{"id":2616,"date":"2024-10-18T18:44:08","date_gmt":"2024-10-18T15:44:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2616"},"modified":"2024-10-18T18:44:09","modified_gmt":"2024-10-18T15:44:09","slug":"de-ce-avem-tendinta-sa-ii-copiem-pe-ceilalti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2616","title":{"rendered":"De ce avem tendin\u021ba s\u0103 \u00eei copiem pe ceilal\u021bi?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ce vrem s\u0103 tr\u0103im vie\u021bile altora? De ce nu vrem s\u0103 ne croim \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103im porpria noastr\u0103 via\u021b\u0103, propriile experien\u021be? De ce ne \u00eenc\u00e2nt\u0103 ce au al\u021bii sau ce tr\u0103iesc al\u021bii? De ce nu putem fi diferi\u021bi? De ce nu vrem s\u0103 fim noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103im a\u0219a cum vrem noi, nu a\u0219a cum vedem c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc al\u021bii? \u0218i a\u0219 putea continua cu \u00eentreb\u0103rile \u00een acest sens o pagin\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 (cred). Doar c\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103rile duc la alte \u00eentreb\u0103ri, nu rezolv\u0103 situa\u021bii, probleme sau neclarit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna a existat dorin\u021ba de a avea ce au al\u021bii \u0219i de a tr\u0103i a\u0219a cum tr\u0103iesc al\u021bii. Daor c\u0103, \u00een era internetului, c\u00e2nd informa\u021biile sunt mai accesibile dec\u00e2t oric\u00e2nd, c\u00e2nd oricine poate s\u0103 vad\u0103 cum tr\u0103ie\u0219te oricine, parc\u0103 s-a acutizat dorin\u021ba oamenilor de a copia. Sau doar s-a propagat mai mult dec\u00e2t p\u00e2n\u0103 acum?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Faptul c\u0103 au acces la orice, c\u0103 pot vizualiza (vedea) at\u00e2t de multe lucruri le-a furat oamenilor imagina\u021bia. Adic\u0103 oamenii nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 mai viseze, Este de ajuns s\u0103 vad\u0103 ceva ce le place \u0219i s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 vor \u0219i ei a\u0219a ceva. \u0218i s\u0103 lupte sau s\u0103 fac\u0103 tot ce pot (tot ce \u0219tiu?) pentru a avea ceea ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar, poate c\u0103 era mai frumos, mai pl\u0103cut, mai interesant, mai incitant c\u00e2nd visau la lucruri pe care s\u0103 le aib\u0103 (s\u0103 le ob\u021bin\u0103) \u0219i la cum se vor sim\u021bi ei c\u00e2nd vor avea acele lucruri. Parc\u0103 vremurile \u00een acre tr\u0103im \u0219i evolu\u021bia at\u00e2t de vertiginoas\u0103 a tehnologiei ne-a luat o parte frumoas\u0103 a vie\u021bii: imagina\u021bia. Este complicat pentru copiii \u0219i tinerii de azi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i imagineze ceva c\u00e2nd au at\u00eet de multe lucruri \u0219i posibilit\u0103\u021bi l\u00e2ng\u0103 ei sau cu ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 ne imagin\u0103m cum va fi via\u021ba noastr\u0103 sau cum am vrea s\u0103 o construim, mai bine lu\u0103m exemplele din societate care se doresc pozitive sau de urmat \u0219i ne dorim s\u0103 ajungem ca acei oameni, s\u0103 tr\u0103im ca ei sau s\u0103 avem ce au ei. Este mai u\u0219or a\u0219a, nu mai trebuie s\u0103 mai depunem noi vreun efort de vreun fel. Este mai confortabil a\u0219a. Este mai simplu, dac\u0103 vre\u021bi. Cred c\u0103 societatea de azi ne d\u0103 (ofer\u0103?) totul pe tav\u0103 \u0219i ne \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 fim lene\u0219i, s\u0103 fim pasivi, s\u0103 nu lupt\u0103m pentru prea multe, s\u0103 nu facem ceva, ci doar s\u0103 urm\u0103m a\u0219a-zise re\u021bete de succes. \u0218i, probabil, din acest motiv, ne ofer\u0103 aceste modele de urmat. De\u0219i, poate c\u0103 dorindu-ne \u0219i construind propriul model am fi mai buni, mai bucuro\u0219i, mai ferici\u021bi sau mai \u00eemplini\u021bi. Dar ce nevoie avem de toate acestea, c\u00e2nd putem avea ce ne dorim (sau ce ni se impune s\u0103 ne dorim) f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 depunem vreun efort?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De ce vrem s\u0103 tr\u0103im vie\u021bile altora? De ce nu vrem s\u0103 ne croim \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103im porpria noastr\u0103 via\u021b\u0103, propriile experien\u021be? De ce ne \u00eenc\u00e2nt\u0103 ce au al\u021bii sau &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2616"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2616"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2616\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2617,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2616\/revisions\/2617"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2616"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2616"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2616"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}