{"id":2535,"date":"2024-08-28T17:29:33","date_gmt":"2024-08-28T14:29:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2535"},"modified":"2024-08-28T17:29:33","modified_gmt":"2024-08-28T14:29:33","slug":"de-frica-sa-nu-gresim-nu-incercam-lucruri-noi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2535","title":{"rendered":"De fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu gre\u0219im, nu \u00eencerc\u0103m lucruri noi?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103 oamenii de azi nu prea \u00eencearc\u0103 lucruri noi (\u00een afara celor ultrapromovate prin toate mijloacele de comunicare \u00een mas\u0103). \u0218i m\u0103 \u00eentrebam de ce oare se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acest lucru? De ce ne este team\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m lucruri noi? De ce refuz\u0103m s\u0103 facem ceva nou? \u0218i am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu cumva teama de gre\u0219eal\u0103 este de vin\u0103 pentru reticen\u021ba cu care trat\u0103m lucrurile noi, pe care nu le \u00een\u021belegem, pe care nu suntem \u00eencuraja\u021bi s\u0103 le \u00eencerc\u0103m (a\u0219a cum este cu toate produsele care au invadat pia\u021ba).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd spun lucruri noi, nu m\u0103 refer la produse noi, nu m\u0103 refer la nebunia care exist\u0103, \u00een present, privind testarea produselor de pe o pia\u021b\u0103 \u00een permanent\u0103 cre\u0219tere, ci m\u0103 refer la situa\u021bii noi, la senza\u021bii noi, la moduri inedite (diferite?) de a privi lumea \u0219i via\u021ba, la a \u00eencerca ceva nou care s\u0103 ne ajute s\u0103 redescoperim pl\u0103cerea de a tr\u0103i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2teodat\u0103, avem nevoie \u00een via\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 redescoperim pasiunea. Atunci c\u00e2n intr\u0103m \u00een rutin\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd sim\u021bim c\u0103 plictiseala ne conduce via\u021ba, atunci c\u00e2nd ni se pare c\u0103 tr\u0103im degeaba sau c\u0103 nu mai sunt lucruri, situa\u021bii sau persoane care s\u0103 ne surprind\u0103 (\u00een mod pl\u0103cut, bine\u00een\u021beles) ceva nou ne poate aduce \u00eenapoi cheful de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ca, la maturitate, s\u0103 spunem c\u0103 unele lucruri nu mai sunt pentru noi (ne credem prea b\u0103tr\u00e2ni (?!)pentru astfel de lucruri) \u0219i credem c\u0103 este cumva ru\u0219inos (poate nu este cel mai potrivit termen, dar cred c\u0103 define\u0219te cel mai bine sentimentul din acel moment) s\u0103 facem a\u0219a ceva. Poate pentru c\u0103 ne lu\u0103m prea \u00een serios. Poate pentru c\u0103 uit\u0103m s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim bine \u00een propria noastr\u0103 piele. Poate pentru c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne relax\u0103m, nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 r\u00e2dem din ad\u00e2ncul inimii \u0219i nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 sim\u021bim momentul, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la ce vor spune ceilal\u021bi, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m ceva, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne facem griji. Pur \u0219i simplu s\u0103 tr\u0103im momentul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A \u00eencerca lucruri noi nu este ceva r\u0103u. Putem constata dac\u0103 nise potrive\u0219te sau nu \u0219i putem trece la a \u00eencerca altceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar nimeni nu se a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 ne ias\u0103 ceva din prima \u00eencercare. Adic\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd facem ceva nou, nu devenim exper\u021bi de la \u00eenceput. Va trece ceva timp p\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 ajungem s\u0103 ne pricepem la lucrul respective, oric\u00e2t de talenta\u021bi am fi. &nbsp;Trebuie s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim bine f\u0103c\u00e2ndu-l \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de respectiva experien\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103 oamenii de azi nu prea \u00eencearc\u0103 lucruri noi (\u00een afara celor ultrapromovate prin toate mijloacele de comunicare \u00een mas\u0103). \u0218i m\u0103 \u00eentrebam de ce oare se &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2535"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2535"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2535\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2536,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2535\/revisions\/2536"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2535"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2535"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2535"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}