{"id":2337,"date":"2024-06-09T18:40:49","date_gmt":"2024-06-09T15:40:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2337"},"modified":"2024-06-09T18:40:49","modified_gmt":"2024-06-09T15:40:49","slug":"traim-intr-o-lume-a-extremelor-nu-mai-stim-sa-mai-gasim-calea-de-mijloc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2337","title":{"rendered":"Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume a extremelor. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai g\u0103sim calea de mijloc?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 mul\u021bi dintre noi au senza\u021bia c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc \u00eentr-o lume a extremelor. De parc\u0103 oamenii nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 normal sau echilibrat, ci au nevoie de senza\u021bii tari pe care le g\u0103sesc \u00een lucrurile \u0219i situa\u021biile extreme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd li se prezint\u0103 o situa\u021bie, oamenii de azi nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 o priveasc\u0103 \u00een mpd normal, ca pe ceva ce se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla oric\u0103ruia dintre noi, ci aleg o extrem\u0103 \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i &nbsp;men\u021bin pozi\u021bia c\u00e2t de mult pot, indifferent c\u00e2t de mult deranjeaz\u0103 sau c\u00e2t de multe lucruri au de pierdut . De parc\u0103 nu mai \u0219tiu c\u0103 echilibrul este secretul unei vie\u021bi lini\u0219tite, mul\u021bumite, \u00eemplinite, fericite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am fost uimit\u0103 s\u0103 constat c\u0103 orice afirma\u021bie faci, \u00een ziua de azi, cineva va \u00een\u021belege altceva dec\u00e2t ai vrut s\u0103 spui \u0219i te va plasa \u00eentr-o tab\u0103r\u0103 sau alta (care ap\u0103r\u0103 o pozi\u021bie extrem\u0103), de\u0219i tu nu ai f\u0103cut dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi expui punctul de vedere sau \u021bi-ai f\u0103cut cunoscut\u0103 opinia sincer\u0103 cu privire la ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd oamenii (oare \u0219i societatea?) \u0219i-au pierdut coloana vertebral\u0103, echilibrul, acele lucruri care \u00eei f\u0103ceau s\u0103 fie empatici, aten\u021bi, binevoitori, \u00een\u021beleg\u0103tori cu ceilal\u021bi \u0219i, \u00een locul acestora, au fost dota\u021bi cu rea inten\u021bie, invidie, capacitate de a \u00een\u021belege gre\u0219it afirma\u021biile \u0219i ac\u021biunile celorlal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este clar c\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care toat\u0103 lumea judec\u0103 pe toat\u0103 lumea. \u00cen care to\u021bi se dau mai interesan\u021bi dec\u00e2t ceilal\u021bi, \u00een care de\u0219i este loc pentru toat\u0103 lumea, unii nu sunt l\u0103sa\u021bi s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103, s\u0103 se exprime, s\u0103 fie ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i expun\u0103 punctele de vedere sau opiniile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este ca \u0219i cum oamenii de azi sunt programa\u021bi s\u0103 cread\u0103 anumite lucruri, s\u0103 nu cread\u0103 anumite lucruri, s\u0103 \u00eei \u00eencadreze pe ceilal\u021bi \u00een categorii de persoane \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eei trateze ca atare, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 r\u0103bdarea s\u0103 \u00eei asculye, s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 comunice cu ei \u0219i s\u0103 afle ce au de spus cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a cum am mai scris deja, \u00een societatea de azi se promoveaz\u0103 agresivitatea \u00een comunicare, adic\u0103 sunt promova\u021bi (\u00een mass-media, dar, mai ales \u00een mediul online) cei care sunt agresivi \u00een limbaj cu ceilal\u021bi, cei care judec\u0103 foarte u\u0219or, care pun etichete f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 afle mai mult, care jignesc foarte u\u0219or, care privesc superficial lucrurile, \u00een general.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probabil din acest motiv resim\u021bim, \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi, c\u0103 nu mai putem s\u0103 ne exprim\u0103m \u00een vreun fel s\u0103 cuntem cataloga\u021bi \u00eentr-un fel sau altul, f\u0103r\u0103 ca noi s\u0103 fi avut vreo inten\u021bie de a deranja \u00een vreun fel, ci doar \u00eencercam s\u0103 ne spunem \u0219i noi p\u0103rerea despre ceva (lucru sau situa\u021bie) sau cineva. Pe unii se pare c\u0103 \u00eei deranjeaz\u0103 dac\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 avem un punct de vedere sau s\u0103 \u00eel exprim\u0103m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cred c\u0103 mul\u021bi dintre noi au senza\u021bia c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc \u00eentr-o lume a extremelor. De parc\u0103 oamenii nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 normal sau echilibrat, ci au nevoie de senza\u021bii tari &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2337"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2337"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2337\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2338,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2337\/revisions\/2338"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}