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Am auzit aceast\u0103 expresie \u00eentr-un film \u0219i mi-a r\u0103mas cumva g\u00e2ndul la ea. Pentru c\u0103 noi credem c\u0103 via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 v\u00e2rsta pe care o avem \u0219i anii pe care i-am trecut p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een prezent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar via\u021ba noastr\u0103 nu este marcat\u0103 doar de trecerea timpului. Putem s\u0103 avem 40 de ani \u0219i s\u0103 ne comport\u0103m ca ni\u0219te adolescen\u021bi sau putem s\u0103 fim adolescen\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim ca ni\u0219te oameni maturi. Cu alte cuvinte nu trebuie s\u0103 corespundem unei anumite perioade de timp ca s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim bine \u00een pielea noastr\u0103. Sau nu trebuie s\u0103 ne comport\u0103m \u00eentr-un anume fel pentru c\u0103 ne judec\u0103 ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Via\u021ba ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eensemne altceva. \u0218i mi-a pl\u0103cut cum a spus personajul din serial (cred c\u0103 un film serial) c\u0103 via\u021ba noastr\u0103 este un \u0219ir de momente pe care le pre\u021buim, nu doar pentru c\u0103 sunt trec\u0103toare, ci pentru c\u0103 alc\u0103tuiesc via\u021ba noastr\u0103 (sau ceea ce ne place s\u0103 numim via\u021ba noastr\u0103).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00een realitate \u0219i avem nevoie de o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de lucruri ca s\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00een lumea de azi, trebuie s\u0103 muncim pentru a avea posibilitatea de a ne permite toate aecste lucruri (educa\u021bie, acces la tot felul de facilit\u0103\u021bi etc). \u0218i concentr\u00e2ndu-ne pe ziua de m\u00e2ine sau pe ceea c ear trebui s\u0103 avem zilele urm\u0103toare, \u00eencepem s\u0103 uit\u0103m de noi \u00een\u0219ine. Uit\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103im. Doar exist\u0103m \u0219i at\u00e2t. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai privim \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine, nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai fim sincere cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, nu mai \u0219tim ce vrem, nu mai \u0219tim ce (sau \u00een ce) s\u0103 credem, ne l\u0103s\u0103m purta\u021bi de ceilal\u021bi \u0219i de priorit\u0103\u021bile impuse de al\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar ce facem c\u00e2nd lucrurile pe care \u0219i le doresc al\u021bii (majoritatea), nu ni se potrivesc nou\u0103? C\u00e2nd aceste priorit\u0103\u021bi nu ne satisfac nevoile? C\u00e2nd nu ne reg\u0103sim \u00een ceea ce stabilesc al\u021bii c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fim sau s\u0103 avem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne reg\u0103sim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine? Oare mai este posibil s\u0103 ajungem la persoana din interiorul \u0219i s\u0103 reu\u0219im s\u0103 afl\u0103m ce \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te cu adev\u0103rat de la via\u021ba \u0219i cum vrea s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 adun\u0103m c\u00e2t mai multe momente frumoase pe care s\u0103 le pre\u021buim \u00een anii b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bii? Atunci c\u00e2nd privim \u00een urm\u0103 \u0219i evalu\u0103m ce am f\u0103cut \u0219i ce am avut, suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 spunem (s\u0103 declar\u0103m) c\u0103 nu am tr\u0103it degeaba?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ce sens mai are via\u021ba dac\u0103, la finalul ei, constat\u0103m c\u0103 nu am tr\u0103it via\u021ba noastr\u0103, ci via\u021ba celor care ne-au impus s\u0103 atingem obiective sau a celor care au crezut c\u0103 \u0219tiu mai bine dec\u00e2t noi ce ne dorim \u00een via\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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