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M-am trezit \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 acest lucru c\u00e2nd am v\u0103zut c\u0103 oamenii vor s\u0103 se protejeze de orice, tot timpul. Sunt dispu\u0219i s\u0103 se \u00eenconjoare de ziduri \u0219i gratii (\u0219i la propriu \u0219i la figurat) pentru a nu avea de suferit. Dar via\u021ba este alc\u0103tuit\u0103 din momente fericite \u0219i momente mai pu\u021bin fericite, din momente frumoase \u0219i momente mai pu\u021bin frumoase, din momente bune \u0219i momente mai pu\u021bin bune, din dragoste \u0219i suferin\u021b\u0103. Din c\u00e2te am observat, mai repede \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m din p\u0103r\u021bile mai pu\u021bin bune, dec\u00e2t din p\u0103r\u021bile bune. \u0218i atunci de ce oamenii nu mai vor s\u0103 ri\u0219te? De ce nu mai vor s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc? De ce accept\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 sentimente puternice?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am ajuns exper\u021bi \u00een a ne proteja de toate lucrurile (\u0219i persoanele) care ne-ar putea face vulnerabili sau care ne-ar putea r\u0103ni, doar c\u0103, ocolind situa\u021biile care ne-ar fi putut afecta \u00een vreun fel, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 nu mai aim\u021bim, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 ocolim sentimente pl\u0103cute, oameni frumo\u0219i sau situa\u021bii care ar fi putut duce la momente pe care s\u0103 le pre\u021buim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am ajuns exper\u021bi \u00een a face ceea ce ni se cere s\u0103 facem, \u00een a lega rela\u021bii sau alian\u021be care ne avantajeaz\u0103, \u00een a planifica \u0219i organiza aproape totul, \u00eenc\u00e2t, atunci c\u00e2nd ceva sau cineva face ceva nou sau la care nu ne-am a\u0219teptat, nu \u0219tim cum s\u0103 reac\u021bion\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uit\u0103m c\u0103 avem o singur\u0103 via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 tot evit\u00e2nd s\u0103 sim\u021bim ceva ajungem la finalul vie\u021bii \u0219i ne trezim \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-ne de ce (pentru ce?) am tr\u0103it \u0219i dac\u0103 a meritat s\u0103 tr\u0103im astfel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 ne este team\u0103 s\u0103 nu cumva s\u0103 suferim, alegem s\u0103 facem lucrurile sigure, a\u0219a cum ne spun al\u021bii, a\u0219a cum fac al\u021bii, a\u0219a cum recomand\u0103 al\u021bii. Nu mai avem propriile experien\u021be de via\u021b\u0103, le tr\u0103im pe ale altora \u0219i nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 identific\u0103m st\u0103rile noastre, sentimentele noastre, pentru c\u0103 a trecut prea mult timp de c\u00e2nd am sim\u021bit ceva sau pentru c\u0103 nu am sim\u021bit vreodat\u0103 ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De\u0219i \u00een societatea de azi se vorbe\u0219te mult despre dezvoltarea personal\u0103, despre introspec\u021bie, despre identificarea cauzelor problemelor emo\u021bionale \u0219i psihologice ale oamenilor, \u00een realitate ni se insufl\u0103 un anumit standard de via\u021b\u0103, ni se arat\u0103 modele de via\u021b\u0103 pe care s\u0103 le urm\u0103m \u0219i ni se spune cum s\u0103 nu ajungem s\u0103 suferim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Problema este c\u0103 oamenii de azi, care nu mai vor s\u0103 mai depun\u0103 vreun efort de vreun fel, nu mai \u0219tiu (nu mai sunt \u00een stare) s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 fac\u0103 singuri lucruri, ci vor totul repede, cu rezultate imediate. Ori via\u021ba nu poate fi tr\u0103it\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 a lupta, f\u0103r\u0103 a sim\u021bi ceva \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 a avea c\u00e2te pu\u021bin din toate \u0219i bune \u0219i rele.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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