{"id":2416,"date":"2024-07-14T20:53:54","date_gmt":"2024-07-14T17:53:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2416"},"modified":"2024-07-14T20:53:54","modified_gmt":"2024-07-14T17:53:54","slug":"cu-ochii-la-altii-uitam-sa-ne-traim-propriile-vieti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2416","title":{"rendered":"Cu ochii la al\u021bii, uit\u0103m s\u0103 ne tr\u0103im propriile vie\u021bi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am tot v\u0103zut, \u00een ultimul timp, oameni neferici\u021bi pentru c\u0103 nu au ce au al\u021bii, oameni care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce au, s\u0103 pre\u021buiasc\u0103 ce au \u0219i s\u0103 se bucure de ceea ce au. Oameni care vor ce au al\u021bii, pentru c\u0103 au senza\u021bia c\u0103 lor li s-ar potrivi mai bine ce au al\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu pot s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg de ce oamenii nu v\u0103d ce se ascunde \u00een spatele aparen\u021belor perfecte ale unora, \u00een spatele lucrurilor pe care le afi\u0219eaz\u0103 unii \u0219i al\u021bii (mai ales pe re\u021belele de socializare). De ce oare oamenii nu \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 \u00een spatele persoanelor perfecte se ascund echipe de speciali\u0219ti care \u00eei ajut\u0103 s\u0103 arate astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eei invidiem sau echipe de speciali\u0219ti care \u00eei consiliaz\u0103 ce s\u0103 spun\u0103 \u0219i cum s\u0103 spun\u0103 pentru a avea impactul dorit? De\u0219i mul\u021bi las\u0103 senza\u021bia c\u0103 totul este u\u0219or \u0219i c\u0103 oricine are acces la orice, \u00een realitate lucrurile stau pu\u021bin diferit. Adic\u0103 tot ce apare \u00een mediul online este cosmetizat, mascat, aranjat astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 aib\u0103 impact maxim \u0219i s\u0103 existe un c\u00e2\u0219tig mare \u0219i imediat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen via\u021ba de zi cu zi nu avem nevoie de at\u00e2ta cosmetizare, minciun\u0103 \u0219i punere \u00een valoare ca \u00een mediul online. \u00cen via\u021ba de zi cu zi putem fi noi \u00een\u0219ine, putem fi cine vrem s\u0103 fim, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pretindem c\u0103 suntem altcineva. Dac\u0103 suntem destul de puternici s\u0103 ne asum\u0103m s\u0103 fim astfel. \u0218i dac\u0103 ne dorim destul de mult s\u0103 fim a\u0219a cum vrem noi, nu a\u0219a cum ni se cere sau a\u0219a cum se a\u0219teapt\u0103 altcineva s\u0103 fim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Problema este c\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o societate care \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 modelele, etaloanele, ca \u0219i cum fiecare dintre noi este un produs (un obiect) care, pus pe un tipar poate fi la fel ca cel dup\u0103 care a fost creat. Problema lumii de ast\u0103zi este c\u0103 nu ne \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 creativitatea \u0219i individualitatea, ci trebuie s\u0103 ne \u00eencadr\u0103m \u00een ni\u0219te standard, iar dac\u0103 nu facem acest lucru suntem exclu\u0219i din comunitate sau izola\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Din acest motiv, suntem \u00eencuraja\u021bi s\u0103 ne lu\u0103m modele, s\u0103 le urm\u0103rim \u0219i s\u0103 facem ca ele. Suntem \u00eencuraja\u021bi s\u0103 sper\u0103m la lucruri pe care le vom avea sau nu le vom avea, dar s\u0103 ne descurc\u0103m cu e\u0219ecurile \u0219i s\u0103 ne promov\u0103m succesele. Problema este c\u0103 nu to\u021bi putem avea rezultate bune, c\u0103 nu to\u021bi putem avea acces la acelea\u0219i servicii \u0219i c\u0103 unii se vor descurca, \u00een anumite situa\u021bii, mai bine ca al\u021bii \u0219i se vor promova ca modele, de\u0219i nu sunt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate c\u0103 nu ar fi r\u0103u ca, \u00eenainte s\u0103 ne dorim ce au al\u021bii, s\u0103 privimcu aten\u021bie &nbsp;\u00een jur, s\u0103 observ\u0103m ce avem deja, s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 pre\u021buim ce avem \u0219i s\u0103 ne dorim s\u0103 p\u0103str\u0103m ce avem. Este mai important s\u0103 ne tr\u0103im propria via\u021ba \u00een condi\u021biile reale \u0219i s\u0103 ne oprim din a distruge ce avem doar pentru c\u0103 vrem altceva ce credem c\u0103 ni s-ar potrivi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am tot v\u0103zut, \u00een ultimul timp, oameni neferici\u021bi pentru c\u0103 nu au ce au al\u021bii, oameni care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce au, s\u0103 pre\u021buiasc\u0103 ce au \u0219i s\u0103 se &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2416"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2416"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2416\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2417,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2416\/revisions\/2417"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2416"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2416"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2416"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}