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\u00centr-o lume \u00een care vrem s\u0103 ar\u0103t\u0103m c\u00e2t de puternici suntem, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care doar \u00eenving\u0103torii au parte de premii, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care nesiguran\u021ba \u0219i lipsa de \u00eencredere (\u00een propriile for\u021be) sunt taxate drept neputin\u021b\u0103, putem s\u0103 vedem c\u00e2t de fragile suntem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centr-o lume \u00een care minoritatea a ajuns s\u0103 se impun\u0103 (din toate punctele de vedere) \u00een fa\u021ba majorit\u0103\u021bii, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care omul are senza\u021bia c\u0103 poate controla tot ce i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 celorlal\u021bi, mai avem putere s\u0103 vedem c\u0103 suntem, totu\u0219i, oameni \u0219i c\u0103 avem puncte vulnerabile?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am observat c\u0103, \u00een lumea de azi, dac\u0103 recuno\u0219ti c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti perfect oamenii te trateaz\u0103 de sus, ca pe cineva inferior. Dac\u0103 recuno\u0219ti c\u0103 nu \u0219tii (nu ai cum s\u0103 \u0219tii) toate nout\u0103\u021bile din societate sau dac\u0103 nu te conformezi standardelor e\u0219ti privit ca un paria \u0219i e\u0219ti privit de sus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume superficial\u0103 (condus\u0103 de superficialitate) ne intereseaz\u0103 doar aparen\u021ba, imaginea, coperta, nu mai suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 privim dincolo de acestea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De multe ori, am v\u0103zut c\u0103 r\u0103utatea unor oameni manifestat\u0103 \u00eempotriva altor oameni vine din frustr\u0103ri, ne\u00eempliniri, dar \u0219i din fragilitate. Am fost surprins\u0103 c\u00e2nd am v\u0103zut oameni care p\u0103reau extreme d eputernici, de neatins, dar care au fost distru\u0219i extreme de repede \u0219i de u\u0219ir de lucruri care p\u0103reau lipsite de importan\u021b\u0103, dar care au dovedit c\u00e2t de frsgili suntem cu to\u021bii, indifferent de imagine ape care o afi\u0219\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd zic fragilitate m\u0103 refer la cea emo\u021bional\u0103 (ceea ce sim\u021bim, cum privim lumea \u0219i cum ne prive\u0219te ea pe noi etc), psihologic\u0103 (rezisten\u021ba la stres \u0219i la ceri\u021bele vie\u021bii moderne) \u0219i abia apoi la cea fizic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru mine a fost un moment important, \u00een urm\u0103 cu pu\u021bini ani, c\u00e2nd, din senin (am crezut eu, dar de fapt era o reac\u021bie la starea de epuizare resim\u021bit\u0103), am avut o criz\u0103 \u0219i am fost indisponibilizat\u0103 la pat. A fost un \u0219oc pentru mine pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 credeam invincibil\u00ee\u0103. Aveam senza\u021bia c\u0103 pot face totul \u0219i c\u0103 am putere, energie, rezisten\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 fac orice vreau. Acel moment mi-a ar\u0103tat c\u00e2t de fragil\u0103 pot fi (de fapt c\u00e2t de fragil\u0103 sunt) \u0219i c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 mai opresc din agita\u021bia cotidian\u0103, m\u0103car din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 \u00eemi refac for\u021bele, pentru c\u0103 am nevoie \u0219i de pauze \u00een via\u021ba mea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 tinere\u021bea ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 credem s\u0103 suntem deasupra lucrurilor, dar, odat\u0103 cu trecerea timpului, c\u00e2nd organismul ne d\u0103 semne c\u0103 exager\u0103m cu unele lucruri (oboseal\u0103, stres, epuizare etc) ajungem s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 suntem fragili \u0219i c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ne mai g\u00e2ndim \u0219i la s\u0103n\u0103tatea noastr\u0103 (emo\u021bional\u0103, psihologic\u0103, fizic\u0103) \u0219i chiar s\u0103 facem lucruri \u00een acest sens (pauze, terapii, vizite la sta\u021biuni balneoclimaterice etc).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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