{"id":2182,"date":"2024-03-13T19:17:53","date_gmt":"2024-03-13T17:17:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2182"},"modified":"2024-03-13T19:17:53","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T17:17:53","slug":"stim-sa-nu-ne-enervam-din-orice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2182","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tim s\u0103 nu ne enerv\u0103m din orice?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obi\u0219nui\u021bi cu ritmul vie\u021bii noastre, cu alergatul dup\u0103 o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de lucruri, cu faptul c\u0103 suntem tot timpul ocupa\u021bi \u0219i mereu \u00een lupt\u0103 cu timpul (care parc\u0103 nu ne mai ajunge s\u0103 facem tot ce am vrea s\u0103 facem), putem s\u0103 fim mai calmi? Adic\u0103 suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 nu ne enerv\u0103m din orice? Putem s\u0103 privim lucrurile \u0219i deta\u0219a\u021bi, nu doar extrem de implica\u021bi \u0219i extrem de agita\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cel mai simplu ar fi s\u0103 privim traficul c\u00e2teva momente \u0219i am avea un r\u0103spuns clar \u0219i rapid la aceste \u00eentreb\u0103ri: NU. Dar nu despre trafic este vorba \u00een articolul de azi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 vrem ca totul s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare repede sau s\u0103 se termine repede, pentru c\u0103 ne a\u0219tept\u0103m ca totul s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple a\u0219a cum ne-am imaginat, pentru c\u0103 nu avem r\u0103bdare pentru nimeni \u0219i pentru nimic, orice ne perturb\u0103 aten\u021bia, concentrarea sau activitatea ne scoate din s\u0103rite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 avem r\u0103bdare sau s\u0103 num\u0103r\u0103m p\u00e2n\u0103 la 10 \u00eenainte s\u0103 ne enerv\u0103m sau s\u0103 explod\u0103m de nervi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii de azi par (sunt?) mereu agita\u021bi \u0219i nervo\u0219i. Nu au r\u0103bdare s\u0103 \u00eei asculte p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t pe ceilal\u021bi, nu au r\u0103bdare s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 atent \u00een jur, nu au r\u0103bdare s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 instruc\u021biunile de folosire pentru lucruri noi \u0219i nici s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 explica\u021biile pe care le ofer\u0103 ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Parc\u0103 sunt permanent \u00een pragul unei crize de nervi \u0219i nu au nevoie de prea multe provoc\u0103ri pentru a izbucni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 revin la \u00eentrebarea din titlu: \u0219tim s\u0103 nu ne enerv\u0103m din orice? Adic\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 ne control\u0103m emo\u021biile negative \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103im zile f\u0103r\u0103 nervozitate?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 r\u0103spunsul este foarte simplu \u0219i a mai fost spus o dat\u0103 \u00een acest articol: nu, nu cred c\u0103 oamenii \u0219tiu s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i p\u0103streze r\u0103bdarea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avem tendin\u021ba s\u0103 ne enerv\u0103m din orice, oric\u00e2nd. Ni se pare c\u0103 to\u021bi \u0219i toate sunt \u00eempotriva noastr\u0103 sau ne dau motive s\u0103 ne enerv\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suntem at\u00e2t de prin\u0219i \u00een ceea ce numim noi via\u021b\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne deta\u0219\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 prioritiz\u0103m lucrurile. Ne pierdem \u00een lucrurile care ne irit\u0103 \u0219i pierdem din vedere faptul c\u0103 de noi depinde calitatea vie\u021bii noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 suntem mereu nervo\u0219i, agita\u021bi, \u00eencr\u00e2ncena\u021bi, sup\u0103ra\u021bi, despre ce calitate a vie\u021bii am mai putea vorbi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 nu avem r\u0103bdare nici m\u0103car \u00een rela\u021bia cu cei dragi, despre ce fel de via\u021b\u0103 mai vorbim?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate nu ar fi r\u0103u ca, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, s\u0103 ne mai control\u0103m emo\u021biile negative \u0219i s\u0103 investim energie \u0219i resurse \u00een situa\u021biile cu adev\u0103rat importante \u0219i s\u0103 nu ne pierdem \u00een lucruri pu\u021bin importante \u0219i superficiale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Obi\u0219nui\u021bi cu ritmul vie\u021bii noastre, cu alergatul dup\u0103 o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de lucruri, cu faptul c\u0103 suntem tot timpul ocupa\u021bi \u0219i mereu \u00een lupt\u0103 cu timpul (care parc\u0103 nu ne mai &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2182"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2182"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2182\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2183,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2182\/revisions\/2183"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2182"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2182"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2182"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}