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Tot v\u0103d, \u00een jurul meu, oameni care, de\u0219i sunt diferi\u021bi, \u00ee\u0219i doresc acelea\u0219i lucruri, oameni care cred c\u0103 este normal s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i doreasc\u0103 ce vor \u0219i ceilal\u021bi, oameni care au ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc ceilal\u021bi \u0219i nu sunt \u00eemplini\u021bi (m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam s\u0103 folosesc termenul ferici\u021bi, dar parc\u0103 se potrive\u0219te mai bine \u00een acest context termenul \u00eemplini\u021bi).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Suntem influen\u021ba\u021bi (\u0219i educa\u021bi \u00een acest sens) s\u0103 ne dorim cu to\u021bii acelea\u0219i lucruri, indiferent dac\u0103 ni se potrivesc sau nu, indiferent dac\u0103 ni le dorim cu adev\u0103rat sau nu, indiferent de pre\u021bul pe care trebuie s\u0103 \u00eel pl\u0103tim (\u0219i nu m\u0103 refer la bani) \u0219i pe care nu suntem preg\u0103ti\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eel d\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-a\u0219 dori s\u0103 nu mai v\u0103d at\u00e2ta uniformizare \u0219i at\u00e2ta conformare cu aceasta. Dac\u0103 \u0219tim cu to\u021bii c\u0103 suntem unici, c\u0103 nu suntem perfec\u021bi, c\u0103 suntem diferi\u021bi, cum ar fi posibil s\u0103 ne dorim cu to\u021bii acelea\u0219i lucruri? Cum ar fi posibil s\u0103 ni se potriveasc\u0103 tuturor acelea\u0219i lucruri? Cum ar fi posibil s\u0103 fim ferici\u021bi \u0219i \u00eemplini\u021bi av\u00e2nd acelea\u0219i lucruri?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este u\u0219or s\u0103 te adresezi majorit\u0103\u021bii \u0219i s\u0103 impui standarde. Doar c\u0103, exist\u0103 situa\u021bii \u00een care nu reu\u0219im s\u0103 ne \u00eencadr\u0103m \u00een majoritate (\u0219i nici \u00een standarde). \u0218i ce facem \u00een astfel de situa\u021bii? Dac\u0103 nou\u0103 nu ni se potrivesc standardele sociale \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu facem parte din societate? Sau ar trebui s\u0103 fim izola\u021bi din acest motiv?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 nu suntem to\u021bi la fel nu are cum s\u0103 existe o re\u021bet\u0103 valabil\u0103 pentru to\u021bi. Faptul c\u0103 unii dintre noi reu\u0219esc, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 to\u021bi vom reu\u0219i (urmeaz\u0103 s\u0103 scriu un articol \u0219i despre no\u021biunea de reu\u0219it\u0103, pentru c\u0103 percep\u021bia asupra acestui termen este foarte diferit\u0103), dac\u0103 unii au success, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 to\u021bi putem avea succes, dac\u0103 unii au (sau par s\u0103 aib\u0103) totul, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 to\u021bi avem totul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uneori, am impresia c\u0103 tr\u0103im vie\u021bile altora, pentru c\u0103 ne l\u0103s\u0103m influen\u021ba\u021bi de ei \u0219i nu ne tr\u0103im propriile vie\u021bi. Este firesc s\u0103 existe influen\u021be din partea factorilor \u00eenconjur\u0103tori \u0219i a multor al\u021bi factori (familiali, sociali, financiari etc), dar nu este \u00een regul\u0103 c\u00e2nd ne croim via\u021ba pentru a ob\u021bine lucruri cu care vrem s\u0103 ne l\u0103ud\u0103m \u00een fa\u021ba celorlal\u021bi. Nu este s\u0103n\u0103tos s\u0103 lupt\u0103m \u00een via\u021b\u0103 pentru lucruri pe care nu ni le dorim pentru ele, ci ni le dorim pentru c\u0103 le vor \u0219i al\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate c\u0103 nu ar fi r\u0103u s\u0103 nu mai alerg\u0103m dup\u0103 ce alearg\u0103 to\u021bi ceilal\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 ne stabilim propriile \u021binte, s\u0103 lupt\u0103m pentru lucrurile \u00een care chiar credem \u0219i pe care le dorim cu adev\u0103rat \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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