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Tr\u0103im vremuri c\u00e2nd lumea tr\u0103ie\u0219te online (deci public). C\u00e2nd totul se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 online \u0219i c\u00e2nd toat\u0103 lumea vrea s\u0103 arate c\u00e2t de bine o duce (ce are, unde st\u0103, pe und ese plimb\u0103, cu cine se plimb\u0103, cu ce se plimb\u0103 etc).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u0103im vremuri c\u00e2nd to\u021bi vor s\u0103 dea exemple, c\u00e2nd toat\u0103 lumea are proiecte sociale \u0219i c\u00e2nd to\u021bi vrem s\u0103 fim altceva (altcineva?) dec\u00e2t suntem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen toat\u0103 nebunia aceasta, ne trezim c\u0103 ne dorim s\u0103 avem vie\u021bile pe care vedem pe re\u021belele de socializare c\u0103 le duc al\u021bii. \u0218i am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb de ce ne dorim vie\u021bile altora?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 suntem nemul\u021bumi\u021bi de vie\u021bile pe care le avem (le-am construit)? Ne nemul\u021biume\u0219te ce avem sau ce nu avem? De unde vine nevoia aceasta de a tr\u0103i via\u021ba altcuiva? Nu cumva noi ne-am construit singuri vie\u021bile pe care le tr\u0103im \u0219i ar trebui s\u0103 ne mul\u021bumim cu ele?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 vrem mai mult dec\u00eet avem? Este \u00een natura uman\u0103 s\u0103 vrea, mereu, mai mult, \u0219i, din acest motiv, ne dorim ceea ce au al\u021bii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 nu am reu\u0219it s\u0103 avem ceea ce credeam c\u0103 merit\u0103m s\u0103 avem sau ceea ce ar fi trebuit s\u0103 avem, din punctul nostru de vedere?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 ne deranjeaz\u0103 c\u0103 unii au mai mult (din ceea ce se vede \u00een mediul online), iar noi nu am ajuns la nivelul lor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i cred c\u0103 mai pot g\u0103si c\u00e2teva variante de posibile r\u0103spunsuri. B\u0103nuiesc c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi are propria variant de r\u0103spuns la \u00eentrebarea din titlul articolului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg mentalitatea oamenilor care nu v\u0103d ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een propria via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i declar\u0103 c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i doresc s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 precum cei care se cred modele de via\u021b\u0103 din mediul online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2t de s\u0103rac (spiritual, emo\u021bional, social \u0219i financiar) trebuie s\u0103 fi ca s\u0103 nu vezi c\u00e2te lucruri ai realizat \u00een via\u021ba ta \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti via\u021ba altuia? De fapt, nu via\u021ba altuia, ci momentele din via\u021b\u0103 pe care o persoan\u0103 din online le face publice, vr\u00e2nd s\u0103 atra\u0103 aten\u021bia sau s\u0103 demonstreze c\u00e2t de important \u0219i de avut este.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De multe ori, cei care vor s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 vie\u021bile altora nu cunosc dec\u00e2t ceeea ce v\u0103d (adic\u0103 ceea ce aleg cei pe care ei \u00eei consider\u0103 modele, s\u0103 le arate) \u0219i nu \u0219tiu pre\u021bul pe care ace\u0219tia \u00eel pl\u0103tesc pentru a afi\u0219a acea via\u021b\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 griji, fericit\u0103, \u00eemplinit\u0103. Dar nu cunosc ce se ascunde \u00een spatele acelor imagini \u0219i acelei vie\u021bi aparent perfecte. Poate dac\u0103 ar \u0219ti, nu ar mai fi at\u00e2t de mul\u021bi oameni care s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i doreasc\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 via\u021ba altora, \u00een loc s\u0103 o tr\u0103iasc\u0103 pe a lor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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