{"id":2320,"date":"2024-05-29T18:41:33","date_gmt":"2024-05-29T15:41:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2320"},"modified":"2024-05-29T18:41:34","modified_gmt":"2024-05-29T15:41:34","slug":"stim-sa-nu-ne-pierdem-pe-noi-insine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2320","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tim s\u0103 nu ne pierdem pe noi \u00een\u0219ine?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care domnesc superficialul \u0219i ipocrizia, o lume \u00een care ne ascundem cu to\u021bii \u00een spatele laptop-urilor \u0219i tabletelor prezent\u00e2nd o imagine a noastr\u0103 a\u0219a cum vrem s\u0103 fie, nu a\u0219a cum este \u00een realitate, \u0219tim s\u0103 nu ne pierdem pe noi \u00een\u0219ine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o lume a conformit\u0103\u021bii \u0219i a standardiz\u0103rii, a procedurilor \u0219i a etapiz\u0103rii, \u0219tim s\u0103 p\u0103str\u0103m ceea ce suntem (cine suntem) \u0219i s\u0103 nu ne transform\u0103m \u00een ceea ce ne cere societatea sau \u00een ceea ce a\u0219teapt\u0103 societatea de la noi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am trecut printr-o etap\u0103 \u00een care devenisem persoana care se a\u0219teptau ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 fiu \u0219i \u0219tiu cum este s\u0103 te pierzi pe tine \u00eensu\u021bi pentru a te ridica la nivelul a\u0219tept\u0103rilor sau pentru a \u00eencerca s\u0103 fi c\u00e2t mai bun \u0219i, astfel, s\u0103 ui\u021bi cine e\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunt oameni care spun ceea ce vor al\u021bii s\u0103 aud\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 nu cred \u00een acele lucruri sau nu simt acele lucruri. \u0218i ajung p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care se transform\u0103 \u00een altcineva. \u00centr-o persoan\u0103 care seam\u0103n\u0103 cu ei, dar care nu mai are principiile, scopurile, priorit\u0103\u021bile pe care le avea \u00eenainte. O persoan\u0103 care se las\u0103 atras\u0103 de lumea \u00een care tr\u0103ie\u0219te, de mirajul lucrurilor frumoase din lumea respectiv\u0103 \u0219i, dorind s\u0103 fac\u0103 parte din acea lume, adopt\u0103 stilul de via\u021b\u0103 al celorlal\u021bi \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i ascunde adev\u0103rata personalitate (identitate?) \u00een str\u0103fundul sufletului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ace\u0219ti oameni, uneori, nici m\u0103car nu realizeaz\u0103 c\u0103 s-au pierdut pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i. Li se pare normal ce li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. Au senza\u021bia c\u0103 astfel se adapteaz\u0103 mediului \u00een care tr\u0103iesc sau \u00een care muncesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Problemele apar \u00een momentul \u00een care constat\u0103 c\u0103, de\u0219i au tot ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc, de\u0219i ajung s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 via\u021ba la care visau, nu sunt \u00eemplini\u021bi, nu sunt ferici\u021bi, nu se pot bucura de ceea ce au.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar deja complic prea mult subiectul \u0219i nu mi-am propus acest lucru. Voiam doar s\u0103 men\u021bionez c\u0103 probabil nu sunt singura care am trecut prin momente \u00een care m-am \u00eentrebat cine sunt \u0219i ce \u00eemi doresc cu adev\u0103rat. \u0218i c\u0103, uneori, mi-a fost greu s\u0103 r\u0103spund la aceste \u00eentreb\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 este normal sau nu s\u0103 avem momente \u00een care sim\u021bim c\u0103 ne pierdem pe noi \u00een\u0219ine, \u0219tiu sigur, \u00eens\u0103, c\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acest lucru \u0219i c\u0103 este important s\u0103 ne d\u0103m timp, s\u0103 ne \u00eenarm\u0103m cu r\u0103bdare, s\u0103 privim dincolo de aparen\u021be \u0219i s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine (indiferent c\u00e2t de dureroas\u0103 este sau poate fi aceast\u0103 introspec\u021bie). Pentru c\u0103 doar astfel ne putem reg\u0103si pe noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i putem tr\u0103i via\u021ba pe care noi o creion\u0103m a\u0219a cum ne dorim \u0219i \u00een ritmul pe care \u00eel vrem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care domnesc superficialul \u0219i ipocrizia, o lume \u00een care ne ascundem cu to\u021bii \u00een spatele laptop-urilor \u0219i tabletelor prezent\u00e2nd o imagine a noastr\u0103 a\u0219a cum vrem s\u0103 &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2320"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2320"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2320\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2321,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2320\/revisions\/2321"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2320"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2320"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2320"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}