{"id":2618,"date":"2024-10-20T19:46:03","date_gmt":"2024-10-20T16:46:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2618"},"modified":"2024-10-20T19:46:03","modified_gmt":"2024-10-20T16:46:03","slug":"am-invatat-sa-ne-plangem-dar-oare-stim-sa-vedem-ce-avem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2618","title":{"rendered":"Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 ne pl\u00e2ngem, dar oare \u0219tim s\u0103 vedem ce avem?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tot v\u0103d \u00een jurul meu oameni care se pl\u00e2ng permanent de c\u00e2te ceva \u0219i nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u00e2t lucruri bune \u0219i frumoase au \u00een via\u021ba lor. Se aga\u021b\u0103 de ceea ce nu au, ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd ar fi foarte important \u0219i nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u00e2\u021bi oameni buni \u0219i c\u00e2te lucruri frumoase exist\u0103 deja \u00een vie\u021bile lor. \u00cencep s\u0103 cred c\u0103 faza cu a ne pl\u00e2nge de c\u00e2t de greu este a devenit o mod\u0103. Uneori, am senza\u021bia c\u0103 noi, rom\u00e2nii, ne-am transformat \u00een ni\u0219te pl\u00e2ng\u0103cio\u0219i care nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 fac\u0103 nimic \u0219i a\u0219tept s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple ceva care s\u0103 \u00eemi demonstreze c\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u0219el. \u0218i tot a\u0219tept\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uneori, am impresia c\u0103 oamenii nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 \u00eenfrunte provoc\u0103rile \u0219i nout\u0103\u021bile din vie\u021bile lor, nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 treac\u0103 de obstacolele \u0219i barierele pe care via\u021ba le ridic\u0103 \u00een calea lor, nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u0103 dincolo de piedicile pe care le sim\u021bim, se afl\u0103 lucruri noi pe care este necesar s\u0103 le afl\u0103m despre propriile persoane, despre lume, despre via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 oamenii au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 este mai u\u0219or (mai confortabil?) s\u0103 se pl\u00e2ng\u0103 de c\u00e2t de grea le este via\u021ba sau de c\u00e2t de greu este un lucru pe care \u00eel au de f\u0103cut, \u00een loc s\u0103 se confrunte cu ceea ce nu le convine \u0219i s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste toate situa\u021biile mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute din via\u021ba lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru omul de azi, confortul este cel mai important lucru. Pentru a nu fi deranjat, omul accept\u0103 o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de lucruri: s\u0103 predea controlul asupra propriei vie\u021bi, s\u0103 \u00eei lase pe al\u021bii s\u0103 ia deciziile \u00een locul lor, s\u0103 nu \u0103\u0219i assume nicio responsabilitate (sau foarte pu\u021bine responsabilit\u0103\u021bi).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate c\u0103 omul de azi are prea mult timp liber \u0219i astfel g\u0103se\u0219te timp s\u0103 se pl\u00e2ng\u0103 de ceea ce nu are sau de ceea ce ar trebui s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u0219i nu vrea (sau nu \u00eei convine) s\u0103 fac\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Au \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 oboseasc\u0103 oamenii care, \u00eenainte s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 fac\u0103 un lucru, \u00eenainte s\u0103 fac\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 unei situa\u021bii se pl\u00e2ng despre aceste lucruri. Poate c\u0103 am c\u00e2\u0219tiga timp, energie \u0219i tot felul de resurse dac\u0103 am \u00eencerca (\u0219i am reu\u0219i!) s\u0103 facem ceva, \u00eenainte de a ne pl\u00e2nge \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu acel lucru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lamentarea aceasta permanent\u0103 a oamenilor nu face bine nim\u0103nui. Dac\u0103 vrem s\u0103 fim oameni puternici, dac\u0103 vrem s\u0103 reu\u0219im \u00een proiectele pe care le derul\u0103m, ar trebui s\u0103 nu ne mai t\u00e2nguim la fiecare pas \u0219i s\u0103 nu ne mai v\u0103ic\u0103rim la fiecare obstacol ce ne apare \u00een cale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tot v\u0103d \u00een jurul meu oameni care se pl\u00e2ng permanent de c\u00e2te ceva \u0219i nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u00e2t lucruri bune \u0219i frumoase au \u00een via\u021ba lor. Se &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2618"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2618"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2618\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2619,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2618\/revisions\/2619"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2618"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2618"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2618"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}