 le \u0219tim sau pe care nu vrem s\u0103 le auzim.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen lumea de azi, to\u021bi ne acuz\u0103m unii pe al\u021bii c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim empatici, c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne apropiem unii de al\u021bii, c\u0103 prefer\u0103m s\u0103 &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2683"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2683"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2683\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2684,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2683\/revisions\/2684"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2683"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2683"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2683"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}