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M\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam, zilele trecute, la acest lucru. Am reu\u0219it s\u0103 accept\u0103m \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 tot felul de ma\u0219ini \u0219i utilaje care fac ceea ce f\u0103ceau str\u0103mo\u0219ii no\u0219tri, adic\u0103 ne fac munca, dar ce facem cu timpul care ne-a r\u0103mas la dispozi\u021bie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Printre multe alte posibile r\u0103spunsurila aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare, \u00een ultimul timp am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 oamenii au astfel mai mult timp ca s\u0103 r\u0103neasc\u0103 unii pe al\u021bii, ca s\u0103 se urasc\u0103 unii pe al\u021bii, ca s\u0103 le doreasc\u0103 altora s\u0103 li se \u00eent\u00e2mple lucruri nepl\u0103cute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen mod normal, oamenii atunci c\u00e2nd au timp liber fac lucruri care le palc, al\u0103turi de oameni dragi. Doar c\u0103 nu prea se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acest lucru. \u00cen societatea de azi, se crede c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 dispui de mul\u021bi bani ca s\u0103 te bucuri de via\u021b\u0103, iar oamenii \u00ee\u0219i petrec fiecare clip\u0103 liber\u0103 pentru a mai ob\u021bine o surs\u0103 de venit, pentru a mai strange bani pentru a se r\u0103sf\u0103\u021ba mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Problema este c\u0103 oamenii nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 se relaxeza \u0219i s\u0103 se bucure de ceea ce au. V\u0103z\u00e2nd cum tr\u0103iesc al\u021bii sau cum le arat\u0103 al\u021bii c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc, \u0219i fiind nemul\u021bumi\u021bi de cum tr\u0103iesc ei, ajung s\u0103 \u00eei \u00eenvidieze sau s\u0103 \u00eei urasc\u0103 pe cei care arat\u0103 c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i permit lucruri scumpe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi, la un moment dat, ne-am dorit lucruri pe care le-am v\u0103zut la al\u021bi oameni, care ori nu \u0219tiau ori nu meritau (din punctul nostrum de vedere) s\u0103 se bucure de ele. Iar de aici p\u00e2n\u0103 la invidie sau r\u0103utate nu este dec\u00e2t un pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen societatea de azi se promoveaz\u0103 oamenii ironici, care \u00eei fac pe al\u021bii s\u0103 se simt\u0103 prost (uneori chiar \u00eei umilesc) sau care promoveaz\u0103 tot felul de sentimente negative (resentimente?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Parc\u0103 suntem \u00eencuraja\u021bi s\u0103 ne izol\u0103m din ce \u00een ce mai mult unii de al\u021bii, s\u0103 ne r\u0103cim unii de al\u021bii, s\u0103 nu socializ\u0103m dec\u00e2t pe re\u021belele de socializare, nu fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103. Iar oamenii din spatele laptop-urilor nu sunt adev\u0103ra\u021bi (reali), ci a\u0219a cum cred ei c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fie, a\u0219a cum vor al\u021bii s\u0103 fie sau a\u0219a cum li se cere s\u0103 fie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i, de multe ori, oamenii se pierd (pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i, dar \u0219i contactul cu realitatea) \u00een lumea virtual\u0103, uit\u0103 c\u0103 \u0219i cel\u0103lalt este o persoan\u0103 ca \u0219i el, cu sentimente, cu probleme, cu griji \u0219i \u00eel transform\u0103 \u00eentr-o \u021bint\u0103 sau \u00een cineva care este obligat s\u0103 \u00eei suporte crizele de nervi, reful\u0103rile etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ca s\u0103 r\u0103spund \u00eentreb\u0103rii din titlul articolului: poate c\u0103 tot acest timp liber pe care ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eel avem (uneori \u00eel avem, alteori nu \u00eel avem) nu ne face neap\u0103rat mai r\u0103i, dar sigur nu ne face nici mai buni.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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