{"id":2460,"date":"2024-07-28T15:51:10","date_gmt":"2024-07-28T12:51:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2460"},"modified":"2024-07-28T16:08:12","modified_gmt":"2024-07-28T13:08:12","slug":"de-ce-nu-mai-stim-sa-mai-iubim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2460","title":{"rendered":"De ce nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai iubim?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suntem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 ne protej\u0103m de to\u021bi \u0219i de toate, inclusiv de iubire. Nu care cumva s\u0103 suferim \u0219i s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim r\u0103u atunci c\u00e2nd suntem tr\u0103da\u021bi sau \u00een\u0219ela\u021bi! \u0218i am ajuns s\u0103 evit\u0103m toate peroanele \u0219i toate situa\u021biile care ne pot duce (conduce) c\u0103tre dragoste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ducem o via\u021b\u0103 trist\u0103, searb\u0103d\u0103, nefericit\u0103, plin\u0103 doar de lucruri care ne asigur\u0103 confort, dar nu \u0219i fericire. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai sim\u021bim ceva, nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem sentimentele adev\u0103rate atunci c\u00e2nd le avem \u00een fa\u021ba ochilor sau c\u00e2nd \u00eenmuguresc \u00een inimile noastre. \u0218i ne mai pl\u00e2ngem c\u0103 am tr\u0103it repede sau c\u0103 nu \u0219tim c\u00e2nd trece timpul!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am ajuns s\u0103 ne protej\u0103m de iubire, iar c\u00e2nd aceasta reu\u0219e\u0219te, totu\u0219i, s\u0103 se strecoare \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 ne sim\u021bim bolnavi, ne lupt\u0103m (cu toate for\u021bele) cu ce sim\u021bim, neg\u0103m ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i nu vrem s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103 putem avea sentimente (frumoase) pentru alte persoane. \u0218i apoi ne mir\u0103m c\u0103 sunt at\u00e2t de multe persoane depresive, at\u00e2t de multe persoane care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i gestioneze sentimentele, at\u00e2t de multe persoane care tr\u0103iesc emo\u021biile la maxim (\u00een special pe cele negative) \u0219i ajung s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i fac\u0103 r\u0103u singure, dar s\u0103 fac\u0103 r\u0103u altora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu am un r\u0103spuns pentru \u00eentrebarea din titlul articolului. Sau poate nu este \u00eentrebarea corect\u0103, poate c\u0103 nu este vorba despre a \u0219ti s\u0103 iube\u0219ti, ci de a vrea s\u0103 iube\u0219ti, de a fi dispus s\u0103 ai sentimente pentru altcineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii de azi sunt prea orienta\u021bi spre partea material\u0103 a vie\u021bii, spre a de\u021bine, spre a ob\u021bine, spre a avea ceva \u0219i uit\u0103 c\u0103, \u00eenainte de a fi proprietarii oric\u0103rui lucru de pe lumea aceasta, sunt, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, oameni, au sentimente \u0219i au nevoie, \u00een via\u021ba lor de al\u021bi oameni. Uit\u0103 c\u0103 via\u021ba \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 ne \u00eenconjur\u0103m de oameni frumo\u0219i, de oameni pe care \u00eei iubim \u0219i ne iubesc, uit\u0103 c\u00e2t de mult ne umplu via\u021ba sentimentele frumoase. Mai mult dec\u00e2t lucrurile frumoase\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii de azi se izoleaz\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi, caut\u0103 c\u0103ldura uman\u0103 \u00een r\u0103ceala inteligen\u021bei artificiale \u0219i c\u00e2nd nu o g\u0103sesc acolo, sunt neferici\u021bi, dezam\u0103gi\u021bi, tri\u0219ti, depresivi \u0219i nu \u00een\u021beleg sensul vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este foarte adev\u0103rat c\u0103 oamenii te pot dezam\u0103gi, te pot tr\u0103da, te pot face s\u0103 suferi, dar toate acestea fac parte din via\u021b\u0103. Dac\u0103 nu ai suferit, dac\u0103 nu ai fost tr\u0103dat, dac\u0103 nu ai fost dezam\u0103git \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu ai tr\u0103it. Sentimentele frumoase \u0219i cele mai pu\u021bin frumoase se amestec\u0103 \u0219i, de cele mai multe ori, \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie, avem parte \u0219i de momente bune \u0219i de momente mai pu\u021bin bune, avem momente \u00een care ne \u00een\u021belegem perfect cu partenerul \u0219i momente \u00een care ni se pare c\u0103 nu ne \u00een\u021belege deloc sau ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u00eempotriva noastr\u0103, dar \u021bin\u00e2nd cont de sentimentele care ne leag\u0103 \u0219i comunic\u00e2nd ajungem s\u0103 trecem \u0219i peste clipele nepl\u0103cute ale rela\u021biei (\u0219i chiar \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m din ele).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Suntem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 ne protej\u0103m de to\u021bi \u0219i de toate, inclusiv de iubire. Nu care cumva s\u0103 suferim \u0219i s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim r\u0103u atunci c\u00e2nd suntem tr\u0103da\u021bi sau \u00een\u0219ela\u021bi! \u0218i &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2460"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2460"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2460\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2462,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2460\/revisions\/2462"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2460"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2460"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2460"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}