{"id":2606,"date":"2024-10-09T17:38:22","date_gmt":"2024-10-09T14:38:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2606"},"modified":"2024-10-09T17:38:22","modified_gmt":"2024-10-09T14:38:22","slug":"despre-cat-de-influentati-suntem-de-dezamagiri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2606","title":{"rendered":"Despre c\u00e2t de influen\u021ba\u021bi suntem de dezam\u0103giri"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am observat c\u0103 oamenii se las\u0103 influen\u021ba\u021bi de experien\u021bele negative sau nepl\u0103cute \u0219i devin blaza\u021bi, frustra\u021bi, negativi\u0219ti \u0219i tri\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd avem deja o v\u00e2rst\u0103 (sau, mai bine zis, c\u00e2nd ajungem la v\u00e2rsta maturit\u0103\u021bii) am trecut deja prin tot felul de momente \u0219i experien\u021be care \u0219i-au l\u0103sat amprenta asupra noastr\u0103. Din ce am v\u0103zut eu, dezam\u0103girea \u0219i oftatul sunt cele mai frecvente la cei maturi. Despre oftat voi scrie alt\u0103 dat\u0103. Azi, \u00eens\u0103 vreau s\u0103 scriu despre dezam\u0103gire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, dezam\u0103girea are leg\u0103tur\u0103 \u0219i cu a\u0219tept\u0103rile pe care le avem de la al\u021bii, de la diverse situa\u021bii (\u0219i am scris de cur\u00e2nd despre a\u0219tept\u0103ri, pe 3 octombrie &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2594\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2594<\/a>), dar are leg\u0103tur\u0103 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd cu noi \u0219i cu modul \u00een care ne raport\u0103m la ceilal\u021bi \u0219i la lucrurile din jurul nostru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avem tendin\u021ba s\u0103 vedem via\u021ba \u00een negru c\u00e2nd suntem dezam\u0103gi\u021bi de ceva sau de cineva (\u0219i vorbesc aizi din proprie experien\u021b\u0103) \u0219i s\u0103 prelungim experien\u021ba negativ\u0103 c\u00e2t de mult putem. O astfel de atitudine este de \u00een\u021beles la cineva t\u00e2n\u0103r, care nu are prea mult\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i care crede c\u0103 lumea se \u00eenv\u00e2rte \u00een jurul lui. La persoanele mature, \u00eens\u0103, nu este de \u00een\u021beles o astfel de atitudine. \u0218i totu\u0219i, sunt uimit\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103d oameni maturi care devin blaza\u021bi pentru c\u0103 o situa\u021bie nu a ie\u0219it a\u0219a cum voiau ei sau se sup\u0103r\u0103 pentru c\u0103 cineva a reac\u021bionat altfel dec\u00e2t se a\u0219teptau (sau credeau) ei. Credeau c\u0103, odat\u0103 cu \u00eenaintarea \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 oamenii au \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 toate lucrurile sunt trec\u0103toare \u0219i c\u0103 rana cauzat\u0103 de cineva care nu s-a ridicat la standardele la care ne a\u0219teptam noi nu este chiar at\u00e2t de important\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este u\u0219or s\u0103 ne am\u0103r\u00e2m (de la gustul amar) via\u021ba. \u00cen lumea de azi, plin\u0103 de informa\u021bii \u0219ocante, triste, nepl\u0103cute, este u\u0219or s\u0103 pierdem din vedere esen\u021ba vie\u021bii: bucuria de a tr\u0103i. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai vedem \u0219i partea frumoas\u0103, pl\u0103cut\u0103 a vie\u021bii sau nu mai suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 vedem \u0219i aceast\u0103 latur\u0103. \u0218i din cauza experien\u021belor nepl\u0103cute pe care le-am tr\u0103it, dar \u0219i din cauza oboselii \u0219i epuiz\u0103rii resim\u021bite din cauza ritmului vie\u021bii cotidiene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 dezam\u0103girea nu ar trebui s\u0103 ocupe un loc important \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103. Doar c\u0103, privind \u00een jur, nu este deloc a\u0219a. Oamenii se las\u0103 \u00eenfr\u00e2n\u021bi de experien\u021bele negative \u0219i sunt tot timpul tris\u0219ti, irascibili, sup\u0103ra\u021bi, nervos\u0219i, neferici\u021bi. Nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103, ci se t\u00e2r\u0103sc de pe o zip e alta, a\u0219tept\u00e2nd inevitabilul sf\u00e2r\u0219it. \u0218i \u00eemi pare r\u0103u c\u00e2nd v\u0103d oameni frumo\u0219i, buni, deosebi\u021bi prin\u0219i \u00een plasa dezam\u0103girilor \u0219i nereu\u0219ind s\u0103 mai ias\u0103 de acolo. Astfel de oameni nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 mai z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103, s\u0103 mai r\u00e2d\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 se bucure de orice lucru frumos care le apare \u00een via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am observat c\u0103 oamenii se las\u0103 influen\u021ba\u021bi de experien\u021bele negative sau nepl\u0103cute \u0219i devin blaza\u021bi, frustra\u021bi, negativi\u0219ti \u0219i tri\u0219ti. C\u00e2nd avem deja o v\u00e2rst\u0103 (sau, mai bine zis, c\u00e2nd ajungem &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2606"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2606"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2606\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2607,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2606\/revisions\/2607"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2606"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2606"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2606"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}