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To\u021bi gre\u0219im, la un moment dat \u00een via\u021b\u0103. Unii mai mult, al\u021bii mai pu\u021bin, dar oamenii gre\u0219esc din diferite cauze. Azi \u00eens\u0103 nu vom votbi despre cauzele \u0219i motivele gre\u0219elilor noastre. \u0218i nici despre consecin\u021bele acestora. Azi vreau s\u0103 vorbesc despre oamenii care st\u0103ruie \u00een a face aceea\u0219i gre\u0219eal\u0103, nefiind \u00een stare (neput\u00e2nd?) s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be din prima gre\u0219eal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu cred c\u0103 exist\u0103 cineva care s\u0103 nu fi gre\u0219it \u00een via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i care s\u0103 nu fi fost sup\u0103rat pe el \u00eensu\u0219i (care s\u0103 nu se simt\u0103 vinovat) pentru c\u0103 a f\u0103cut s\u0103 sufere oameni dragi. Iertarea putem s\u0103 o ob\u021binem atunci c\u00e2nd gre\u0219im prima dat\u0103, c\u00e2nd poate nu am realizat consecin\u021bele gre\u0219elii noastre sau nu am v\u0103zut c\u0103 putem r\u0103ni oameni dragi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar ce facem c\u00e2nd oamenii persist\u0103 \u00een aceea\u0219i gre\u0219eal\u0103? \u00cen\u021belegem c\u0103 este posibil s\u0103 fi gre\u0219it din nou sau accept\u0103m c\u0103 cineva vrea s\u0103 ne r\u0103neasc\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a cum scriam \u0219i \u00een titlu, repetarea gre\u0219elii este periculoas\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 s-ar putea ca persoana care a gre\u0219it s\u0103 aib\u0103 senza\u021bia c\u0103 i se poate ierta orice, oric\u00e2nd, c\u0103 poate face orice, oric\u00e2nd \u0219i s\u0103 nu r\u0103spund\u0103 pentru faptele ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Persisten\u021ba \u00een aceea\u0219i gre\u0219eal\u0103 poate \u00eensemna multe lucruri. Poate \u00eensemna c\u0103 nu a \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 gre\u0219eala a produs efecte negative asupra anumitor persoane, c\u0103 le-a r\u0103nit sau c\u0103 le-a prejudiciat \u00een vreun fel. Poate \u00eensemna c\u0103 nu \u00eei pas\u0103 c\u0103 a r\u0103nit (sau c\u0103 poate r\u0103ni), c\u0103 a prejudiciat pe cineva (pentru c\u0103 doar el este important \u0219i to\u021bi ceilal\u021bi nu conteaz\u0103). Poate \u00eensemna c\u0103 nu a \u00een\u021beles \u00een ce a constat gre\u0219eala lui. Sau pate \u00eensemna c\u0103 totul i s-a p\u0103rut un joc \u0219i nu a dat importan\u021b\u0103 consecin\u021belor faptelor sale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar, pentru a nu repeta gre\u021beala, cred c\u0103 cel mai important lucru este ca cel care a gre\u0219it s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 unde a gre\u0219it, s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 consecin\u021bele gre\u0219elii sale, s\u0103 accepte c\u0103 a gre\u0219it \u0219i s\u0103 vrea s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva pentru a ajuta persoanele pe care le-a r\u0103nit sau le-a prejudiciat prin ceea ce a f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dac\u0103 o persoan\u0103 a \u00een\u021beles \u0219i a acceptat toate aceste lucruri, dar a f\u0103cut aceea\u0219i gre\u0219eal\u0103 a doua oar\u0103, sper\u00e2nd la un final similar, cred c\u0103 omul este r\u0103u inten\u021bionat. Adic\u0103 el chiar \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 r\u0103neasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 prejudicieze persoanele din jurul lui, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fie tras la r\u0103spundere pentru faptele sale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i nu cred c\u0103 mai conteaz\u0103 dac\u0103 este vorba de gre\u0219eli mici sau de gre\u0219eli mari, de consecin\u021be minore sau de consecin\u021be majore, cred c\u0103 este vorba despre faptul c\u0103 to\u021bi putem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba din propriile gre\u0219eli (chiar mai repede dec\u00e2t din gre\u0219elile altora). Dar doar dac\u0103 vrem acest lucru.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
To\u021bi gre\u0219im, la un moment dat \u00een via\u021b\u0103. Unii mai mult, al\u021bii mai pu\u021bin, dar oamenii gre\u0219esc din diferite cauze. Azi \u00eens\u0103 nu vom votbi despre cauzele \u0219i motivele gre\u0219elilor …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2601"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2601"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2601\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2691,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2601\/revisions\/2691"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2601"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2601"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2601"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}