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Pentru c\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnesc din ce \u00een ce mai mult\u0103 r\u0103utate \u00een jurul meu, am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb ce o genereaz\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 efectele r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bii umane sunt v\u0103zute, recep\u021bionate \u0219i sim\u021bite de o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de persoane care tr\u0103iesc \u00een jurul celor ce au acceptat r\u0103utatea ca stil de via\u021b\u0103, eu, \u00een astfel de cazuri, sunt mai interesat\u0103 de cauze, nu de efecte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Adic\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb ce poate transforma un om dintr-o fiin\u021b\u0103 normal\u0103, \u00een una care se bucur\u0103 de suferin\u021ba altuia, care g\u0103se\u0219te pl\u0103cere \u00een a-i chinui pe ceilal\u021bi (da, \u0219tiu a chinui pare un termen prea dur \u00een acest context, doar c\u0103 uneori r\u0103utatea oamenilor are fix acest efect asupra victimelor sale).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u0103 uime\u0219te r\u0103utatea oamenilor pentru c\u0103 \u00eembrac\u0103 tot felul de forme, la care nu m-am g\u00e2ndit vreodat\u0103. Iar acest lucru \u00eemi demonstreaz\u0103 c\u0103 unii oameni nu sunt doar neferici\u021bi \u0219i nesiguri, ci c\u0103 au adunat \u00een ei at\u00e2ta ne\u00eemplinire \u0219i frustrare \u00eenc\u00e2t g\u0103sesc pl\u0103cere \u00een a-i trata ur\u00e2t pe ceilal\u021bi sau a-i vedea pe al\u021bii trec\u00e2nd prin situa\u021bii umilitoare sau a-i supune unor astfel de lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-am propus s\u0103 nu scriu, pe acest site, despre lucruri ur\u00e2te, rele, nepl\u0103cute, dar cred c\u0103 a \u00eencerca s\u0103 aflu de unde vine r\u0103utatea oamenilor este ceva din care putem cu to\u021bii \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oamenii de azi nu mai dau \u0219anse celorlal\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eei cunoasc\u0103. De team\u0103 s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 de suferit. Sau ca s\u0103 se protejeze de suferin\u021b\u0103. Problema este c\u0103 tr\u0103ind astfel ajung s\u0103 fie singuri. Foarte singuri. Izola\u021bi de tot \u0219i de toate. Duc o via\u021b\u0103 trist\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 tr\u0103iri adev\u0103rate \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 leg\u0103turi reale \u0219i puternice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oamenii de azi sunt foarte pragmatici, foarte buni organizatori, foarte ancora\u021bi \u00een realitate, \u0219tiu ce vor \u0219i \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 ce vor. Doar c\u0103, \u00een drumul c\u0103tre ob\u021binerea lucrului dorit ajung s\u0103 fac\u0103 lucruri care nu le plac, ajung s\u0103 sacrifice oameni dragi\u00a0 \u0219i rela\u021bii apropiate, ajung s\u0103 piard\u0103 din vedere esen\u021ba vie\u021bii, doar pentru c\u0103 se concentreaz\u0103 pe a ob\u021bine ceva ce nici m\u0103car nu le furnizeaz\u0103 prea mult\u0103 satisfac\u021bie atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eel ob\u021bin, \u00een cele din urm\u0103. Uit\u0103 c\u0103, \u00een via\u021b\u0103, \u00een afara de lucruri, avem nevoie de oameni apropia\u021bi cu care s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim momentele pl\u0103cute \u0219i pe cele mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute, avem nevoie de \u00eencuraj\u0103ri \u0219i umeri pe care s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngem, avem nevoie de o vorb\u0103 bun\u0103, de o \u00eencurajare sau de un z\u00e2mbet, de o \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219are sau de o str\u00e2ngere de m\u00e2n\u0103 pe care, dac\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem izola\u021bi \u0219i singuri a\u0219a cum credem c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 tr\u0103im, nu le putem avea.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Pentru c\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnesc din ce \u00een ce mai mult\u0103 r\u0103utate \u00een jurul meu, am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb ce o genereaz\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 efectele r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bii umane sunt v\u0103zute, recep\u021bionate \u0219i …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2531"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2531"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2531\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2534,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2531\/revisions\/2534"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}