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Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi am trecut prin situa\u021bii \u00een care am gre\u0219it fa\u021b\u0103 de cineva apropiat cu sau f\u0103r\u0103 inten\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 refer la situa\u021bia \u00een care con\u0219tientiza\u021bi c\u0103 a\u021bi gre\u0219it, con\u0219tientiza\u021bi efectele gre\u0219elii \u0219i vre\u021bi s\u0103 remedia\u021bi situa\u021bia cu persoana fa\u021b\u0103 de care a\u021bi gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am constatat c\u0103 sunt mul\u021bi oameni care nu realizeaz\u0103 c\u0103 gre\u0219esc sau continu\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 aceea\u0219i gre\u0219eal\u0103, de\u0219i li se spune c\u0103 au gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sunt cei care au senza\u021bia c\u0103 le \u0219tiu pe toate, apoi cei care cred c\u0103 pot face orice pentru c\u0103 li se iart\u0103 totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi sunt cei c\u0103rora le este greu s\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 faptul c\u0103 au gre\u0219it. Ori din cauza consecin\u021belor gre\u0219elii ori pentru c\u0103 le e ru\u0219ine de persoana fa\u021b\u0103 de care au gre\u0219it sau le e ru\u0219ine de ceea ce au f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mai sunt cei care sunt obi\u0219nui\u021bi s\u0103 gre\u0219easc\u0103 \u0219i care pot manipula lucrurile astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t vina lor s\u0103 fie minor\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 scape de a recunoa\u0219te c\u0103 au gre\u0219it cu ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Categoric nu e o pl\u0103cere s\u0103 recuno\u0219ti c\u0103 ai gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi trebuie curaj pentru a recunoa\u0219te c\u0103 ai gre\u0219it (cred c\u0103 asta le lipse\u0219te multora din cei care gre\u0219esc).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi asumi ce ai f\u0103cut gre\u0219it \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 remediezi ce ai gre\u0219it sau s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi lec\u021bia \u0219i s\u0103 nu mai faci aceea\u0219i gre\u0219eal\u0103 \u00een situa\u021bii similare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218tiu c\u0103 pare simplu atunci c\u00e2nd o spune cineva, dar v\u0103 spun c\u0103 nu e deloc u\u0219or s\u0103 prive\u0219ti \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 persoana fa\u021b\u0103 de care ai gre\u0219it \u0219i s\u0103 recuno\u0219ti ce ai f\u0103cut. Mai ales c\u0103, de cele mai multe ori, gre\u0219im fa\u021b\u0103 de cei apropia\u021bi. \u0218i ne e greu s\u0103 \u00eei privim \u00een ochi \u0219i s\u0103 le vedem dezam\u0103girea sau lacrimile\/r\u0103nile cauzate de gre\u0219eala noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218tiu c\u0103 e greu, dar dac\u0103 am fi \u00een locul lor \u0219i noi am prefera s\u0103 \u0219tim de la cel care a gre\u0219it c\u0103 a gre\u0219it, de ce a f\u0103cut-o \u0219i cum putem s\u0103 facem s\u0103 nu mai trecem prin situa\u021bii similare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am\u00e2narea recunoa\u0219terii gre\u0219elii nu face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 agraveze lucrurile, pentru c\u0103 ajungem s\u0103 ne min\u021bim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine legat de ceea ce am f\u0103cut \u0219i pe cei din jurul nostru, ca s\u0103 ne ascundem gre\u0219eala. \u0218i lucrurile pot degenera repede…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 e corect s\u0103 ne facem curaj \u0219i s\u0103 le spunem celor din jur c\u00e2nd am gre\u0219it \u0219i de ce am gre\u0219it \u0219i poate, \u00eempreun\u0103, s\u0103 g\u0103sim modalit\u0103\u021bi de a trece peste moment \u0219i peste ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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