{"id":2184,"date":"2024-03-14T16:36:26","date_gmt":"2024-03-14T14:36:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2184"},"modified":"2024-03-14T16:36:26","modified_gmt":"2024-03-14T14:36:26","slug":"de-ce-primul-nostru-gand-in-orice-situatie-este-negativ","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2184","title":{"rendered":"De ce primul nostru g\u00e2nd, \u00een orice situa\u021bie, este negativ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u021bi observat c\u0103 oamenii au tendin\u021ba de a g\u00e2ndi negativ sau de a reac\u021biona negativ \u00een orice situa\u021bie cu care se confrunt\u0103? Parc\u0103 nu mai exist\u0103 lucruri bune pe lumea aceasta. Sau nu mai cred oamenii c\u0103 mai exist\u0103 \u0219i lucruri bune pe lumea aceasta. At\u00e2t de ancora\u021bi \u00een realitatea social\u0103, oamenii de azi \u0219i-au pierdut speran\u021ba?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tr\u0103im vremuri \u00een care oamenii se a\u0219teapt\u0103 la ce este mai r\u0103u de la semenii lor, iar c\u00e2nd li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 lucruri bune sau frumoase le consider\u0103 accidente sau excep\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am impresia c\u0103 oamenii de azi nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 cread\u0103 \u00een partea bun\u0103 a vie\u021bii, c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 se a\u0219tepte la lucruri frumoase. \u0218i cred c\u0103, din aceste motive, via\u021ba lor este tare searb\u0103d\u0103 \u0219i trist\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 tr\u0103im vremuri \u00een care totul trebuie s\u0103 fie programat, planificat, vremuri \u00een care totul se realizeaz\u0103 cu o strategie, vremuri \u00een care toate sunt f\u0103cute \u00een urma unor preg\u0103tiri, nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 facem fa\u021b\u0103 imprevizibilului sau lucrurilor pe care nu le putem controla, dar care ne afecateaz\u0103 via\u021ba. \u0218i, \u00een loc s\u0103 accepte c\u0103 exist\u0103, pe lumea aceasta, \u0219i astfel de situa\u021bii, oamenii cred c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu au realizat ceea ce \u0219i-au propus, de vin\u0103 este altcineva (o persoan\u0103 sau soarta potrivnic\u0103).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunt pu\u021bini oameni care \u0219i-au p\u0103strat \u00eencrederea \u00een partea frumoas\u0103 a vie\u021bii. Sunt cei care z\u00e2mbesc des (pentru c\u0103 au motiv, nu pentru c\u0103 scrie \u00een fi\u0219a postului), care sunt deschi\u0219i \u00een a-i cunoa\u0219te pe ceilal\u021bi \u0219i a g\u0103si \u00een ei lucrurile bune. Sunt cei care sunt optimi\u0219ti \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu via\u021ba lor \u0219i cu planurile din present \u0219i din viitor, dar nu sunt rup\u021bi de realitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii de azi sunt tri\u0219ti, nervo\u0219i, sup\u0103ra\u021bi, depresivi mereu concentra\u021bi la altceva dec\u00e2t momentul present, mereu aten\u021bi la altcineva dec\u00e2t cei din fa\u021ba lor, mereu neaten\u021bi la via\u021ba lor \u0219i la ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 (cu adev\u0103rat) cu lumea lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Scriam \u0219i \u00een alte articole despre c\u00e2t de mult s-au \u00eenmul\u021bit farmaciile \u0219i cum c\u0103ut\u0103m mereu remedii rapide la situa\u021bii (st\u0103ri) care ar trebui l\u0103sate s\u0103 se l\u0103mureasc\u0103 (vindece) de la sine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen loc s\u0103 privim \u00een interior \u0219i s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m cauza problemei\/problemelor, ac\u021bion\u0103m asupra consecin\u021belor (rezultatelor) lucrurilor care ne afecteaz\u0103 (ne fac r\u0103u) \u0219i, \u00een loc s\u0103 trat\u0103m cauza, prefer\u0103m s\u0103 lu\u0103m medicamente sau s\u0103 aplic\u0103m solu\u021bii rapide, care nu fac dec\u00e2t s\u0103 am\u00e2ne confruntarea (\u00eentr-o form\u0103 sau alta) cu ceea ce a dus la problema respectiv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Concluzia? Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai credem \u00een noi. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai credem \u00een oameni. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai credem \u00een lumea \u00een care tr\u0103im.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A\u021bi observat c\u0103 oamenii au tendin\u021ba de a g\u00e2ndi negativ sau de a reac\u021biona negativ \u00een orice situa\u021bie cu care se confrunt\u0103? Parc\u0103 nu mai exist\u0103 lucruri bune pe lumea &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2184"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2184"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2184\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2185,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2184\/revisions\/2185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2184"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2184"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2184"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}