{"id":2286,"date":"2024-05-09T17:32:51","date_gmt":"2024-05-09T14:32:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2286"},"modified":"2024-12-29T11:19:20","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T09:19:20","slug":"despre-zile-in-care-nu-pot-sa-iau-decizii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2286","title":{"rendered":"Despre zile \u00een care nu pot s\u0103 iau decizii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i altora, dar eu am zile \u00een care nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 m\u0103 hot\u0103r\u0103sc asupra unor lucruri elementare, zile \u00een care a lua o decizie pe care, de obicei, o iau foarte repede \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 analizez prea mult, pur \u0219i simplu nu o pot lua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd a lua o decizie este un efort extrem de mare pentru mine \u0219i, \u00een unele zile, nu g\u0103sesc puterea de a face acest efort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De obicei, a lua o decizie nu este o problem\u0103 pentru mine. M\u0103 hot\u0103r\u0103sc repede (sau destul de repede), \u0219tiu ce vreau, evaluez posbilit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eendrept spre ceea ce \u00eemi doresc. Probleme apar \u00een zilele \u00een care nu \u0219tiu ce vreau, c\u00e2nd parc\u0103 a\u0219 vrea totul \u0219i nimic, \u00een acela\u0219i timp, c\u00e2nd g\u0103sesc defecte oricui \u0219i oric\u00e2nd sau c\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2nt\u0103, prea repede, orice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am zile c\u00e2nd nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 m\u0103 hot\u0103r\u0103sc ce fel de cafea vreau (am scris despre luarea deciziilor \u0219i despre un moment dintr-un film celebru privind acest lucru \u00een articolul din 8 mai 2022 https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=923<\/a>), f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 am un motiv anume (poate c\u0103 se termin\u0103 num\u0103rul de decizii alocat pentru s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na respectiv\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd vine momentul hot\u0103r\u00e2rii nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac? Uneori am ajuns s\u0103 privesc lucrurile \u0219i din acest punct de vedere).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uneori, am senza\u021bia c\u0103, \u00een astfel de zile, nu vreau s\u0103 iau decizii, adic\u0103 nu vreau s\u0103 \u00eemi asum r\u0103spunderea pentru ce aduce cu ea respectiva decizie, nu vreau s\u0103 suport consecin\u021bele deciziei mele zilele urm\u0103toare \u0219i s\u0103 stabilesc c\u0103 a\u0219 fi putut lua o decizie mai bun\u0103, nu vreau s\u0103 mai analizez at\u00e2t de mult lucrurile pe care le fac \u0219i pe care le spun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi ne dorim, la un moment dat, o pauz\u0103 de la grijile zilnice, problemele cotidiene, programul \u00eenc\u0103rcat, sarcinile pe care le avem de efectuat. S-ar putea ca zilele \u00een care nu pot s\u0103 iau decizii (nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 iau decizii) s\u0103 fie zilele \u00een care vreau o pauz\u0103 de la rutin\u0103 sau de la momentele obi\u0219nuite ale vie\u021bii mele, dar care \u00eemi dau st\u0103ri mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Suntem cu to\u021bii oameni \u0219i avem \u0219i momente bune \u0219i momente mai pu\u021bin bune, \u0219i crize (de tot felul: emo\u021bionale, profesionale, psihologice, financiare, sociale etc), dar \u0219i perioade \u00een care totul merge strun\u0103 \u0219i ne trezim c\u0103 avem tot ce ne dorim (sau ce ne-am putea dori) pe toate planurile (sau \u00een domeniile care sunt importante pentru noi la momentul respectiv).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i altora, dar eu am zile \u00een care nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 m\u0103 hot\u0103r\u0103sc asupra unor lucruri elementare, zile \u00een care a lua o …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2286"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2286"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2286\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2765,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2286\/revisions\/2765"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2286"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2286"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2286"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}