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Poate c\u0103 nu to\u021bi am realizat c\u0103 nu ne sim\u021bim bine \u00een propria noastr\u0103 via\u021b\u0103 sau \u00een propria noastr\u0103 piele, dar sigur to\u021bi am experimentat momente \u00een care nu ne \u00een\u021belegeam cu nimeni \u0219i nu pentru c\u0103 eram obosi\u021bi (epuiza\u021bi) sau agita\u021bi, ci pentru c\u0103 sim\u021beam c\u0103 ceva nu era \u00een regul\u0103 \u0219i eram nemul\u021bumi\u021bi de acest lucru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De\u0219i spunem c\u0103 lupt\u0103m pentru o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103. de\u0219i declar\u0103m c\u0103 ne intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bim calitatea vie\u021bii pe care o tr\u0103im, de multe ori, ne pierdem \u00een cotidian, ne pierdem \u00een grijile \u0219i problemele zilnice (ale noastre sau ale celor apropia\u021bi) \u0219i ne \u00eendep\u0103rt\u0103m de obiectivele propuse p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eentr-acolo \u00eenc\u00e2t nu ne mai reg\u0103sim \u00een ceea ce tr\u0103im zilnic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Altfel nu \u00eemi pot explica de ce oamenii maturi, atunci c\u00e2nd fac o analiz\u0103 simpl\u0103, ajung s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 nu le place via\u021ba lor, c\u00ee nu se simt bine \u00een propria piele \u0219i c\u0103 vor s\u0103 fac\u0103 schimb\u0103ri (uneori radicale).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Av\u00e2nd at\u00e2t de multe lucruri de f\u0103cut, av\u00e2nd at\u00e2t de multe lucruri de cump\u0103rat \u0219i d epl\u0103tit, av\u00e2nd at\u00e2t d emulte obliga\u021bii \u0219i \u00eendatoriri, av\u00e2nd at\u00e2t d emulte griji, uit\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103im. Uit\u0103m s\u0103 ne conducem propria via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i ajungem s\u0103 tr\u0103im o via\u021b\u0103 care nu este a noastr\u0103. O via\u021b\u0103 \u00een care nu ne recunoa\u0219tem pe noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i \u00een care nu ne sim\u021bim \u00een largul nostrum. O via\u021b\u0103 care nu este a noastr\u0103, nu ne apar\u021bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i ajung \u00eencet-\u00eencet s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb: cum \u0219i de ce ajungem \u00een astfel de situa\u021bii? Nu cumva este doar vina noastr\u0103 c\u0103 am ajuns aici? Nu cumva ar fi trebuit s\u0103 analiz\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 evalu\u0103m totul mai devreme, pentru ca s\u0103 nu ajungem aici? Nu cumva ne complacem \u0219i noi \u00een existen\u021ba aceasta simpl\u0103, care nu ne caracterizeaz\u0103, dar care ne ofer\u0103 un anumit grad de confort \u0219i o fals\u0103 siguran\u021b\u0103 care ne este suficient\u0103 la un moment dat, dup\u0103 care nu ne mai este suficient\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este nepl\u0103cut s\u0103 te treze\u0219ti, la un moment dat, c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti tu la conducerea propriei vie\u021bi sau c\u0103 nu iei tu deciziile importante pentru tine. Mai ales c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti matur \u0219i c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti con\u0219tient de consecin\u021bele alegerilor tale – \u0219i de cele bune \u0219i de cele mai pu\u021bin bune – \u0219i e\u0219ti preg\u0103tit s\u0103 \u021bi le asumi \u0219i pe unele \u0219i pe celelalte. Este frustrant c\u00e2nd consta\u021bi c\u0103 de\u0219i este via\u021ba ta, al\u021bii sunt mai importan\u021bi dec\u00e2t tine sau al\u021bii iau deciziile pentru tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a c\u0103 nu este deloc pl\u0103cut atunci c\u00e2nd nu \u00ee\u021bi g\u0103se\u0219ti locul \u00een propria ta via\u021b\u0103. Poate dac\u0103 am fi sincere cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, dac\u0103 am recunoa\u0219te ce este bun \u0219i ce este mai pu\u021bin bun \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i dac\u0103 ne-am asuma deciziile pe care le-am luat \u0219i pe care le lu\u0103m, am reu\u0219i s\u0103 avem controlul asupra vie\u021bii noastre \u0219i s\u0103 construim acea via\u021b\u0103 \u00een care ne sim\u021bim bine fiind noi \u00een\u0219ine.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Poate c\u0103 nu to\u021bi am realizat c\u0103 nu ne sim\u021bim bine \u00een propria noastr\u0103 via\u021b\u0103 sau \u00een propria noastr\u0103 piele, dar sigur to\u021bi am experimentat momente \u00een care nu ne …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2235"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2235"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2235\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2236,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2235\/revisions\/2236"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}