{"id":2188,"date":"2024-03-18T17:36:54","date_gmt":"2024-03-18T15:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2188"},"modified":"2024-03-18T17:37:34","modified_gmt":"2024-03-18T15:37:34","slug":"stim-sa-avem-rabdare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2188","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tim s\u0103 avem r\u0103bdare?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care totul se face \u00een vitez\u0103, \u00een care un minut de a\u0219teptare este privit ca un minut pierdut, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care totul este permanent \u00een mi\u0219care, mai \u0219tim ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 r\u0103bdarea? Mai \u0219tim s\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m pu\u021bin \u00eenainte de a reac\u021biona sau de a ac\u021biona \u00een vreun fel? Mai \u0219tim s\u0103 privim oamenii \u0219i lucrurile cu aten\u021bie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ca s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 dau un r\u0103spuns \u00eentreb\u0103rii din titlul articolului: cred c\u0103 oamenii de azi nu mai \u0219tiu ce este r\u0103bdarea sau prea pu\u021bini mai au acest cuv\u00e2nt \u00een vocabular sau \u0219tiu ce este r\u0103bdarea. Suntem at\u00e2t de prin\u0219i \u00een grijile noastre cotidiene, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu \u0219tim s\u0103 ne relax\u0103m \u0219i nu \u0219tim s\u0103 avem r\u0103bdare cu ceilal\u021bi sau cu noi \u00een\u0219ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De multe ori, conflictele care izbucnesc \u00eentre oameni pornesc de la lipsa de comunicare, dar \u0219i de la lipsa r\u0103bd\u0103rii. Nu suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 altcineva poate reac\u021biona mai greu la solicitarea noastr\u0103 sau la ceea ce spunem, nu \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 ceilal\u021bi sunt diferi\u021bi de noi, se raporteaz\u0103 la lucruri (principii, standard etc) diferite \u0219i, ca s\u0103 putem s\u0103 convie\u021buim \u00eempreun\u0103, ar trebui s\u0103 le acord\u0103m pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 aten\u021bie, timp \u0219i capacitatea de a ne pune \u00een locul lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen lumea de azi totul trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 repede, s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple repede, s\u0103 se termine repede, ca s\u0103 trecem la urm\u0103torul lucru. Am senza\u021bia c\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o soecietate \u00een care primeasx\u0103 cantitatea \u00een fa\u021ba calit\u0103\u021bii. Trebuie s\u0103 facem multe, s\u0103 ne pricepem la c\u00e2t mai multe, s\u0103 avem timpul mereu ocupat cu c\u00e2te o activitate \u0219i s\u0103 nu avem timp pentru noi. Iar eu resimt lipsa calit\u0103\u021bii \u00een toate lucrurile care m\u0103 \u00een \u00eenjoar\u0103, dar \u0219i \u00een majoritatea oamenilor cu care intru \u00een contact. Dar deja intru \u00een subiectul unui alt (posibil) articol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ie\u0219im din starea de agita\u021bie, nu avem cum s\u0103 mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim r\u0103bd\u0103tori. De multe ori, de\u0219i \u0219tiu c\u0103 sunt lucruri care necesit\u0103 timp pentru a fi f\u0103cute (construite sau ridicate), preiau agita\u021bia celor din jur \u0219i am preten\u021bia s\u0103 am acces la ele sau le primesc repede. Abia c\u00e2nd reu\u0219esc s\u0103 m\u0103 lini\u0219tesc, realizez c\u0103 solicitarea mea era deplasat\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 voi primi lucruri de calitate dac\u0103 a\u0219tept s\u0103 fie realizate \u00een mod corespunz\u0103tor (profesionist).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chiar \u0219i oamenii mai calmi din jurul meu se las\u0103 lua\u021bi de valul vitezei vie\u021bii cotidiene \u0219i se trezesc \u00een tot felul de situa\u021bii mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Crde c\u0103 nu \u0219tim s\u0103 avem r\u0103bdare cu cei din jurul nostru, cu lucrurile din jurul nostru, dar dac\u0103 am \u00eencerca s\u0103 nu tr\u0103im instant \u0219i s\u0103 cerem ca totul s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple imediat, poate am constata c\u0103 a crescut calitatea vie\u021bii noastre.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care totul se face \u00een vitez\u0103, \u00een care un minut de a\u0219teptare este privit ca un minut pierdut, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care totul este permanent \u00een mi\u0219care, &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2188"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2188"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2188\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2190,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2188\/revisions\/2190"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2188"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2188"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2188"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}